What is the experience of receiving a text message from your predecessor?

It is not a pleasant thing to receive a short message from your predecessor whenever, because your predecessor is always a hurdle in one's heart, no matter what the original process is. I don't like each other in my heart, and I laugh it off when I feel nothing special. But for those who had to break up at that time, the psychological injury index should not be too big.

Feeling my ex's ambiguous words will make me think for a long time, and I will guess what the other party means by contacting me, whether to reply, how to reply, whether to reply immediately, what to say when replying, what to do if others ignore you too much, and what to do if they don't reply to each other's heart. It's just tangled. I also feel that responding too quickly will be too active. I will consider my words, think again and again, delete the input, delete the input. Maybe the other party just sent it casually, and my fantasy turned upside down. I even thought about getting back together.

Of course, if your ex really can't forget you and you love him, that's fine. Naturally, it's a happy ending. But if the other party just inadvertently sent a message, or even sent it wrong. Then maybe you edited so many words, but in the end you can only delete them one by one, or maybe you turned out all those long-forgotten memories, recalled them over and over again, and hid the pain caused by those memories bit by bit.

So I want to say to all the seniors, please be merciful. If you really love or have loved this person, then give him a happy breakup. Don't dwell on his life after breaking up, because it is uncomfortable for one person to struggle alone in his feelings, and it is also uncomfortable to feel ups and downs because of another person's words. The feeling of finally calming down his feelings is even more unbearable, so it doesn't matter if you don't love, you can't be together.