How to apologize after the cold war with your wife (three ways to resolve the cold war between husband and wife)

Three ways to resolve the cold war between husband and wife, men might as well learn.

Have you ever had a cold war with your partner? Because of all kinds of small things, you both ignore each other and wait for each other to bow their heads first. The air at home is suffocating. You really want to change this state, but you don't know what to do. In the end, you two can only leave with a dead heart. How to resolve the embarrassing scene of the cold war? I'll give you three suggestions:

The first move, move your mouth (humorous apology method)

During the cold war between husband and wife, I don't think you can say "I'm sorry, forgive me". It seems that you are very humble and have no face. So at this time, we might as well use some humorous sentences to solve this situation.

You can send messages to each other, such as "I'm white with anger, thank you for saving my face" and "Hey, are you still alive? Do me a favor and go out in the sun together at night. " "I'll give you a step. Do you want it? Come down quickly, or I have to take another step. " This kind of words, both humorous and euphemistic, not only give the other party a step to relax and go on, but also lose their face.

The second measure, hands and feet (action apology method)

If you really can't talk, then go to work. Make a meal, specially make what he likes to eat, and set the dishes and chopsticks for him whether he eats or not. When cleaning, be sure to mop the table in front of him. You can clean this place while he is here until he talks. Of course, you can also DIY a small gift, p a photo of him with a small heart written on it, and then put it in front of him personally. Even if you don't say it, the other person can feel your kindness and sincerity from these behaviors.

The third measure, use your head (borrow the apology method)

If you don't want to say or do it, it's easy for the other party to say and make up. Just ask one or two friends to visit your house. Of course, if you are good friends, he will talk to you normally in front of your friends because of his face. Then you can take the opportunity to make up with him. Moreover, you can also find a friend to cooperate, specifically let him tell your other half that you are good, you always praise him in front of friends, my xxx is good, my XXX is particularly good, and so on. If this is said by an outsider, the partner's heart is like honey, and it is natural. It works.

If you are in the cold war, try it quickly and thank me in the comments section if it is useful. If you don't use it for the time being, remember to like collecting. How can there be couples who don't quarrel, right?

Narrator: Ms. Lin Keywords marriage

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After an unexpected pregnancy, I married a man without love!

I am 24 years old and have a daughter of/kloc-0 years old. My daughter was brought up by myself. My father and I got married after I graduated from college. We met in the first company where I worked. He is a senior colleague older than me. At that time, after I got pregnant unexpectedly, I couldn't bear to have an abortion, so we got married and had no emotional foundation. Later, because of so many things such as getting married, quarreling, getting pregnant and having children, we kept quarreling. I have no feelings for him now, and I don't want to talk to him. Actually, I didn't intend to live with him before I gave birth to the baby. All this is caused by an unexpected pregnancy. Now I often chat with one of my college classmates. I have a sense of dependence on this college classmate. What do you think I should do, Miss Zhou?

Teacher Tucki replied:

After reading the private letter, what I want to say is, mom, do you know how your current predicament is caused? Immature.

Why do I say that? Let me analyze it for you.

Immature way of love.

You said that you and your husband had no emotional foundation, so I wondered. So how did you fall in love? Even, how did you get pregnant? Later I figured out why you were with him, because "he is a senior colleague older than you."

A college student who has just graduated and stepped into the society will inevitably feel isolated and at a loss at the beginning of entering a company, so you came together with him for utilitarian purposes. With him, you can give consideration to both work and psychology. You don't love him, you just need him, so you say you have no emotional foundation.

Immature marriage attitude

First, it seems that you are responsible for your children. You said you got married after an unexpected pregnancy, so you got married. But your attitude towards marriage is perfunctory and irresponsible. Being pregnant doesn't mean you have to marry this person who has no emotional foundation. It is also extremely irresponsible for the unborn child to marry him when he clearly has no feelings. How can parents without feelings give their children a warm home? !

Secondly, since you chose him yourself, you should manage it well. You didn't talk about actively solving the problem, but gave up on yourself and simply didn't talk to him. You also said, "Actually, I didn't intend to live with him before I gave birth to the baby. All this is caused by unexpected pregnancy. " You put the blame on the child, and I want to ask you here: Who caused the pregnancy? Take protective measures when having sex. This is your way of protecting yourself. As an adult, you are not ignorant.

Third, chatting with other men during marriage will produce a sense of dependence, that is, you have feelings for other men on the premise of having children and getting married. There are contradictions in your marriage, and you look for feelings outside your marriage to make up for them!

So, you immature mother, you ask me what to do, and I will give you three suggestions:

Stop misconduct: There is a limit to stopping abnormal chatting with college students. After all, you are a married woman now.

Analyze the problem: find the root of the problem with your husband, find out and adjust the change.

Reflection after action: If after a period of careful adjustment, you find that the contradictions in marriage can't be solved, then you can have a good talk with him, get divorced and pursue your own happiness.

One last word for you. When you joke about life, life will give you a big joke and make you laugh.

The end—

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