After more than ten years of marriage, my husband has an ex-girlfriend in his heart.

My husband Hui Ding and I went to college together. When we first met him, we knew that he had a girlfriend who had been together for three years. One day in my junior year, Hui Ding suddenly told me that he broke up with his girlfriend and asked me if I would be his girlfriend.

Actually, I've been waiting for this day. I have secretly liked Hui Ding since I first met him in my freshman year. I like his clean hair, which always smells of tea trees. Hui Ding is very gentle and always speaks slowly.

I once saw him walking with a girl on campus. She is a girl whose character is opposite to his. She likes joking and walks like a gust of wind. I often find it incredible that two people with such different personalities can be together.

The picture comes from the internet.

Later, in the experimental class, Hui Ding and I were in the same group. Our long time together has deepened our understanding of each other. In class, we are in tune. Every time we do experiments together, we always get the highest score in the class. In the process of doing the experiment, Hui Ding praised my carefulness. Over time, we became the best partners in study.

During the summer vacation of my sophomore year, I invited several close classmates to my home, and Hui Ding was one of them. I remember Hui Ding looked at my villa and said it was his first time to go to a private villa, which made me laugh. I told him that my father was the deputy director of the Quality Supervision Bureau. This house is a group purchase, and the suburban villas in third-tier cities are cheap.

I remember that summer vacation, we had a good time. Students stayed in my house for two or three days and went home one after another. Only Hui Ding came to the end. He said that he likes to take a walk with the sea breeze at the seaside and invited me to take a walk at the seaside. Walking barefoot on the delicate beach, the sea breeze is full of seaweed. Hui Ding and I accidentally touched each other's hands, as if waiting for the last screen window to break.

After the summer vacation, I was not surprised when Hui Ding said that he had broken up with his girlfriend. Everything is so natural. Hui Ding and I have established a relationship through long-term contact. I always believe that my ex-girlfriend is not the only thrill in Hui Ding, but Hui Ding and I are a match made in heaven.

After the relationship between campus love and Hui Ding was established, I had a little trouble. Hui Ding's ex-girlfriend, the girl who loves to laugh and talk, found out about our relationship and looked at me maliciously when she asked Hui Ding why she broke up. Hui Ding repeatedly explained to her that the two men were not suitable, but the girl disagreed. She pestered Hui Ding for a month and suddenly became quiet. Later, I asked Ding Hui, and he simply said, "I figured it out, so I won't make trouble." . In the next two years, I will occasionally see my ex-girlfriend on campus, but she still loves to talk and laugh. Who would have thought that her pear blossoms brought rain, which made people pity.

Before my ex-girlfriend graduated in her senior year, Hui Ding took me back to my hometown, a third-tier city in the north. Hui Ding's parents are ordinary workers. They have been working everywhere since the factory closed. Hui Ding's home is in a 30-year-old community with only over 50 apartments. There are two rooms, one is the living room, and the other is the parents' bedroom. Hui Ding has been sleeping in a dim little restaurant.

When I think of my spacious villa, I immediately want to prepare a bright room for Hui Ding. I understand what Hui Ding has always said: I can only study hard and rely on myself.

Hui Ding's mother is very friendly, enthusiastic and talkative, a bit like a street aunt. Hui Ding's father was silent, listening to his wife speak loudly.

Hui Ding's family is very enthusiastic about me, but while chatting, Hui Ding's mother suddenly asked me a sentence, which made me curious about how to answer.

"Do you know Jiang Yan?"

Hui Ding interrupted her mother's question: "I don't know when Tingting said this."

"Oh, Yan Yan is a good girl, unfortunately, forget it. I want to cook.

Looking at Hui Ding's embarrassed mother, I immediately understood that Jiang Yanyan should be the ex-girlfriend who loves to talk and laugh.

I asked Hui Ding, "Does your mother like your ex-girlfriend very much?"

When Hui Ding saw that I was unhappy, she hugged me and said, "Whether she likes it or not, as long as I like you, what's the use?"

Although I was a little unhappy, Hui Ding's affectionate confession made me stop taking Hui Ding's mother's words to heart.

0 10 to10/0 After graduation, with the help of my father, Ding Hui and I both found suitable jobs. We all joined a large state-owned enterprise, with Hui Ding in the sales department and me in the quality inspection department. After work, Hui Ding moved into my villa. His parents approved of him and put our marriage on the agenda.

Hui Ding's family is not very good. I don't want a bride price, a house or a car, as long as he has enough people. After we got married, we lived with our parents for a while. Soon, the unit bought a welfare house, and the in-laws took out their life savings. Hui Ding took out a provident fund loan and we bought the first suite.

The year after I first met my prospective mother-in-law, I was pregnant, and Ding Hui took care of my diet and daily life with her in-laws. My mother-in-law is very enthusiastic and hard-working, but she is outspoken and quick-witted, and sometimes what she says makes me unhappy. After I got pregnant, I was very picky about what I ate. Once, my mother-in-law made a fish-flavored shredded pork. I don't think pregnant women should eat spicy food. He casually said that it was so spicy. My mother-in-law said bluntly, Oh, I forgot, you don't like spicy food. In the past, Yan Yan loved spicy food and asked me to put more Chili every time.

I don't like it at first. My mother-in-law thought her ex-girlfriend liked it, but her daughter-in-law didn't know. After Hui Ding got off work, I told Hui Ding, but he said disapprovingly that my mother-in-law and Jiang Yanyan hit it off and they liked to chat together. So I know more. I haven't contacted you for a long time now, so let me not put it on the new website.

May be Hui Ding specifically charged her mother-in-law, from then on, her mother-in-law really seldom mentioned Jiang Yanyan again.

A few months after her daughter was born, Hui Ding showed her joy as a new father by holding a soft little pink thing. Mother-in-law takes good care of her children, changing diapers, taking a bath and feeding milk powder. My affection for my mother-in-law doubled, and I felt that I was too narrow-minded before. Until one time, I heard my mother-in-law and Hui Ding chatting in the next bedroom. I walked to the door curiously, listened to a few words, and was stunned by their conversation.

"Son, do you know that Yan Yan also gave birth to a child a while ago?"

"Really? I don't know. You didn't tell me. "

"She gave birth to a big fat man, and her husband's family was very happy and gave her a car."

"Yes, she's doing well, so I'm relieved."

"You ah you, son, yan yan, at that time, you are both so good, I thought yan yan is my daughter-in-law, who knows the sudden substitution, let me off guard. You really don't know when you will be blessed. If only Yan Yan were my daughter-in-law. "

"Oh, my god, you are not allowed to mention Yan Yan again in front of Tingting, so she won't be happy again. Don't mention the past, I feel bad if I talk too much. "

"Don't mention it, don't mention it, I just always wanted to know what happened to Yan Yan. I won't say it in the future. "

I climbed back into bed and lay down, tears rolling down my face. I don't understand why Hui Ding and Jiang Yanyan have such a good relationship, but they want to break up and marry me. Now that my daughter has been born, I can only move on.

Life is very depressing. Since I had a daughter, my in-laws have moved in with us. Every time they are together, I always feel like an outsider. After the daughter is weaned, her mother-in-law sometimes takes her children back to her hometown to live for a while, leaving us alone. But I don't know why, I always feel suffocated in life. In-laws and children are not at home, so Hui Ding and I speak less and less languages. Because he is a salesman, he is often away from home, and the phone is always on at home.

Sometimes I think, does Ding Hui really love me? But when I think about my daughter, I force myself to stop being paranoid.

One day, when Hui Ding was taking a bath, his mobile phone was in the bedroom, and the text message rang several times. I quietly picked up the phone and turned it on. There are two or three unread messages, and the contact name is Y Fat Girl. I open the message, the content is:

"I'm fine. I just saw my aunt with the baby the other day. So cute, just like you. "

"Aunt mentioned that you are very busy at work now. Be careful not to drink too much. You have a bad stomach, so eat less and more meals. "

"Let bygones be bygones and move on."

I flipped through the text message and found the text message sent to Y fat girl before Hui Ding:

"Fat girl, don't ignore me, I'm afraid you have a bad time. How have you been recently? Is your husband good to you? Please remember to tell me if you are short of money. I miss you. "

"Fat girl, I heard that you have a son. I really envy you. Are you still so beautiful? "

"Fat girl, my mother always talks about you, thinking about your good. Let's not disconnect from each other in the future, shall we? "

After reading these, I suddenly remembered that Hui Ding sometimes called me a fat girl. I said unhappily, Who is fat? Why do you call me a fat girl? "Hui Ding said with a smile, you are not fat, can't call you a fat girl. It's silly to think about it now. The fat girl is Jiang Yanyan.

When my ex-girlfriend Hui Ding came out of the bathroom, she saw my unhappy face and read the short message on my mobile phone, and immediately understood the reason. He explained that after having children, he especially wanted to know how Jiang Yanyan was doing. After all, he has failed her before, and he is always worried that she is not doing well and feels guilty. This time, my mother-in-law went back to her hometown and met Jiang Yanyan's mother, only to know her mobile phone number. It turns out that Jiang Yanyan and Hui Ding live in the same place, and their parents know each other, so they have such a good relationship. Hui Ding never mentioned these things to me.

I said angrily, this is cheating, and I can't accept the separation of my husband and ex. At my strong request, Hui Ding reluctantly deleted Jiang Yanyan's contact information and promised not to take the initiative to contact again.

I have always been lukewarm to my mother-in-law, Dark Tao. After she took her daughter back from her hometown, she lived a quiet life. I always blame my husband and ex-girlfriend on my mother-in-law. In this mood, the atmosphere at home is lifeless, and there is little communication between adults except the crying and playing of the daughter.

After my daughter was three years old, I immediately sent her to kindergarten and asked Hui Ding to send her in-laws to her hometown on the grounds that her children went to kindergarten. Hui Ding didn't want to, but because of my parents' face, I sent my in-laws back. When my in-laws came back, I was relieved and thought that I could finally live a normal family of three. But life is not as simple as I thought. Soon, Hui Ding applied to the unit to be stationed in an overseas office.

After Ding Hui left, I took my daughter back to her parents' house, and my mother advised me to watch my husband. Dad also reminded me that he will retire soon, and the scenery is no longer my backer. I have to rely on myself. Thinking of this, I associate with the change of Hui Ding's attitude. For the first time, I thought that the reason why he married me was not love.

In-laws returned to Hui Ding to work in other places for two years, and were finally transferred back and promoted to the general manager of the branch. The first thing he did when he came back was to pick up his in-laws. No matter what I think.

When my in-laws came back, I heard my mother-in-law chatting with Hui Ding and mentioned Jiang Yanyan again. This woman is really amazing. Over the years, her mother-in-law has been obsessed with it.

The mother-in-law reported the situation of Jiang Yanyan to her husband this time. I heard that she gave birth to another daughter, and now she has a son and a daughter, with both children. After that, my mother-in-law couldn't help sighing.

Hui Ding's attitude has changed a lot since he was promoted. He has never yelled at me before, but now he is often impatient and yells at me. When I heard him talking to his mother-in-law about his ex-girlfriend, he was so angry that he couldn't explain a word. Even one day, when I tried to look at his mobile phone, I found that his mobile phone had a fingerprint password.

The Hidden Third Party When I found out that Hui Ding was calling Jiang Yanyan, I couldn't stand it any longer, and my anger exploded. I told Hui Ding, if you want a divorce, just say so. But don't cheat and cheat in marriage. I don't want a hidden third party in my marriage.

Hui Ding said that he would not divorce, and now his children are still young, and he needs a complete family. But at the same time, he can't cut off contact with his ex-girlfriend. He even asked his daughter to recognize his ex-girlfriend as an aunt. In his mind, his ex-girlfriend is already one of his relatives, and he will always have the position of the girl who loves to talk and laugh.

At the moment I heard the truth from my husband, my mood collapsed and I took my children back to my parents' house. My mother advised me to relax. A man's body won't cheat. Who hasn't Bai Yueguang yet? As long as no one is invited outside, you know how to go home and love your children.

Crowded Marriage In this kind of marriage, ten years later, Hui Ding never deleted the contact information of his ex-girlfriend. He never admitted that it was an affair. He said they were pure relatives. But I obviously felt the crowding of marriage.

Many men have a Bai Yueguang in their hearts, just like a red rose and a white rose. Zhu Shazhi and Bai Yueguang are destined to win only one. No matter which one you choose, you will have regrets in the end.

Storytelling: Tingting, 37, an employee of a state-owned enterprise.