"Queen" Chris Lee spent 60 million yuan to buy a house for her father, but his father only wanted a son-in-law. Why?

"Queen" Chris Lee spent 60 million yuan to buy a house for her father. However, regarding Chris Lee's filial piety, his father said that he didn't want a house, but only wanted a son-in-law, which stumped Chris Lee. Chris Lee can buy this house by earning more money, but Chris Lee can't want a son-in-law.

Why did Chris Lee's father say that? This is because Chris Lee is 37 years old and has been out for so many years. Although he has been very successful in his career, his personal emotional problems have remained silent. Therefore, Chris Lee's father is so worried about Chris Lee's lifelong events, which can be described as poor inheritance.

In fact, Chris Lee's father is in the same mood as most parents. Seeing that his children were too old to get married, he began to worry and then urged them to get married. Just like dad Li, the house is not important at all compared with his lifelong events. However, as Chris Lee said, "I also want to find a boyfriend soon, but fate is bound to touch, so I will probably meet you at the next intersection." .

Therefore, Li's father should be considerate and not give too much pressure, because he wants his son-in-law too much. After all, emotional things need to look at fate. However, it is still necessary to urge everyone appropriately, because the fans who like it, like Dad Li, all hope that our "Queen" can meet true love as soon as possible and be loved by one more person.

Why do parents want their children to get married?

As we said earlier, most parents start to worry when their children are over marriageable age and not married. Why do they do this? In fact, there are only two reasons:

1, influenced by the idea of carrying on the family line.

There is no denying that marriage is a legal channel to carry on the family line. From the point of view of human reproduction, there seems to be no problem. But for some people of the older generation, they are not actually thinking about the so-called deep problems of human reproduction. They pay more attention to the family background of their small families, and think that children should get married and have children when they reach marriageable age, so as to continue the family incense.

Of course, it cannot be completely said that the idea of carrying on the family line is feudal. After all, getting married and having children, in terms of human development, seems to have been integrated into the genes of most people, which is the unified trajectory of most people's normal life, just like eating and sleeping. Therefore, the parents of the older generation will think that it is abnormal for their children not to get married when they reach marriageable age, and even blame their children for not being able to live separately, so they are anxious to get married.

However, with the development of social civilization, for modern young people, marriage is not for the sake of carrying on the family line, let alone the necessity of life, but the destination of feelings. If you have feelings, you can talk about marriage.

2. No Country for Old Men

Moreover, out of parents' love for their children and concern for their future life, many parents will worry about what the children will do if they don't get married and leave at that age. Therefore, encouraging children to get married is actually that parents hope that when they can't accompany their children, there is someone who can accompany them for themselves, and from a moral and legal perspective, this person is a partner.

However, if you get married, does it mean that someone can accompany you instead of your parents? Actually, not necessarily. Even if two partners are always together, one will go first, and the one who stays will face the last one. So, in the final analysis, life is lonely. Since it is lonely, why should we put our expectations on marriage? It is better to make marriage more pure. No, just want to find someone who can accompany you, just want to find someone who loves you and wants to be with you.

Chris Lee's father's mood, of course, we can understand, this is the mentality of most parents. But after all, feelings are hard to find, and Chris Lee is not the only one in charge. But I believe Chris Lee can understand his father's mentality, so he naturally won't blame his father. Therefore, I finally suggested that dad Li enjoy filial piety and live in a good house. When Chris Lee's fate comes, he can naturally bring him back a good son-in-law.