Why do girls cry after breaking up? What kind of psychology is this?

Girls are emotionally fragile and their psychological state is easy to write on their faces. Especially when love encounters setbacks, even if you break up, you will cherish the beauty of the past. When mood swings are great, crying is inevitable.

A relationship, as long as it is devoted to the true feelings, will have a crush. The entanglement in confusion is a feeling that it is difficult to give up, and it is the bitterness of attachment. Behind the tears, most of them are helpless.

A girl's emotional concentration and willingness to get to know and get along with her boyfriend show that she has a good feeling in her heart. In the gradual contact, with the deepening of mutual understanding, girls can tolerate the fly in the ointment, but will not easily accept serious injuries.

If you have your favorite, you will be extremely resistant to defects, entangled in trade-offs, and your inner contradictions will intensify.

In a dilemma. Avoid being strong, you are unwilling; Be reluctant to give up. It is difficult to make up your mind in the state of infinite entanglement. Whether you let go or you are willing, any decision will pay a painful price.

My friend's daughter and boyfriend have been together for more than two years, and the emotional sublimation basically meets expectations. I didn't want to talk about marriage, but I found an amazing secret. It turns out that my boyfriend deliberately concealed his marriage history. He is not only married, but also has children with his predecessor.

The sudden change made her daughter feel at a loss. The painful torture made her haggard, deep love and cruel pain intertwined, and the coping options were all heartbreaking.

Repeatedly weighing in hesitation, in extreme helplessness, she chose to let go, but her heart was still very painful.

Men and women in love stay together because of attraction and break up because there is no chance.

The death of love is an obstacle to the soul. All breakups have unspeakable difficulties and reasons, and separation has its own reasons.

It's sad to break up because I can't take my feelings away. Flowers before and after the moon, like knees, countless beautiful marks, can not be completely erased from the heart. Sad feelings, sadness, crying when breaking up, there is also nostalgia in my heart.

My best friend's daughter has been dating her boyfriend since high school. Because of the gap between the two families, and the boy's failure in the college entrance examination, the girl's parents are tough, and even the daughter threatens to die, which can't change the attitude of the old man. In desperation, she chose to break up, but her attachment was buried in her heart.

When the two broke up, the daughter gritted her teeth and cried into tears before she could say anything. Being unwilling in my heart is a feeling that is hard to give up.

The relationship between the dead and the living is bumpy, and the flowers are fruitless. Coming out of fatigue and pain, we will face new emotional pursuits, and it is inevitable that the brokenhearted wound will be salted again.

It's hard to let go of someone, and it's even harder to meet someone you love again. Love is full of sweetness and hard work.

The carefully cultivated love is gone now. It not only wastes feelings, but also consumes energy and time.

Seeking the ideal true love, now the price has lost its advantage. Gamble one's youth with one's fate at the expense of expensive tuition.

Once unsatisfactory, plus uncertain unknowns. Between anxiety and anxiety. Even if there is nothing wrong with letting go, where does that satisfaction come from? Mixed feelings make people uneasy, how sad it is to break up, and crying is also because of sadness!

In real life, it is not easy to fall in love with new lovers, and even more and more water, one is not as good as the other. Refuse to force, that lovely person can only touch it slowly.

Girls are emotional, sentimental and persistent in the process of pursuing love, and the right person will not let go easily. Helpless confusion, inner worries and entanglements, when I broke up with my boyfriend, my mood fluctuated and I couldn't help crying!

In fact, boys and girls are all the same. Everyone has a sincere and white heart when he is young. Full of hope for a better life in the future. Children aged seventeen or eighteen get together and spend some time together. No matter who fails or who thinks who is not suitable. I will be disappointed after breaking up. Life is still so complicated. So girls will cry after breaking up, and boys will feel very uncomfortable after breaking up. He will also tell his classmates or friends about it. After a period of persuasion and comfort from friends. The mind will return to normal. My friends, the road of life is far more than one or two bumps and setbacks. And life must grow in these rugged setbacks. Constantly understand the nature of things. Gradually leave childish. Think about yourself at this time. It turns out that it was your own fault that we broke up.

Don't laugh all the time so that girls won't ask themselves what their psychology is! Is it necessary to reflect on your psychological significance?

Note: there is no so-called secular "spray" in the answer, just a reminder. For example, I bought a fish by the roadside, felt sorry for it, and went to the river to release it. This fish is free from now on. Why should I ask you, fish, why are you swimming? What is your psychology!

It can be seen that when your instinct is out of kindness, she from another ideological dimension may not appreciate you! Not to mention the ability to guess or understand others' psychology! Because, just like this story example, you finally don't understand why your heart asks this question, is there a similar truth!

Possible reasons for this situation:

Girls are forced to break up with you for various reasons:

1. Long-distance love. Long-distance relationships are separated most of the time. When the other person wants his other half to do something with him, he will feel lost when the other person is not around. In addition, long-distance love can also make people feel insecure.

2. Parents object.

3. Save up enough disappointment. Because boyfriends disappoint girls, they are tired when they are disappointed. But I still love in my heart, just crying because I was tired and forced to break up.

Girls are more emotional, deeply involved, difficult to choose, very sad, and will cry.

Most girls are simple. Under the careful care of parents, most of them come into contact with relatives when they grow up.

Close contact and getting along with the opposite sex, called first love, will feel great attraction and heartbeat, and will have a lifetime of expectation. In feelings and hearts, there will be the excitement of finding trustworthy support.

Due to the limitation of objective conditions. Love may not succeed in the end. It is often girls who get hurt and give up.

Only when you move your true feelings will you be sad and cry when you break up.

It shows that women have low tears and are easy to cry. It also shows that women feel that this relationship has caused harm to themselves, because they are sad and disappointed, and breaking up is a last resort!

After a period of contact, the following may happen before the girl finally proposes to break up.

The picture borrows the tears of the role played by the star, which has nothing to do with my experience. The same below. )

First, the boyfriend is a modern sinus who can't help the wall.

Boyfriend may be a well-proportioned person. Because of this, the girl felt very proud at the beginning of her relationship with him. But after a long time, she found that he was not enterprising, his salary could not make ends meet, and he lived on the money saved by his parents. Or do some business, completely absent-minded, relying on his ancestral business for a living, just like Xue Pan in a dream of red mansions, uneducated and vulgar. Although the girl tried many times, it had little effect. In the face of Liu Chan and Xue Pan in A Dream of the Three Kingdoms, the girl thinks that the boy's family background is good, but his own conditions (quality) are too poor, so after some consideration, he gritted his teeth and proposed to break up.

Second, the boyfriend can't afford to buy a house or a car.

After the love entered the substantive stage, the woman offered to let the man buy a house and a car as promised; But just then, the man let the cat out of the bag. Make a fool of yourself and say that you can't pay the down payment. At this time, the girl felt that the man's original promise was perfunctory and deceiving himself, so she had to break up; But girls get along with boys for a while and have some feelings. As a result, the girl left contradictory tears in the painful choice between reality and love.

Third, parents object.

For some reason, the woman's parents strongly disapprove of her daughter's contact with each other, and the girl has to break up the relationship constantly in order not to go against her parents' wishes. At this time, I shed tears of giving up and giving in.

If love is a beautiful flower; Then, when love meets practical problems, it is a green apple that may not be mature yet. Once this green apple lands early, it will definitely hurt the girl's soft heart. Tears are heartbreaking, give up and bid farewell to the past!

Because some girls break up under family pressure or their favorite boyfriends break the law and violate the rules for a while and embark on the road of crime. During the period of love, young people have feelings for each other for a long time. When they suddenly break up with their boyfriends, they will naturally cry.

It also shows that girls still love their ex-boyfriends in their hearts. It must be a time process to completely eliminate the shadow pain in their hearts. Marriage is an important event in life and an important link to determine the harmonious development of the family in the future. We must treat this matter with caution. In other words, there is still a certain fate in marriage. As the old saying goes! It's a thousand miles away to meet.

People are not vegetation, who can be ruthless?

It's natural for girls to cry when they break up. After all, what two people move during their love is true feelings. Now, falling in love is not easy. For men and women in love, there should be emotional interaction, material needs and even more physiological needs. Whether it is physical, psychological, material or spiritual, this commodity society needs money to cash in. Is the girl crying helpless, reluctant, or fleeing?