How to send a message to a girl you just met?

If you are not sure whether the other party is in a state, for example, the other party replies "at work." You can answer, "Me too. I'm not busy now. When I suddenly think of you, I will send a message. " Introduce your status, add some feelings and find out your connection. ) This answer is both communication and probing. It doesn't matter if the other party doesn't come back. You didn't make any mistakes. But as long as the other person is not busy and doesn't hate you, it is usually easy to continue. Girls usually talk about themselves or ask you some questions, such as "We are always busy and will go on a business trip next week." You can answer: "envy, I haven't been on a business trip for a long time, and staying in one place feels quite boring." (state+feeling) In short, that's it. You say a word to me, it's all trivial. If you talk too much, you will naturally feel familiar with it, and then you will be invited, and basically you will come naturally. Remember, always grasp the "state"+"feeling" and look for the connection between you and her (it can be the same or different, and it can be a topic of chat). The main points of asking questions are: don't ask questions continuously, keep intervals, and ask questions while talking to avoid giving the other party an aggressive feeling. When you are asked a question in the opposite direction, you should answer it well. For example, she asked, "Is your work always leisurely?" Just take this opportunity to introduce yourself, and don't forget to add "What about you?" Finally. It's friendly and easy to keep the chat going. About the time of sending SMS: About the end of SMS: The feature of SMS is that it can be returned or not, so we don't have to worry about why the other party suddenly left without saying goodbye. Of course, be polite and considerate. We are the initiative. If the other party doesn't reply to the text message, it will be regarded as the end of today's communication, and we will contact you another day. At this time, we don't have to ask why people didn't reply to the text message last time, so we can reopen the topic.