How can people in jiayuan verify the authenticity of information if they communicate after meeting?

The terrible thing about jiayuan is not actually cheating money. Cheating money is easy to identify, but playing with feelings is terrible. I was cheated of money and feelings.

Characteristics of cheating money: I don't know you very well, but I soon chatted with you very enthusiastically and took the initiative. Inexperienced people will mistakenly think that pies fall from the sky, but remember that pies will never fall from the sky. This kind of person will usually take the initiative to ask or imply that you meet as soon as possible and can only go where she asks. Your request in public will generally be rejected, and you won't be called first, but you will take the bait. When you get to the meeting place, you will find that such people are generally good-looking. If it's a wine tray, it's almost impossible to go to bars, cafes and restaurants for consumption on the same day. Because after that night, you usually find that you have been cheated of money. If you have follow-up contact, you must pay more attention to yourself, because it is very difficult to rely on information verification. You can only get to know her circle of friends and her family in person. Generally speaking, it is no problem to think about normal boyfriends and girlfriends. Don't be carried away by appearances. The person who borrows money from you is a liar, no matter how real you feel.

People who play with feelings are the hardest to detect. This kind of person is very smart at first and deeply disguised. In a fresh love relationship, it is difficult to tell whether the other person is serious and responsible for you. But my experience of being played tells me the following: did the other party let your family and friends know about you? You care about each other. Does the other person really care about you rather than possess you, use you and let you revolve around her? Is the other person intentionally or afraid to let people she knows know that you are dating, and have you entered her circle of friends? Whether the other person doesn't care about your business, only cares about what can happen between you and her, whether it is money or health.