"The Us Later": It is better to forget each other in the rivers and lakes than to help each other.

I went to see "The Last of Us" with two buddies yesterday, and we came out to chat about our thoughts. In a movie involving two couples and a dozen girls, we, the men sitting three times in the front row, felt out of place.

Mr. A is an emotional person. He did not offer any opinions or opinions, but only emphasized his experiences and feelings. He said that many of the plots in it have been experienced by him personally. Therefore, when he watched this movie, he relived many scenes from that year, as if he was watching himself.

Mr. B is a married man, and he only occasionally spends some time with us two bachelors from the hot bed with his wife and children. He can relate to those feelings and has some insights. He thought Jianqing was too depraved and played games every day, so Xiaoxiao left him. His wife also recently called him depraved and said he didn't know what she wanted.

And I asked them two questions. I think if you can't understand these two issues, you won't be able to understand this movie.

Of course, there are still some minor problems that need to be taken care of.

The two met because of their train tickets and happened to be from the same hometown. A boy and a girl, in their prime, return together in the wind and snow - such an encounter is not legendary enough, but tender enough. A simple emotion naturally sprouted in the hearts of the two of them.

There is only one irritant: Jianqing went to college for four years, and Xiaoxiao spent four years in society.

Xiaoxiao’s family only has a portrait of her deceased father, and her mother has already married abroad. When playing with Jianqing, Lin's father saw him and invited him to have New Year's Eve dinner together. During the meal, an aunt suddenly said that she wanted to find out where her future girlfriend came from.

An unintentional remark laid the foundation for ten years of hidden dangers. This sentence made Xiao Xiao's face stiffen, like a sharp parting hook that severed the bond between Xiao Xiao and Jian Qing. Therefore, Xiaoxiao and Jianqing took care of each other, but never asked Jianqing to be her boyfriend. But Jianqing didn't know this, so he watched Xiaoxiao change her boyfriend and could only bury his feelings deep in his heart. A serious misunderstanding arose, thinking that Xiaoxiao's biggest wish was to find a man to settle down in Beijing.

One of Mr. B’s opinions originated from an article. He believes that Xiaoxiao's family has left her lacking father's love, yearning for a sense of security, and having a soft spot for middle-aged men. This point of view can only explain why Xiaoxiao’s boyfriend is those people, but it cannot explain why he is not Jianqing. And such an image is pitifully thin. The article also said that Jianqing later turned into a scumbag...

(Many film critics today do not understand movies, and they even dare to admit it, but they write articles based on nonsense.)

If Xiaoxiao's inferiority complex cannot be relieved, she will never be with Jianqing. Therefore, they can only endure hardships, but not wealth.

The first train ticket in the movie led to the encounter between the two. In fact, there was a second train ticket, which ended the relationship between the two.

When Xiaoxiao looked through his game drafts and found a one-way train ticket when he saw Qing lose consecutively and hit a trough. Jian Qing wants to leave Beijing.

One ticket, only one person can go; one way, no return.

Xiaoxiao didn’t wait for Jianqing’s explanation, so she left. Jianqing always believed that their emotional crisis stemmed from a financial crisis, but in fact it stemmed from a crisis of trust.

(There is another saying that this train ticket is the same one from that year. Since the movie cannot be paused and replayed, I am not sure, but this does not make sense. For example, why did they suddenly break up. Again For example, the train tickets were kept by him, how could they appear in another person's draft many years later? )

On New Year's Eve after meeting Qing Fu, he hoped to save this relationship. However, because we don’t know the root cause, we can’t prescribe the right medicine.

The reason why Xiaoxiao agreed to accompany him back was actually just because of Father Lin. Jianqing sent many text messages, but only the one about her father hit the target - but Jianqing couldn't see Xiaoxiao's reaction, which was also the drawback of text communication.

Xiaoxiao lost his father as a young boy and yearned for love like Father Lin. Since Lin's father appeared, there has been no scene of Xiaoxiao's hometown in the movie.

The damage caused by the "Farewell Hook" back then was all repaired by Father Lin's New Year's goods. This is why Xiao Xiao eats the New Year's Eve dinner for Jian Qing because he "went in", and why after picking him up, the two of them can officially start. For Xiao Xiao, Lin's father's son would be willing to marry as long as he was not too scumbag, let alone someone she had always admired.

Even if Jianqing does not repair their crisis of trust, but continues to play Lin’s father’s emotional card, it is likely to be salvageable.

However, Jianqing is still too young and does not know how to communicate well. "Isn't it because I don't have a house?" "The damage of these words is greater than a tube of blood bar." Especially what he told her was a critical blow. Xiaoxiao's health bar was already at its lowest, and even if Lin's father had added a shield for several years, he still couldn't stop him.

"What I want is not a house, but a home." 』

"I am very fond of my ex-boyfriend." 』

This joke comes from the heart. After seeing Qing Fufa, Xiao Xiao always thought that she was dragging him down. Jian Qing "caught the moon in the sky and caught turtles in the five oceans" for her, but his career did not develop well. As soon as she left, it didn't take long for Jianqing to rise to prominence.

A person who has no sense of hunger will really starve to death. It’s really hard to concentrate when two people are crowded in a room. Not only was it difficult to concentrate on creating, but it was even impossible to concentrate on playing the game - halfway through the game, Jian Qing suddenly turned around and found that Xiao Xiao was missing.

If Xiaoxiao had not left, Jianqing would not be in pain, nor would he have the final piece of the inspiration puzzle, nor the space to focus on creation.

Therefore, it is better to forget each other in the world, even if there is no color in the world.

After the reunion on the plane, both of them asked each other a question.

"Have you ever loved me?" 』

If the acquaintance back then was just an illusion; the love in the past might also be a misunderstanding. Time is the most terrible brain poison, it can change the past beliefs. Maybe Jianqing is nothing but emptiness and loneliness, and Xiaoxiao is just cultivating his emotional pain. Maybe Jianqing never understood Xiaoxiao and only thought that she wanted to settle in Beijing; maybe Xiaoxiao only regarded Jianqing as a good thing and discarded it after using it up. When we meet strangers, the past is like smoke.

Xiaoxiao said: "I have always loved you." "Leaving is just for fulfillment."

Jian Qing was speechless because he already had a beloved wife and children.

Father Lin’s last letter home was plain and simple, but it made people cry.

(The gun version is really hard to find, the content is for reference only.)

After having the New Year’s Eve dinner for so many years, Lin’s father has long regarded her as his junior, not his daughter-in-law, but also daughter. Xiaoxiao already got what she wanted.

When Xiaoxiao finished Jianqing’s game, she finally saw the final ending. Ian finally found Kelly and took her home, and the world regained its color.

The game is completed after the breakup and before the farewell. In fact, Jianqing wanted to give her a home, but he just said "house". When emotions are aroused or when there is a fierce argument, it is difficult to express the meaning with words, and all we can do is hurt each other. What he wanted to give her was what she wanted, but she misunderstood and missed it.

In the end, the knot in their hearts was resolved, and the two of them were shouting from a distance on the top of a tall building, just like they were in the wind and snow that year.

While chatting, Mr. B and I suddenly discovered that Mr. A had fallen behind. A man is playing with his mobile phone and has not walked any further.

It turned out that the girl sitting next to him happened to be a colleague. The two were not familiar with each other before, but they had each other's WeChat accounts and were exchanging movie-watching experiences.

What a fate!

Mr. A jumped into a lake to commit suicide for his first girlfriend in his early years, but the attempt failed by chance. Although he is single now, he has grown up.

As for me, I still don’t know where the first train ticket is.