In life, can a person send a circle of friends casually after middle age?

People always have no wisdom in middle age when they are young. Look at many middle-aged people around us. They seem to look down on everything.

They know that nothing will stay with them for a long time, so they won't have much expectation. On the contrary, they feel that family harmony and parents' health are their greatest wealth.

But it was different when I was young. Young people are full of expectations for the world, because in their eyes, the future is unknown, and since the unknown is full of challenges.

I will comment on anything at any time, now. Social networks are very developed, and there are more and more ways for people to express their thoughts and opinions.

Many people like to make friends, bask in happiness, bask in mood, bask in travel, bask in babies, bask in advertisements and canvass votes? Miracles are everywhere.

Some people regard their circle of friends as a place to vent, but it is indeed their circle of friends, and of course they will be distracted by their own thoughts.

However, many people like to post anything in their circle of friends, which is very bad. Since it is your circle of friends, you have the right to express any thoughts you have, but you should also consider the feelings of people in your circle of friends.

If you send a friend who criticizes Mulberry, many people may take a seat accordingly and wonder if you are scolding him.

Sometimes you send a particularly sad circle of friends and others come to comfort you. You may think others are fake, or you have made a circle of friends to show off your wealth, but you won't think others will think you are smelly and ostentatious.

Not at all when I was young. After all, it's normal that you like to express your thoughts and vent your heart. But when people reach middle age, there is no need to regard friends circle as a trash can to vent their feelings.

It is ok to complain occasionally, but it really makes people feel that you are full of negative energy.

Middle-aged people should have more responsibilities on their shoulders. You should be mature and steady. Have you ever seen a mature and steady man who sends a circle of friends every day when he has nothing to do?

It's normal to meet things that don't go your way. Learn to solve things you don't like slowly, instead of complaining in a circle of friends. You might as well think about how to solve the problems you face when you have time to complain in your circle of friends.

To put it bluntly, how many people really care about your complaints? Everyone in your circle of friends is watching you, and no one really cares about you.

If something really happens to you, your real friend will definitely call you to ask what's wrong and whether you need help.

There is no need for those friends in the circle of friends to see your jokes.

Unless others have the same idea as you, few people will really finish reading your circle of friends. Everyone is busy, and no one has time to talk to you.

When you reach middle age, don't fool around with your friends. Those chicken soups for the soul are not passed on to the whole family, and no one really wants to see such things that guarantee longevity. Nobody cares what your life has become. Some people may be waiting for you to joke.

You can only show others your jokes by revealing that you are not doing well, which is not good for you.

Many of us are easily controlled by emotions and firmly controlled by those bad emotions.

But we should know that if we are always dominated by our own bad emotions, then we are doomed to fail, because successful people or mature people all know how to control their emotions and not let themselves be influenced by them.

You have to understand that sometimes when you encounter bad emotions and bad things, you should calm down and solve them instead of making friends.

This will not only make you look ignorant, but also make others think that you are idle.

Some people say that they can understand you especially, or they can feel the same. In fact, they just pay lip service. Don't take it too seriously.

People who really care about you and feel the same way will never just talk in a circle of friends, but will really accompany you.

The closest people should be your family, not the unimportant people in your circle of friends.

Don't waste precious time on making friends. You might as well spend more time with your family if you have time. How long has it been since you were with a child?

How long has it been since I visited my parents? How long has it been since you walked with your partner, watched a movie or been alone?

People who vent their emotions by making friends were really comfortable at that time, but later, you will find that you are actually naive. Let the circle of friends vent and it will pass?

No, that thing is still there, and it will still be stuck in your heart. It doesn't make any sense.

When people reach middle age, they should see more people around them, pay more attention to their own lives and enjoy their own lives.

Get in touch with friends and things that can calm you down.

Don't make yourself as impetuous as you were when you were young, and don't solve everything with your circle of friends. This is a very childish move.