Long-distance love, my girlfriend says it's the same whether you are there or not, not out of anger, but what psychology should it be?

As a long-distance runner who finally ended his eight-year long-distance love, let's talk about his own experience.

At the beginning, the two were still in love, making eight phone calls every day, and hanging up every time because of the distressed phone bill.

Then, like the topic, the frequency of contact is obviously less. Sometimes I feel speechless because I am busy. You haven't lived my life with me, and neither has yours. Pick up the phone and don't know what to say. If I don't call, I'm afraid she will be angry and affect her feelings. Sometimes they even wait for each other to find a topic on the other end of the phone without saying a word.

Later, I felt that this situation was not good. The two began to change some topics, and the content gradually changed into more in-depth topics, hot issues, and even argued with each other because of different views. Gradually, their former feelings come back, and they can relax and talk to each other every day. Later, because I was busy, I became a happy worry. Too much contact, I feel that the other person is sticky. Later, I solved it tactfully.

Finally, give some advice to couples in long-distance relationships. This process is inevitable in long-distance love, and the feelings are gradually warming up with the deepening of communication between the two. In order to solve this problem and get through this running-in period smoothly, in the final analysis, more intersections and deeper exchanges are needed.

When the conversation between you is getting less and less, you should discover new topics in time, such as mutual hobbies, anecdotes at work, trivial matters at home, childhood things and so on. And guide each other to talk more about their own views when chatting, thus forming the habit of talking to each other.

When paying attention to communication, try to talk about some in-depth topics so that both sides can walk into each other's hearts. In this way, they will not part ways because they have nothing to say in the end.

In the later life, exchange ideas with each other. No matter what happens to you, whether you are happy, sad or afraid, you can talk to each other and let them feel your joy and anxiety.

Don't deny your feelings just because you have nothing to say. Straighten your mind, let your heart relax, and guide your partner through the embarrassing situation of having nothing to say during this love period. As the saying goes: If you just stay at the center of the circle, you will never find the radius and draw a circle. Therefore, men and women in love should not always be self-centered, only care about their own feelings, but should start from each other's perspective. Tolerance and patience are the unchangeable laws of harmony.

Girlfriend says it's the same whether you are present or not. How can you be sure that this sentence is really not angry words? Maybe it's partly because of long-distance love, and partly because of complaining to you to attract your attention! I also say this because my husband and I have been in a long-distance relationship for more than three years. I have said this to your girlfriend many times myself, but I have always loved my husband in my heart and fell in love with him for the purpose of marrying him. I never really wanted to break up with him. Even though we experienced great difficulties later, we never gave up. Now our son is over three years old.

Therefore, as a long-distance lover, I sincerely suggest that you don't easily shake your love because of your girlfriend's words. You can calm her down first and give her a few days to calm down. In the meantime, you can give her some small surprises, such as giving her a small gift or ordering takeout, or singing a song for her. It doesn't matter whether she is ugly or not, as long as it makes her happy. Pick a suitable time, talk to her openly and ask her what she really thinks. Do you think long-distance love is too bitter to persist, or do you not love you anymore? If it is because the long-distance relationship is too bitter, then think about the military brother and wife who are in long-distance relationship. If they really don't love you, you can help her get over it! After all, you can't keep her heart in a long-distance relationship, let alone her person? The specific choice depends on your feelings.

In fact, I think the real test of love is not long-distance love, but getting along under one roof every day. Long-distance love can also be romantic, but when it is equivalent to eating and living with rich rice, oil, salt and vinegar tea, it is the time to test the feelings of two people. I have seen many such examples. Long-distance love survived, but did not survive the fireworks life, quarreled and complained constantly, and finally parted ways. Being able to enjoy the fireworks life, being able to get along with each other day and night, and loving each other deeply is the best love. After all, the most unpretentious is the most real.

Finally, I wish you can survive a long-distance relationship and enjoy a life full of fireworks.

I think your girlfriend is very disappointed with your performance. If you don't show it on your own initiative, your relationship will continue.

Long-distance love itself has the distance between time and space, and it is easy to make feelings fade because of the influence of distance. For love, the man should take the initiative. The woman was lonely, and the man didn't give her much care.

In the woman's view, even a phone call and a text message from the man are extravagant and stingy, so how can the woman be comfortable?

The woman has been waiting or expecting your news, but your performance is not satisfactory. Because of the girls, the woman took the initiative and was unwilling. But waiting for your silence or emotional short circuit makes the woman feel overwhelmed and disappointed at the same time.

The woman has you in her heart and likes you. Otherwise, I would have broken up with you.

If you like that woman, you should try your best to show your initiative in order to gain her forgiveness and goodwill.

I wish love is sweet and marriage is happy!

Tell the true meaning of "long-distance love", whether it is you or not, "it's a pity to eat tasteless and abandon it"!

You know the ending!

You should let her down. And he hasn't been with her for a long time, so he should be used to living alone.

I experienced online dating, and then I appeared. The tragic result of being eliminated in the last three months. Facts have proved that without deep feelings, it is vulnerable.

No matter how deep the feelings are, I don't think I can last the distance. It is said that distance produces beauty, but it is too far away, and the final result is really not beauty, but breaking up.

Your girlfriend can say that, in fact, she began to think about the problems in your relationship, and she realized that there was no meaning between you, which was a precursor to breaking up.

If you really care about your girlfriend and want to be with her, you should seriously consider your future now. First, you must solve the problem of different places, and don't wait until you really lose it.

Long-distance love is really difficult, just like falling in love with a shadow. It requires two people to be particularly firm in their feelings for each other, trust each other, be loyal to each other, and have a good plan for the future.

Otherwise, it's really hard to stand loneliness, resist the temptation of the opposite sex around you, and really stick to the original pure love only by relying on distant telephone calls, false greetings and false concerns without any substantive actions.

Personally, I have been in love with my ex-boyfriend for almost seven years from school to work. From the beginning, we were ignored by people around us, and in the end, everyone thought we were getting married, so we separated!

We ended our seven-year long-distance relationship, and no one compromised. He can't come back, but I can't go there After a year of stalemate, we finally chose to break up peacefully. I'm not sad, and I'm not sorry. No one knows how much I have paid and what I have experienced in these seven years.

I tried my best to do what I had to do when I could fight for it. When I began to realize that this relationship would only be endless pain and quarrel even if it persisted, I rationally chose to get together and leave. If it doesn't belong to you, let it go and get rid of each other.

I hope everyone can have a beautiful love and cherish the people who love you now.

Hello, theme!

Your girlfriend is telling the truth! Since you didn't say this in anger, don't take it too seriously. Long-distance love has many problems, so you should spend as much time with her as possible, or try to mobilize two people to work together.

As we all know, the only thing that can maintain a long-distance relationship is information exchange. But it feels fuzzy. Ten thousand sentences of "I love you" every day are not as real as cooking a meal for her, because the most sincere love in the world is companionship!

It makes sense for her to say that it is the same with or without you, because it is a fact. A girl is alone in a city. Will you leave her behind when she faces harassment? Will you cook for her when she is hungry? Will you accompany her to the hospital when she is ill? You can't help her with many practical things! She has to handle everything herself. Aren't you all the same?

Distance does not produce beauty, but only a gap that people can use. So please don't dwell on her words, and do it with practical actions!

Welcome to leave a message for discussion.

Long-distance love is basically supported by spirit. Both sides can only ask questions with their mobile phones. They asked ta to go to the hospital when she was sick, but she was surrounded by friends. Your girlfriend said it doesn't matter whether you are here or not. This sentence is correct. When she said it, she didn't mean that she didn't love her, but that she wanted you to give her more real love. So, if possible, let's end the long journey as soon as possible ~ [yeah]

The hardest thing about long-distance relationships is persistence. Not in the same city. But in love. The other side. Although you contact each other every day. Occasionally, I will express some small gifts and snacks to each other. Surprise each other. However, after all, we can't be together all the time, and there will still be some loneliness. Especially by friends around you. After feeding the dog food, I will look forward to each other's appearance more. Over time, you think it makes no difference whether the other person has him or not. Because, through him, he will not appear at the first time when you are sick. No. When he is ill, the only thing you can rely on is ... friends in the dormitory or buying medicine on Dangdang. Although there is him, when it rains, it can't come and pick you up at the first time and send you back to the dormitory. The only thing you can do is run by yourself. Watching others hand in hand in pairs on campus or among colleagues and being escorted to work by your boyfriend, you often squeeze into the bus and subway alone, and occasionally recall your feelings ... think about it ... it's just that you are very sad and don't know what you are insisting on each other, so sometimes the other party will think that it doesn't matter whether you are there or not, because you haven't brought him too much warmth.