How would you feel if you received a text message like this from your girlfriend?

Love is never easy. You really want to hold hands with someone until you grow old, but the reality may not be as you wish. More often than not, there will be a lot of love that you can't get.

Perhaps when encountering this kind of situation, everyone feels sad and even a little persistent, always thinking about why they love him so much but can’t get him in the end

It is precisely because of this idea that you are likely to get entangled and force yourself. In the end, you will only end up injured, while the other party is completely indifferent.

If you love someone, you must be together. This varies from person to person. Some people will think that if you love someone, you must find a way to be together, while some people will leave this love silently. In her heart, looking at him from a distance was also a kind of happiness for her.

Forced love will not last long, and people who are forced to stay will not be happy. Everyone has some obsessions in love. When the person you like does not like you, or two people who love each other are not happy because of each other. Separated due to some reasons, in such a situation, there is often a lot of reluctance in the heart.

Many people will not be able to let go after a breakup. They are just nostalgic for his kindness to you and reluctant to let go of the good memories of the past. Every time they recall these, they will feel like going back to him.

But the more reluctant you are to let go, the more reluctant you are to let go, and the more you are reluctant to let go, the more painful it will be for you. When love is not available, the best thing to do is to take a step back instead of continuing to entangle. , this is not good for anyone.

No matter how good the past was, it is also a thing of the past. No matter how good he is to you, he will never come back. Stop being reluctant to leave, stop lingering on the past, and tell yourself to look forward.

If you can't get love, then give up your nostalgia for the past. Only in this way can you get out of this relationship faster and move forward bravely.

Leave the wrong feelings

The more you can’t get something, the more you want it. This is human nature, but can you get it by forcing it? It might just make you feel more uncomfortable.

If you know that the other person doesn't love you, then stop the loss in time and don't continue in a wrong relationship. That is the greatest harm to yourself.

As for love, we can only let nature take its course, obey the destiny, and never force it.

Some people are lucky enough to meet the person they love for life right from the beginning, while some people have to search hard to find the right person.

In this process of waiting, you may experience some love that is not available. At this time, you must learn not to force it. Only in this way can you gain happiness in the future.