How to refuse others to add WeChat with high emotional intelligence?

In modern social interaction, WeChat has become an indispensable way for people to communicate. However, we will also meet some strangers or people who don't want to add us to WeChat. At this time, it is very important to reject the WeChat of others to improve emotional intelligence. This article will share with you several ways to refuse with high emotional intelligence, hoping to help you deal with this kind of problem better.

First, refuse directly.

The simplest and most direct way is to directly reject the other party's request to add. Although this method is relatively direct, you need to pay attention to your language and attitude. You can politely refuse, such as "I'm sorry, I can't add a stranger's WeChat, I hope you can understand."

Second, SMS reply

If the other party already knows your mobile phone number, you can refuse the other party's request to add by SMS reply. You also need to pay attention to your language and attitude. You can use something like this: "Sorry, it's not convenient for me to add a stranger's WeChat. I hope you can understand. "

Third, set privacy.

Wechat's privacy setting function can help us better control our own micro-signals. We can reduce the requests of strangers by setting who can add ourselves as friends. In "I-Settings-Privacy", you can set "Who can add me as a friend", and select "Search only the mobile phone number" or "Search only the micro signal", which can reduce the requests of strangers to add.

Fourth, use micro signals.

In WeChat, we can add friends with micro signals. If you don't want others to search for you through your mobile phone number or micro signal, you can set your micro signal as private, and you can only add friends manually. In "I-Settings-Personal Information-Micro Signal", you can set whether your micro signal is public or not.

Fifth, mutual black.

If the other party has been forcibly adding their own WeChat and sending messages all the time, then a tougher approach is needed. In WeChat, we can choose to blacken each other, so that they can stop sending messages to themselves and add themselves as friends. In "Chat interface-long press the other person's avatar-Settings-Add blacklist", you can blacken the other person.

Summary:

If you refuse people with high emotional intelligence to add WeChat, you need to pay attention to your language and attitude to avoid hurting each other's feelings. This problem can be solved by direct refusal, SMS reply, setting privacy, using micro-signals and blackmailing the other party. When dealing with this kind of problem, we need to keep calm and not be impatient easily, so as to deal with the problem better.