What to do if the confession fails? How to deal with the relationship after the confession fails?

1. What to do if the confession fails

1. Do not contact the other party again.

If the other person rejects you after you express your feelings and treats you with a very bad attitude and all kinds of bad words, then you can ignore this person. Because this kind of person is not good at dealing with others. Even after you get together with her, you will always be in a lower status than her. You always feel that everything you do for her is as it should be, and it is difficult to discover your good qualities. , let alone treat you well. The two people will easily have conflicts, and life will naturally not be happy. There is nothing wrong with liking someone, but you cannot like the wrong person. When you love someone, you must love with dignity. No one is inseparable from anyone in life, and there is no rule about who should serve whom. Life is neither long nor short. You must live your own life to make this life worthwhile.

2. Open your heart and continue to be friends.

The kind of person worth making friends with is someone who, no matter what happens, will never look at you differently and still maintain the same relationship as before. If you express your love to her/him, she may reject you, but in a tactful tone. If he/she treats you as a friend, then regardless of whether he/she feels for you or not, he/she will take your feelings into consideration. No. It will hurt you because he/she doesn’t want to lose such a good friend like you. So when such a person rejects you, you don't need to care too much, just keep the same way of getting along with him as before. Awkwardness is inevitable when getting along, but if you care too much, it will make both people embarrassed, which will increase the distance between the two people. Maybe she really doesn't have feelings for you now, but if you continue to be yourself, maybe one day she will discover your goodness and the opportunity will come.

3. Continue to pursue shamelessly.

If the person who rejects you says that he/she doesn’t know you very well when he/she rejects you, and he/she doesn’t know if you two can get along, he/she needs to think again. At this time, you should not be disappointed, but should be secretly happy, because what she said means that you still have a chance, and she is not disgusted with you. So you should show more of your own advantages in front of her, but don't brag about yourself there. The most important thing is to show your truest side, so that he/she will have a good impression of you and feel that you are a real and trustworthy person. Someone to rely on. Also, don't always revolve around him/her. Choose the right time, maintain a sense of detachment, and add a sense of mystery to yourself, so that you can make the other person curious about you. For example, if he/she starts to have feelings for you, then she will take the initiative to find you. Then you will not show too much excitement and occasionally stay away from his/her sight, which will make him/her feel afraid of losing you. Then you are not far from success, and you will soon win the other person's heart.

4. Change direction and look for another place.

Many people often feel low self-esteem and think that they are not good enough after their confession is rejected. But that's not the case, it's just that you haven't found Bole yet. He/she doesn't have feelings for you, it's just that he/she just doesn't have feelings for you, but it's not because you are not good enough. Among the thousands of people in the world, there is always someone who has feelings for him, and there is always someone who is suitable for him, but the time has not come yet. Therefore, after being rejected, you should not stay in this stage of loss. Instead, you should rise up, improve yourself, and wait for the right person to appear at the right time with the best attitude.

5. Don’t take drastic actions.

If you are rejected, don’t hate because of love. Doing so will hurt each other. Even if you want to retaliate against him/her, you will not be really happy, but will be heartbroken, and in her heart you It leaves a bad impression forever, which also means that you have lost him/her forever before you get him/her. Loving someone requires not only dignity, but also love with magnanimity. If it is yours, it is yours, and if it is not yours, don't force it.

2. How to deal with the relationship after the confession fails

1. If it is your first confession, see if the person you like is testing whether you really like her. You can test her. Send him a QQ message or call him. If you have time to ask her out to play, if everything can still continue normally, it means you still have a chance and you can continue to work hard.

2. If you have time, you can go out by yourself or ask your friends or best friends to go shopping and see the scenery. Play around and relieve your inner depression.

You can talk about your depression to your close friends, which will make you feel more comfortable inside.

Do more things that you like to do to divert your attention. When you can't sleep at night, you can drink a little alcohol appropriately, because alcohol can cause anesthesia, but be sure not to drink too much. Otherwise it will harm your body.

3. At least for the next 2 months, I will no longer contact her, send her text messages, call her, or chat on QQ. Unless she takes the initiative to find you online, ignore her. Even if she takes the initiative to find you, every chat and conversation must, remember, it must be you who takes the initiative to find an excuse to leave, tell her that you are busy and have something to do, and we will talk to you later.

4. Start getting to know other women immediately, or if you already have some potential partners, get closer to them immediately. Immediately, immediately! Especially the woman you don't "love" that much. The woman you usually don't feel nervous talking to starts dating immediately.

The most important thing here is: you must let the woman you have "fallen in love with" know this, and let her know that you have "unclear" relationships with these women. The best and best result is that during this period of time when you were cold to her, you never took the initiative to contact her. Then, through other channels, she heard or saw that you had a good time with other women. After taking the photo, she will take the initiative to contact you. When the time comes, this will be a turning point in your relationship!

5. If you continue to pursue her, it will not be beneficial to either of you, and may even make the person you like resent you or even dislike you. Take your attention away from him if necessary. Sometimes you don’t know how to cherish what you get easily, but you want what you can’t get even more.

3. How to respond when your confession fails

1. If you are rejected after confessing your love, you can reply to the other party in a humorous way, such as "What do you think about my confession just now? Will so and so agree?" You can use this humorous and relaxed way to deal with it.

2. If the other party is a relatively straightforward person, don’t make excuses to cover up at this time. You can say, “Then if you don’t agree, then I’m relieved. I also think it’s better for us to be buddies.” Okay, this will last a lifetime."

3. If the time of confession happens to be Double 11, you can say at this time, "Actually, I just want to say that there is someone who can help me clear my shopping cart on Double 11. Man, if you don’t agree, forget it.” But you must express it in a humorous way.