Let's talk about the advantages and disadvantages of veterans being boyfriends first.

The benefits of being a boyfriend for veterans are naturally indispensable. First, veterans are usually better physically if they are boyfriends. Soldiers often receive a lot of training in the army. Physical exertion is great every day. For example, when you need his help to operate things, your senior boyfriend can come in handy. Second, veterans generally listen to you! Because they are used to listening to the arrangement of the head in the army. It is easy for you to make him obey your orders and correct the contradictions that arise when you get along with each other in time. Give you a sense of security. He can help you solve small frictions and dangers in your ordinary life in time. Ordinary petty thieves must be afraid to get close to you.

Also, being a veteran can bring you a certain sense of honor. At present, the society still respects the status of soldiers. The state will also give soldiers some preferential policies in their daily lives. If you marry a senior lover and have children in the future, the children may also enjoy some policy points in their future study. Most importantly, veterans are more patriotic. For example, during the epidemic, many veterans were busy volunteering. Their belief is that "there must be a move, and there must be a return." As a lover, you should be proud of their kindness.

Of course, there must be shortcomings. First, veterans may have a certain generation gap with their lovers. Soldiers must serve in the army for at least two years, and they can't keep abreast of outside information during the military period. It will make him feel out of touch with the times. You need to be patient and adjust his mentality. Second, veterans may have bad personalities. Life in the army is lifeless, and every day is boring. It is likely that two years of military life has greatly changed his character. Become unhappy and make your daily love life lose interest. Third, the social circle of veterans is relatively narrow. Because after coming back from the army, I lost the topic of communicating with my peers who participated in the work, and some former friends may also lose contact or have less contact. If you are a friend, you will probably feel depressed and helpless.

But in any case, veterans are just a past identity. More importantly, now he is your lover. Love needs mutual tolerance to go on smoothly.