What if my ex-girlfriend suddenly asks me for money?

In feelings, many seemingly normal things become confusing, complex things become simple, simple things become complicated, and in short, they are incomprehensible. Today is a headache.

If your ex-girlfriend suddenly asks you for money, will you lend it?

For this question, there must be a lot of people shouting:

Definitely not. I am not stupid. I am an ex-girlfriend!

But there must be other voices. This situation is very complicated. There are too many factors to consider.

First of all, since the two still keep in touch, it is definitely not the heartbreak of breaking up before, and there is no big mistake like cheating. In this case, there are still feelings. After all, business can't be done properly. You are already together.

If you don't borrow it at this time, naturally no one will say anything about you, but you will think, is there anything wrong with her being in such a hurry to ask for money? What if it is really urgent? Many people borrow money in this way. There is nothing wrong with this, and it is also a hero in the rivers and lakes.

Secondly, is money acceptable to you? Generally speaking, since I borrow money from you, it won't be dozens or hundreds. Even if she really has no money, she will always borrow it from others.

If it goes beyond the scope, you have to weigh it in your mind. If it is too much, you can't borrow it. Instead of borrowing it, ask her what she wants the money for. This is the correct way to open a good predecessor. If it is not much, borrow it. Think of it as the price of her being with you in those years.

Then, you need to see if she is current. This is very important. You have your present position, but you will come to me instead of him. What does this mean? In this case, my advice is to think twice before you act, think twice before you act.

The situation here is complicated, so you can make up some plots at any time. No matter what the plot is, don't interfere too much for the feelings of others.

Finally, you should see if you still love her. As long as this is true, the above can be ignored. When you two broke up, she was sorry for you and dumped you, but you still had her in your heart.

In this case, many boys will borrow money and clap their chests and say:

"Nothing, come to me if you have any difficulties in the future."

Is really a good predecessor, in the heart can't let her suffer a little injustice. This practice is a willingness to fight and suffer, and we can't comment.

In fact, having said so much, when I really encountered this situation, I said in my heart that I must not borrow it, but she said a few pathetic words, and some boys immediately relented. It doesn't matter if there is a mine at home, other big bosses should pay attention. Sometimes the kindness you think is just a loophole in others' eyes.

This is not darkness, but fact. Generally speaking, serious girls don't borrow money from people everywhere, even if they have difficulties, they won't borrow it from their predecessors until the last minute. She is shameless!