I have had a crush on a boy for 9 years. What should I do?

Nine years! Well, it's been a long time, a very spoony person. If I were that boy, I would really say yes. Unfortunately, reality is sometimes cruel, and this society is sometimes very realistic. If there is a big gap between you and him, it is even harder to be together. But there are exceptions to everything, depending on whether we can fight for it. The so-called fate is determined by nature and man-made. Maybe you should try to tell him so that you can really let go. If you continue to struggle like this, it will affect your physical and mental health, so much the worse. I studied medicine and psychology. In the long run, it's really bad for your healthy physical and mental development, and a lot of things will happen in the end. . . . . So, I suggest you talk to him, but there are many opinions, and you should also weigh which one is better. Those friends upstairs said it was not bad, and adoption was ok. As for your question about our boys' views on this phenomenon, I tell you the truth, we are all very touched, and it is really good and single-minded to persist for so long. I haven't seen such a spoony person for a long time. Maybe someone suddenly thinks you are great, but we are very supportive of helping you. No matter what the result is, just don't leave regrets. But one thing, no matter what the result is, you have to face it calmly. Everything can be said to be fate or man-made. I hope the above is helpful to you, thank you.