We have been married for ten years, and recently I want to divorce me because I send text messages too often and have an affair with my female colleagues in the office! What should I do?

This happened between you, in the final analysis, because of your idea, as long as your wife doesn't know, it's OK. So I don't want her to know. If you really didn't have sex with that female colleague, then an upright man is calm, so why hide it?

Since that female colleague came to see you and knew that calling you would cause misunderstanding between you and your wife, you didn't refuse, but did not hesitate to help her. This practice itself is very inappropriate. If you go back and forth with her like this again, you will go back to the past. What's the point of your wife's forgiveness?

What really hurts you is your wife. Seeing your wife can't sleep every night because of you, and watching her constantly punish herself for your mistakes, I really feel sorry for her, and I feel sorry for her.

If you really care about your wife and your family, you should stop hanging out with that female colleague or help her for personal reasons. Without your help, your female colleagues will still be very happy and handle their own affairs properly. You don't need to fuck this hollow at all

What you need to do now is: seriously talk to your wife once to make her trust you again, and then you can prove it with your actions. How can you prove that you will keep a proper distance from any female colleague, especially this ignorant female colleague?

Be diligent at home, help your wife do housework more, and take your wife and children shopping for dinner on weekends. Surprise her from time to time. And be sure to tell her how much you love her and cherish this family, and ask her to forgive you for being too close to others for a while. However, from now on, you must never allow yourself to get so close to other women. Because you will always fill your heart with her, your favorite wife.