I lied to my husband, and he said he didn't want me. I want to send him a text message to coax him into doing something to make him not angry.

It doesn't matter how you send it. Apologize and wait. If he loves you, he won't really ignore you. Calm him down and tell her that she won't lie to him again. I hope you can really do it. If he doesn't like you, it's just an excuse. Who hasn't lied? If he doesn't really like you, there's nothing he can do. Even the best tricks can't keep him fresh.