How to chat with a girl introduced by your parents?

I feel that it is difficult for a blind date introduced by parents and elders to succeed, mainly because they do not tell the truth, and after meeting in person, they understand that they are not suitable, so it is difficult to succeed.

How to chat and communicate during a blind date to ensure success? Take a look at the following opinions

1. Listen more and talk less: During a blind date, especially when two people meet for the first time, boys should listen more to what the other person has to say, and should not talk endlessly. Just keep talking to yourself, listen more to what the other person is saying, and just add to it yourself. Talking too much will make people feel unrealistic. If you don't add to the other person's words, you will be left in the cold.

2. Look at the other person’s personality: When going on a blind date, you need to see what kind of person the other person is, whether he is an extrovert or an introvert. If the other person is not talkative or talkative, then you should be more proactive. If they are all introverted and don't talk, then it won't be a cold spot. Of course, boys still have to take the initiative to find topics.

3. Respond to each other: When chatting, respond to each other. If one party is talking and the other party does not respond, it will be awkward. The listening party must show respect for the other party. If the other party is talking about the content of , if you don’t understand something, you can listen carefully, nod, or change the topic.

4. Pay attention to the other person's reaction: When talking and chatting, you should observe the other person's reaction. If you keep talking by yourself and the other person just keeps saying "oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh," you should observe the other person's reaction. If you are talking and chatting, you should observe the other person's reaction. If you are not interested in the content, or the other party does not understand this aspect, it is not a completely different topic, and there is no point of interest in continuing the conversation, you must change the topic at this time, otherwise it will be a cold conversation and give people a bad feeling.

5. Impression is very important. To leave a good impression on the other party, you must pay attention to the first impression you leave on the other party, including your dress, going to appointments on time, gentlemanly demeanor or ladylike image. You must also leave a good impression on the other party when chatting. Don't talk endlessly, leaving no room for the other person to talk, and don't keep asking about the other person's background, salary, etc., as this will give people a very uncomfortable feeling.

6. It can be introduced from unrelated topics. When two people meet for the first time, they may have nothing to say. At this time, you can introduce it from the weather conditions. For example, the weather is really good today. Good weather makes people feel good. I like to be happy every day. He is an optimist... This naturally introduces the topic.