How to make men afraid of losing me

Many years ago, I heard a sentence: "Men conquer women by conquering the world, and women conquer the world by conquering men."

Although women nowadays are very independent and no longer depend on men, in terms of feelings, no woman is willing to ignore the man she loves and ignore her, with or without you.

So no matter what age women want men to be single-minded and always take themselves to heart, then how can men be afraid of losing you? Five ways that women must know.

0 1 maintains a moderate mystery.

The so-called maintaining a moderate sense of mystery is between very mysterious and very transparent, that is, translucent.

Being too mysterious doesn't make men curious enough, but it will make men lose interest, because you give him the feeling that he is too mysterious and conservative, and he can never really get close to and understand you.

Women think it's mysterious, but in fact, in men's eyes, you are just a zongzi, wrapping yourself too tightly. In this state, men will definitely hold a white flag and flinch directly.

Too transparent, men can see through you at a glance, women lose their attraction to men, and he soon gets tired of it.

Moderate mystery is to make his appetite open and occasionally give him some sweetness, but we must grasp the scale and not be satisfied at once.

When a man's psychology of conquest and exploration is aroused by a woman, he will have a feeling of really knowing you, and he will be close to you and get along with you more for fear of losing you.

Pay attention to your external image.

Men of all ages are visual animals, and they like to increase their affection and admiration for women through their eyeballs.

Sloppy women not only can't get into their eyes, but also will be rejected.

A woman who always pays attention to her external image can always attract the attention of the opposite sex, which is a kind of anger, anger, jealousy and tension towards her beloved man.

When he saw you getting more and more beautiful and happier, he also aroused men's insecurity. He is afraid of his own woman, meets a man who is stronger than himself, and is afraid that women will despise themselves more and more.

So he will do everything he can to make himself better, make you happy, make you laugh, and make your eyes full of other men, only him.

Most men think that women become beautiful for men, but it is women's nature to love beauty in essence, not all for men.

Moreover, doing so can not only satisfy your love for beauty, but also capture the hearts of men, which can be described as killing two birds with one stone. How can men be willing to leave you?

03 control the communication rhythm

As we all know, the feelings of men and women are out of sync. When men fall in love, women are in a state of protecting themselves and testing each other. When a woman falls in love, a man enters a dull period.

It is easy for two people to have such a situation at this time. Women keep pestering men, but men choose to treat women coldly. If they don't coordinate well all the time, there will be quarrels, cold wars, and so on, and even go their separate ways.

Then women must learn to control the rhythm of communication. He is slow, you are slower than him, he is fast, and you are still slow.

In other words, when a woman finds that the number of dates or contacts is decreasing, she should slow down. Even if you wait for a message for a long time and he finally sends it, don't reply in a hurry, but "sun him for a while."

If he asks you to meet, don't say yes immediately, give him an answer that he won't refuse or accept. A man who cares about you will naturally feel the crisis. If this goes on, he may lose you, and he will adjust himself to face you again.

On the contrary, if a man no longer cares about you, no matter what you do or how you do it, he will remain indifferent to the end. There is no need for such a man to be nostalgic. You have to believe that only by giving up what you don't cherish can you find the right person.

Expand your circle of friends.

Once some women fall in love, they will lose themselves and put each other first. They have lost contact with their former friends and don't want to expand their circle to make new friends.

However, the more so, the easier it is to lose this feeling, because your love has made him feel depressed and bound, and he just wants to leave you as soon as possible without any happiness.

Women should understand that men can only add icing on the cake to your life, but they can't do it in time.

No matter how much you love each other, you should first live your own lives. You will live well without him, and you will live well without him, so that you can get better love.

Don't keep flying in the sky because a man has broken his wings. When a man looks at you, he must look up. How could he fail and leave you?

05 "Be His Goddess"

Goddess refers to the beauty in men's hearts, which is divided into mass goddess and individual goddess. The mass goddess is a temperament woman that everyone agrees with, and the personal goddess is a temperament woman that attracts a certain man.

Women rely on external image to attract men, and then rely on internal charm to really retain men's hearts.

Have an independent mind and personality, read more books at ordinary times, constantly improve the inner charm, and become more and more excellent, which not only won the appreciation of men, but also made him feel that having you is his blessing.

A real goddess can make men afraid of losing you without learning many skills. It's that she should learn to love herself, live her own life and live a different life. From then on, she had confidence and confidence.

How can a man be willing to lose such a woman? I will only take you as his goddess and care for you with my heart.