A letter to my dear fiance

A fiance is someone a woman will promise for life. It is love that makes that man her fiance. I sorted out a letter to my fiance below. Welcome to reading.

A letter to the fiance's husband:

First of all, I'm glad you told me? Do I still love you? Instead of saying to me:? Yes, I don't love you as much as before. ? Husband, I have always been very happy when I fell in love with you, and I also think it is a very happy thing to be your wife. In my heart, I also remember your kindness to me one after another. You can get out of the warm bed in the middle of the night and pour me water and medicine. Can you pour out the bath water for me? You can dress me in childhood clothes in the morning, and you can insist on sending me to the station every week; You can honor my parents and treat my family well; Can you tolerate my lazy habit? Wait a minute. But I don't know when I will never feel your affection for me again. Kindness? .

I remember I once told you that you can't talk about love for too long. If it takes too long, your feelings will become dull. I don't know why I have been with you for a long time, but I really can't feel your warmth more and more. I find that you are less and less concerned about how to manage our feelings. Sweet talk when you are in love, but you are far apart when you get married. If this continues, will marriage become a stagnant pool, neither salty nor light? If love and marriage are the same, then I don't want such a marriage. You said yesterday that maybe it was because there was no sense of crisis? I don't understand what you mean by a sense of crisis. If the marriage certificate can calm the sense of crisis, maybe there are not so many single-parent children who only share imperfect love in this world. On the night of my birthday, Hua called me to wish me a happy birthday and invited me out to get together. Honey, if I agreed to his invitation that night, would it be a sense of crisis for you and our marriage? If our marriage depends on such a sense of crisis in the future, I don't think you want it, do you? I remember on my birthday, you told me that you came to Liu Jiachang. In fact, at that time, I thought to myself, why don't you come and stay with me for one night? I am very disappointed. In my heart, I imagine that you will hold a beautiful birthday cake and blow out 22 birthday candles with me to end my boudoir life. Many people asked me that day, why didn't you accompany me on my birthday? How do you express it? I pretended to be happy and told them it was a secret. When I turned around, my heart was so lost. Because of yours? Careless? Or? On purpose? I lost my most precious birthday present, because the person I care about most in my heart is you. In fact, some things can be exchanged for a day or even a few days of happiness and satisfaction with a small amount of money. On Valentine's Day, I finally asked you to send me roses, but I still feel less happy after all. I remember one night before the Spring Festival, we hugged each other and slept. You told me that we would book a room together on Valentine's Day and then give me flowers and chocolates. At that time, I was happy. In fact, except chocolate, you really gave it to me. Honey, don't make a promise to a woman easily. If you make a promise, you must try your best to keep it. Do you know what this is? What a woman cares about is not the form, but whether you really care for her.

There is a boy who is busy at work and doesn't have much time to spend with his girlfriend. In order to make his girlfriend happy, he went home to fold paper cranes every night until the number of paper cranes reached 333. Write on the wings of every paper crane? 333? (I love you) and give it to girls. The girl was moved by 333 paper cranes and couldn't sleep. She had an exciting night. The beauty of a boy lies in his true intention.

I long for a happy family, a husband who loves me and a smart and beautiful child. I long for love and marriage to keep the same enthusiasm, but it seems impossible, so I just hope I can take care of each other with my heart. Du Hong is right: After marriage, I don't want him to be more responsible for me than love? . Yes, because love is the foundation, we can't stop giving feelings just because we have entered the besieged city of marriage. As I said, marriage is like planting flowers. Only by constantly supplementing nutrients to flowers will flowers be colorful and bloom brilliantly. We are still on the verge of getting married, and there is already a difference. I don't know how long this feeling can last. I am afraid that life is just a simple repetition, just a pool of stagnant water, and the road to marriage is still very long. How can we better carry the marriage through to the end? Dear, do you remember a sentence you said yourself? You said you wouldn't make me cry for the next 50 years. Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? At that time, I was very moved. But I think this promise is too heavy, and I can't trust you. Is this emotional commitment that can't be heavier really your heartfelt voice? Have you thought about how to realize this promise? You certainly haven't thought about this question, otherwise you wouldn't say such a heavy promise so easily. I remember one night before the Spring Festival, we hugged each other and slept. You told me that on Valentine's Day, we would book a room together, then send me flowers and chocolates, and we would have a good time together. At that time, I was very happy and full of happy expectations for Valentine's Day. Actually, it doesn't seem that way.

Honey, don't make a promise to a woman easily. If you make a promise, you must try your best to keep it. But I am still willing, willing to trust you again and give you fifty years to practice your promise. When we meet until April 30, 2054, if you really haven't made me cry for 50 years, I will marry you in the next life, even in the next life.

mother

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A letter to my fiance Wang Wei:

Did you sleep well last night? I want to talk to you more about our marriage, but I think you are too tired. I swallowed a lot of words I wanted to say. It is said that the most important thing between husband and wife is care, consideration and communication. The secret of a successful marriage is to communicate more and run in more. I didn't realize that we didn't know what to say before we became husband and wife, so I wrote this letter to you. I hope you can understand what I think and why I think so. I also want to persuade you to change some wrong views about me because I want to be your wife. If this matter goes away today, marriage will become an obstacle and a problem between us. So you must convince me that I have been persuaded, or I will convince you that you have been persuaded.

How long have we been dating? When other couples or couples think about this problem, they may only say an integer, saying that they have been in love for several years and married for several years. We are special. We can count the days carefully. It's been 28 days since I first met you on September 2. It's just an abortion I am very happy these days, and you can see that I am very happy. You keep asking my colleagues what they say. Do they all say that I look much better? Although I have known you for such a short time, I can't wait to marry you at once. You don't know how happy I am when you say let's get married early and you want to get married early and have a baby. I thought I finally had a place to live. Maybe I want to marry you so much that I am so active that I threw myself into your arms without thinking about anything. I am excited to announce to the world that I am getting married. When all kinds of thoughts and comments fill my ears, my full sense of happiness and expectation is replaced by uncertainty and insecurity. I really don't know what you can do for me, and I'm not sure if you will do anything for me. And when I asked this question, your answer really made my heart fall to the bottom. The person I love really won't take the initiative to consider my situation for me. When I ask, I will get the answer that I can't do anything for me.

Everything is due to the house. What is a house? From the point of view of property, your house is 80 thousand down payment donated by your parents and 20 thousand yuan for your sister to support your brother. It's not easy to get the money, I know and understand. I don't want to share half of the 654.38+ million, so I mentioned to you that the house is our common property after marriage, and then we will manage it together, and I will share all the remaining debts and your pre-marital loan with you. What I want from you now is not your half, that is, 50 thousand yuan For a person who has studied for so many years, it won't be so superficial, because 50 thousand yuan will hurt my hard-won feelings. For a woman, the house is a very important part of the family. No house is like no home. This is also the traditional thought of China people. Therefore, as long as people get married, even if they lose everything and consume the savings of two generations, they should get a wedding room. But now, because of the revision of the marriage law, the house is only your own house for life. Even if I live with you all my life, it is your own wealth, and you are the only person who has the right to control it in my life. I don't understand. Even before I got married, I bought a house with a loan and married you. You agreed to buy a house we don't need under great pressure. This shouldn't be like other men, who think you earn more than me and share with me the unworthy problems your parents gave you. What's that for? In fact, you said you thought it was enough. Most of the down payment is made by your parents, and you only have a small part, so you have no right to do so. If it's all yours, you have no problem agreeing. I understand this, but as a person who is going to be my husband, you can explain it to your parents and fight for me. You didn't do it for me either. In fact, if you tell your parents about it, I think your parents will agree, because your parents used their savings for many years to pay the down payment and buy a house for you, just to find a home for you and your future wife. The old man's original intention is to try his best to buy a home for his son and daughter-in-law. They may not know that the new marriage law will stipulate that the house they buy has nothing to do with their daughter-in-law. Even in the countryside, poor parents who are much poorer than us have never married a daughter-in-law, and have never given her anything to let this woman go through the door with a dowry. Do you think your parents will? Will they? You said yesterday that it was all your fault, and your family was poor. I wish I had found someone with a richer family. I don't care whether you are rich or not, and being rich is not what I want most. I won't ask you to buy me a big ring, go to an upscale restaurant, buy designer clothes, or ask the elderly to provide us with anything else. Think for me from my point of view. When you and your family refuse to give me anything, my parents think I want to marry you. What will happen to them? Will you agree with me to marry you so soon? When we met, you said that when your sister mentioned divorce, she said that her mother-in-law was rich when she got married, but she wouldn't buy a house, and she said that she wouldn't buy it until she had children. What do you think of her mother-in-law and her husband? Do you think he and his family are really bad to your sister? Divorce is right. Are you sad that your mother let your sister get married?

You always said that your parents took the money, so you have no right to add my name and share it with you after marriage. That is to say, you marry me, but you can't give me a complete you and a complete home, you can only give me a part of you. This feeling scares me, makes me shrink back and makes me afraid to marry you. Everything comes from property, but not entirely from property. This incident makes me feel that you are unwilling to pay anything for me. I really don't care about the money. You said I could take out all my savings if I needed it badly. I think what I have is yours. After all, I will be your wife, but why don't you share with me what your parents gave you after marriage? You said you can do property notarization before marriage, but there is nothing wrong with notarization, but do you know what notarization is? It is to prove what personal property we had before marriage, subdivide all accounts, which are yours, which day is mine, which are taken by your family and which are taken by my family, and it is easy to analyze the property when divorced. I want to share the property right of the house with you, not to say that we will divorce in the future, so we should make everything clear. This is not what I want, really not what I want, dear Wang Wei, why don't you understand? Yes, I want joint ownership, I want a house, but I want more than just a house. I want a home that truly belongs to you and me, and I want to share everything with you. If you do notarization, you can only prove that the house is your own house all your life, and you have the right to dispose of it all your life. That is to say, if you get married, you can sell it without asking my opinion. You don't need to ask my consent legally. Give me your share after you sell it at most. I have no right to continue living here. Really let me marry you but feel insecure?

I'm not going to divorce before I get married. I don't think this means that we will be separated in the future, but I really hope to share everything about you, your wealth, your debts, your strengths and weaknesses, as well as your parents, brothers and sisters. Love, wealth, debt, I want everything. I'm greedy, right?

Last night, I said my parents should pay half the money. That's what I advocated at the beginning, focusing on fairness. If you agree with this, you can discuss it with your parents. Actually, you know what? Fairness in this world is relative. Why did your mother buy a house and her daughter-in-law came when she said you didn't have a girlfriend? Why in China, it is usually the man who buys the wedding room, but the woman doesn't pay or pays less? You men think that society is really unfair to men, and men's life pressure is really great. But why is there such an agreement in society? This is because of other traditions and customs in China. In China, when a woman marries, the whole society knows that she has become her husband's family, and her own family must take a back seat. Children take their husbands' surnames and go back to their husbands' homes for the New Year. Even if both parents are in a hurry, they are in-laws first in ethics, which is why in China, married men become the default party to provide wedding rooms, so that women can jointly enjoy the right to own this apartment. You can't be absolutely fair in your family. If you really care so much about what your parents do, my parents will do reasonable things. Even if you earn more money and I earn less, then you can control the money you earn and I can control the money I earn. The notarization given by your parents is yours, and the notarization accompanied by my parents is mine. Children are also fairer. Just call them Zhang Si, not Wang Yang or Wang Yang, no matter your surname or mine. No one went to the Spring Festival, but the two families traveled together. This is absolutely fair, but are you still happy? Is there happiness to talk about?

At the party where we first met, four men were talking about fairness, and two of them said that no one should do anything for anyone. I will chat with you afterwards and say that I would never choose those two people, because their values are misplaced, they are all mental illnesses and perverts. What was the love I was talking about? Love is willing to pay, and I can't help thinking about each other. You agreed with me at that time. What is a person's measure of love? How many times has he said that he loves her? In fact, it's not what he said, but what he did and paid for her. On the other hand, like him, you men should determine whether she loves him or not and take him seriously through what her woman has done for herself. If you love her/him, you will give up some of your own interests and do something for her/him as you love yourself. This is a matter of course.

Moreover, I also said that if the old man is worried that I will change my mind, not love you, not be loyal to you and not be loyal to my family in the future, we can sign an agreement after marriage, stipulating that if my marriage fails because of my mistake, then I will give up all the parts you shared with me before marriage (the rights and interests of the house) and the parts I can share with you (all my own savings) and I can join the body. Leave our common home, that is to say, only I am your wife, I have the right to share your pre-marital property and create wealth after marriage, and the right to divorce does not belong to me. I just bet my whole life that you will give me a complete home. Is it really bad to restrain all our actions with love and responsibility after marriage, so that we can be more concerned and considerate of each other?

When you say that I have thought so much, you don't trust you, but you are not confident. A woman's confidence is not determined by herself, but only when her man gives her enough security and love can she gain confidence.

I think if there are any questions or problems between us, we should sit down and communicate in time and don't take them to heart. Now that I think about it, I know it. Only by telling you and solving it by some means will I not bring it to our future marriage life. I hope my lover can understand.

snow crystal

9.29

A letter to my fiance Dear Carl.

I thought we would get married, have children and live a happy life. I thought that as long as we got through this running-in stage, we would stop quarreling and fighting. I thought we could overcome all the cultural differences and differences in temper habits. However, it turns out that we can't do it.

Before waiting for the visa and getting married, I was so exhausted that I didn't even have the last strength to love you. At night, we are in the same bed, but back to back. I ask you crazily, do you still love me? Will we still get married?

We are more difficult than others. Foreign love. Cultural differences, living habits and ways of doing things. There are piles of immigration information in front of you. Looking at your engagement ring, from the opposition of all family members to accepting our marriage calmly and happily, you promised my family that you would love me and hurt me. i do not want to give up. From the moment you came back from Australia to propose to me, you were like a piece of meat on my body, which was hard to give up.

We wear each other's clothes and walk arm in arm in the park next to our home; We share the same cigarette and drink the same bottle of beer on the balcony at home; We bumped our heads in front of the same Buddha statue in Tibet and walked hand in hand across half of China.

The faucet at home is broken. I've asked you to fix it many times. I have to get up early for work in the morning, but you turn on the TV. I said don't drink so much beer. You always drink bottle after bottle. My brother came to see us from other cities. When I left, I asked you to buy some food for my two younger brothers. You reluctantly said that you could only give one hundred. When you go to the supermarket, you will ask us if we can pay half.

While I was sweeping the floor, you lay down and watched TV. When I work, you sleep at home every day. I graduated from a key university, majoring in oil painting, and you asked me to sell paintings; You asked me to teach kindergarten, even though my salary was less than two thousand a month, I went. And you just graduated from high school in Australia, and you can earn more than 10 thousand as a foreign teacher in Guangzhou You said you were tired and didn't want to work.

Last month, I got paid and bought myself two clothes and a massager for you. You yelled at me. Why did you buy so many clothes?

My parents called me and asked me how are you? When will the visa be issued? What's the wedding arrangement in Australia?

I said yes. Everything is fine. Hung up the phone and burst into tears.

I'm exhausted. Follow you and smoke a pack of cigarettes. Insomnia, fatigue and insecurity. Can't you take the initiative to coax me every time we quarrel? When sleeping at night, can you not be afraid that your arms are too tired and you don't want to sleep with me?

Last time I returned your engagement ring, you were calm. You threw it gently on the table with a little drunkenness. I asked, do you still want to get married? How can I get married?

You said you weren't sure.

Why happiness is so hard; I just want to live a quiet life.

Melbourne, you said there is a sea near your home, and there are many crabs by the sea. We can catch lots and lots to bake. You said we could go for a walk at the seaside every day and get a sheepdog. I will choose the color. You said that after we had children, we could build a castle out of sand with them.

We are all naive and live in our inner world. This world has all the beautiful things in fantasy, and we have no time to enjoy them.