After breaking up, my ex always sent me some unimportant news. What kind of psychology is this?

Many people's attitude towards love is blind, wishful thinking and self-righteous, and they are completely carried away by love. After falling in love, it seems that you are loving with your heart, but in fact it is blind love. This blind love psychology will directly lead to a hard relationship after you break up. This kind of example is not uncommon. Many people have been obsessed with each other since they broke up, thinking repeatedly, "Why doesn't he love me?" "Is it not enough that I love him so much?" "Are we finished like this?" My mind is full of problems, seemingly reflecting, but actually I am just adding mental pressure to myself.

People who can't get over it after breaking up will only stay in the problem itself, only think, not analyze. They always let themselves spin in the same place and make themselves miserable. Because I can't get over it, I will still stay in a state of blindly treating love, always thinking that love should not end, so I will keep in touch with my ex and say something I haven't figured out yet, and sometimes even talk to myself like a psychopath.

2. People who can't let go

People who can't let go of their love and ex after breaking up are usually competing with themselves. This kind of person can't get over it, or make sense, but he just can't let it go. Actually, it's not that I can't let go, but that I can't let go of myself. I always feel that love should belong to me, and love has no reason to leave. Sometimes I try to put it down, but I can't put it down after a while. So, I couldn't let go of my wishful thinking and ran to contact my predecessor, thinking that maybe I could get back together and start over.

3, "reluctant" people

People who are "reluctant" after breaking up are "unable to let go" upgrades. Such people will not only wander in the vicious circle of wanting to let go again and again, but also like to make a fuss about material things. "Cann't let go" is more emotional, and "reluctant" is not only emotional, but also material. Obviously, I have broken up, and my predecessor's text messages are not willing to be deleted. I don't want to throw away what my predecessor gave me, or even speak ill of my predecessor. I feel sorry for my predecessor in that case. This kind of person, because he has kept too many things from his predecessor, has always said that he can't bear to part with himself. The more reluctant he is, the more he will miss his predecessor, so he ran to contact his predecessor.

4. People who can't forget

People who "can't forget" their ex and fall in love after breaking up will not only contact their ex frequently, but also be very painful. Such people tend to be extreme and blindly want to forget everything, but after a while they will think of their predecessors, especially those who are good, rather than the harm they have caused themselves, and then they will be tempted by good memories and run to contact their predecessors. It is precisely because such people always want to forget and can't forget, so they can't let go of their predecessors.