Parents with poor grades send text messages to apologize. What should I do as a class teacher?

1. No hurry can solve the current problem.

After reading your message, I want to say that I feel the same way.

When I have my own children, when my children's grades are not good, and when I gradually understand the difference between the value of life and the process of growing up, I know how to treat my children and others' children.

For countless days, I have been worried about my children's grades, but now I can go to peace of mind. It's not that I no longer care about my children, but that I understand that no anxiety can solve the current problem.

Every child's most primitive heart has an upward desire, but it is either not stimulated or buried. What can we do except reach out and do something? After all, it was his own child, his only child.

It was at the noon when I wrote these words that I talked with a colleague about what kind of teacher is really a good teacher. She said that the first one is love, and a person who doesn't know how to love children is not worthy to be a teacher.

Love is not a new word, many experts and ordinary teachers have said it thousands of times. However, what we see is that children's lives wither in the name of the love of many teachers. What we see is that the teacher strangles the child's personality for that so-called dignity, and breaks the child's heart one by one for a little terrible score, until the soul that can flourish becomes the remains of the ground early.

So I told my colleagues that love is to treat children as children first. The second is to treat other people's children as their own children.

She said that if I treat my child as a child, I can do it, because every day I see such a lovely child, I have the urge to touch and hug. I can't do anything too much for these children. However, I can't treat other people's children as my own children, because I will beat and scold my own children, but I can't treat other people's children as my own children.

Yes, my colleague is a very caring person. In her mouth, she never calls students so-and-so, but children, children, children. ...

2. Mistakes are medals for children's growth.

I told her that treating children as children means that any child has a process of growth. They are not miniature versions of adults and make all kinds of mistakes.

Dong Li, a friend, said that mistakes are medals for children's growth. Every child appreciates the life situation and finds the direction of life in constant mistakes. Who didn't grow up with mistakes? Would there be us today without mistakes?

If we regard children's mistakes as heinous, then we are not doing educational work. If there is a mistake, it is a child; Only mistakes can promote children's growth. A mistake is an opportunity for children to grow up, and mistakes are also wealth.

Treating other people's children as their own children means that teachers should have enough patience, don't give up, let alone be sarcastic.

I once wrote such a mood log in my blog:

In the face of children's innocence and kindness, many adults play the role of executioners. Why are children as simple as paper in the eyes of adults? Even if there are differences, why not try your best to help and push the "bad boy" into the fire pit? I have always believed that when adults lose their conscience of caring, when teachers lose their conscience of cultivation, then the whole society will lose its conscience. Can a person become a person without conscience?

In the face of unhappy children, we can't choose to give up, just as we can't give up our own children. For teachers, several of the dozens of children who are not excellent are often considered as poor students, but for a family, every child is everything, not to mention every child is quite perfect in the eyes of parents.

Why is the same child different to parents and teachers? Because there is no comparison in the eyes of parents, it is a comprehensive concern, but there is comparison in the eyes of teachers, which is often one-sided. No matter how much a teacher claims to love his students, there will always be deviations after comparison. Nothing else, not enough love.

3. Give each flower its own time to open.

I have a cousin who dropped out of school at home in the second year of junior high school, but now he has become the boss of a pharmaceutical company by his own ability and lives an enviable life. Edison was considered an idiot when he was a child, so his helpless mother had to take him back to tutor him. As a result, he became a great inventor in the world.

If every teacher regards his children as "my" children and himself as Edison's mother, how many talents will we have? Mr. Bing Xin said, "Thousands of angels/get up and sing praises to children/children's tiny bodies/contain great souls/have infinite wit".

Children, they are all treasures!

From elementary school to junior high school, my math scores are all in a mess. Grade two, the total score is 120, and I can't even get 20 points in math. I have been making up the exam, and I have been fined by the teacher, and even asked by the teacher not to take the exam.

However, in high school, my math became the best subject in all subjects, and my math score was also the best in the whole grade.

Why is this? Some people say it's enlightened. Yes, sooner or later, then why should we ask every child to open all the flowers at the same time?

During the National Day, a friend said that her colleague's children have been making up lessons from primary school to senior two, but they are all "wood" and their grades just can't get up. As a result, in the third year of high school, he suddenly began to understand and was admitted to Suzhou University with high scores.

Giving each flower its own opening time is not a slogan, but the most real action! But, teachers, why can't you wait? Why do these late-blooming flowers become flowers of lies in your eyes, or even flowers at all?

I have seen many teachers train parents of poor students like children, and countless parents are ashamed of their teachers because their children's grades are not good. In fact, none of this is necessary. "In April, the beauty of the world is exhausted, and the peach blossoms in the mountain temple." That's it, dear teacher. Have your children always been excellent? Parents, won't your children be excellent?

I am sad to see my daughter's grades and behavior habits, because in comparison with others, I always feel that my children are inferior to others. However, beyond the score, I saw the child's soft soul and considerate behavior. I don't believe my children will always be bad!

I always believe that my child is excellent, no matter how bad it is in the eyes of others, I will accompany her through every step, because I believe that the road ahead is beautiful.

Therefore, please believe that your child is excellent. No matter what happens now, you should accompany your child on his road, because you should also believe that the road ahead is beautiful. Therefore, I will treat your child as my own, because I also believe that with your heart and my heart, the road ahead will be beautiful!

I don't want to be a teacher without conscience, and you don't want to be a parent without confidence, okay?

Work together! The future is beautiful!