Why do some boys find it so tiring to fall in love? What should I do?

Why do some boys feel that falling in love is so tiring? What should they do? We've been in love for a long time, but every time she takes the initiative, chats, and dates? She gets tired after taking the initiative for a long time. I really wonder if she is frigid. It's really tiring! Moreover, she is a relatively playful person, so when you are with her, you must always think about how to play.

Netizens have said this:

1. Partly because of the long-distance relationship, I feel tired, and partly because of the frequent quarrels with each other, I feel tired. Maybe because I love you too much, I have a lot of expectations. The expected result is disappointment. I never had much hope. I knew there would be no future. After we broke up, we were still inseparable. I would cry when I saw your news, and my heart was very tired. Now, you don’t bother me anymore, but I still will every day. I hope you can send me another text message, but separation means separation. No matter how beautiful the past was, it is still missed. How can a person who is not a beloved person know the depth of love?

2. Not tired. When you feel tired, you have already retreated. If you are tired, it means you two are not suitable for each other. When it feels like I am just accommodating two people together or it feels particularly hard, I feel that our relationship has come to an end, and it is the best time to end it when it is not at its worst. I don't want people who were originally in love to end up unhappy or even become enemies. That would be too sad and painful to recall.

3. Some people also say this and comfort: If a more traditional girl is not rich in love experience, most of her will be very passive at the beginning. She needs to get deeper into her heart, and she will love you. The attitude can only gradually change. To put it bluntly, it means "it's not yet time", and such girls are often one of the good partners suitable for marriage. If so, congratulations!

If you are in love and want to please the other person all the time, just like when you face your boss, you must show a pleasing side in front of her, and of course you will feel tired.

First of all, two people in love are equal, with equal personalities and equal status, and their efforts and rewards will be balanced.

Since we are two people with equal status, how is it possible that you have been playing with her and thinking about how to tease her, but she doesn't reciprocate? If she never repays you, you will feel tired, so you have put yourself in a lower position. Maybe you did it unconsciously, or maybe you did it on purpose.

Only you know what the truth is. In an unequal relationship, you will naturally feel tired. The solution is also very simple, find a well-matched equal and fall in love.

Secondly, you must learn to express your feelings and demands.

I have always said that couples must communicate more and talk about anything, so as to understand each other and the progress of the relationship. Many times, if you don't tell the other person, they won't know and they will think you are normal. In the end, you can't stand it anymore and explode.

If you are tired, just tell the other person directly that you feel tired. If the other person really likes you, he will naturally adjust himself. This is the process of adjustment in love. No one is born to be together. It’s up to you to try and it won’t work, and if he tries and it won’t work, then you can choose to get along in a way that is comfortable for both of you.

Expressing your demands also has the same meaning. You can directly say, I will play with you today, can you go out with me tomorrow? Everyone takes turns satisfying each other's demands, so you won't be so tired.

Third, she loved to play when you first met her. It is impossible for her to become a different person when you fall in love.

Do you understand what I mean? She was actually like this when you met her, and you still choose to fall in love with her like this, which shows that you accept her attitude. But after falling in love, you start to hope that the other person will change for you, become your ideal person, and no longer be so playful. Do you think it is possible?

In the end, what you have to adjust is yourself, and the only one you can adjust is yourself.