My heart is breaking. I like a girl. She is the monitor of our class. In the group chat just now, she said something about selecting outstanding class cadres. There is a boy

First of all, I think you worry too much about gains and losses because you like that girl. No matter what the situation is, don't be so humble and worry about gains and losses. This will make you lose your rational judgment; secondly, listen to what you mean. , you have not confessed your love to this girl, so it is normal for her to have someone she likes or whether there is someone who likes her. And even if you confess your love to this girl and you are together, you cannot cut off the relationship between your girlfriend and other boys. Normal communication and interaction, after all, everyone is equal; thirdly, she should be a very enthusiastic person, so she gives you a lot of ideas, and her character should be very beautiful, so you like it. In this case, Please don’t worry too much about whether she likes others, responds quickly to others, or responds slowly to you, etc. This does not represent her attitude, because after all, you don’t know when she saw your text message, not to mention that everyone needs to face problems. When you have time to think, one minute doesn’t mean anything. Suggestion: First of all, you are still students and cannot control your future life, so it is not recommended that you fall in love now. After all, love in junior high school, high school or even college often ends without a problem. After all, everyone will go their separate ways because of their studies, work, etc. Secondly, If you really like her, then you can give yourself a time limit, such as after college or work before you fall in love again, not now. Students are mainly focused on study, and often what you think is right now will not come back in a year or two. Looking at it later, I felt it was inappropriate.