Send text messages to blind date girls every day and don't return them.

That girl doesn't seem to like you very much. Because I am also a girl, and I have had the experience of blind date. I know why some girls don't like you. Because she is probably really used to a person, not used to a person. You can talk to her first.

Talk about something that interests her. The biggest drawback of blind date is that there is no time to get along, because both sides have no emotional foundation. You know, hold hands and hug at first, and then say something disgusting. Maybe you are a boy and you think it's nothing, but girls feel very, very embarrassed. So that's why I refuse some blind dates. To put it bluntly, I think you boys are too purposeful. Let's make an inappropriate analogy. I'm just saying that my opinion of girls can't represent everything. That is, if you boil two pots of water, the pot for girls is only 10 degree, and the pot for boys is already 100 degree.

For love and marriage, I think there are great differences between men and women.

Men's enthusiasm comes and goes quickly,

Women's enthusiasm comes slowly and goes slowly.

As for your question about hope, what kind of girl are you looking for?

Can you fall in love with your brother and sister as soon as you start, or do you want to find a girl with that kind of emotional foundation who can become friends first and then get married and have children?

You might say, I'm crazy. It took too long. Because many boys have said such things to me.

They also told me how long, a month or a year.

I can only say that no one can say anything about feelings.

Some people fall in love at first sight, while others fall in love for a long time.

You know, the probability of love at first sight is almost less than zero, so there can only be long-term love.

You must say that you want to get along, but she won't get along with me.

In fact, there are many ways to get along. My advice to you is to show a certain gentlemanly demeanor when getting along with such girls. Don't rush to make some decisions, and don't do some intimate actions. Because she is real and doesn't know you very well, you should dispel her concerns. If you like her very much, I can only say, don't talk to her in a hurry, make friends with her first.

Look at the bottom of the word love, the word friend of a friend.

Stand up and help that girl when she needs comfort and help most, and you can win her heart.

You see the divorce rate is so high now, you ask me when she can marry you,

I said that if she marries you, if she says she loves you, she has another idea in her heart.

Do you think this marriage is reliable?

Feelings must have a purpose, and love must be aimed at marriage.

But can you find someone casually to ensure that you have the emotional foundation for marriage?

You asked whether to give up her or insist. I think whether you give up or insist,

You must change some opinions. Not to find someone to marry, but to cultivate feelings with her that can reach the level of marriage.

What is the basis of feelings? It is respect, understanding and trust.

Instead of blindly imposing your own ideas on others, you should also know what others think and give her what she wants.

The greatest tragedy of our generation is that we won't give. Or just give yourself blindly, regardless of whether what you give is what the other party wants.

So to some extent, hurting others is still very wronged.

I suggest you learn to put yourself in that girl's shoes. Think about why she is cold and why she doesn't come near you, and you will know what her doubts are. But I can tell you what girls think about it. I said that a normal girl must have a lot of demands on her man, because her physical condition determines that she can only do this. She is wondering if the man she wants to entrust for life is someone she can rely on.

Emotionally, she loves it. Is life comfortable?

Remember, understanding others is the way to open their hearts.

Only by understanding other people's thoughts and practices can we gain their trust and respect.

There may be shortcuts in marriage, but there are no shortcuts in relationships.

You may soon find someone to marry and make do with it for life.

But to live a lifetime, you can't do without your careful management of feelings.

Again, respect, understanding and trust are the foundation of all feelings.