Divorce for a month, think calmly. Is it possible to make up?

Love itself does not necessarily lead to marriage. They will consider whether it is appropriate. What you have to do now is not only love your girlfriend, but also tell their families that you are suitable for each other. Don't think that girls will be together if they love you. This kind of confidence really can't be overdone. Ask from the side if there are any other opponents pursuing this girl. If so, it may affect your reunion.

You were engaged, separated, and the girl hit your child. She's under a lot more pressure than you. Don't push too hard, it gives people the impression that you got back together with her under the pressure of family and marriage. You should sort out all the misunderstandings and unresolved bumps before, then talk it over and tell the girl all her concerns, and then you can handle all this. You are solving all the problems one by one.

And your family's problems

She's actually worried about your family's attitude. On the one hand, without your knowledge, she aborted your child, which made her feel very uncomfortable, and she was afraid that your parents would blame her and dislike her after this incident. On the other hand, you were still struggling with money at that time, making girls feel that you value material things more than her in money and feelings.

What's your parents' attitude? After all, marriage is not just between you two, especially for a girl. If she marries you, she will marry your family. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult After such a thing happens, will your family have bad feelings in the future and will they accept her again?

You must explain to her your family's attitude towards this matter.

Sincerity and trust, responsibility and responsibility, tolerance and your love will all make you better, come on!