Chatting with girls, what if girls reply slowly?

Girls are slow to reply to messages, so they may be busy. Second, I don't want to talk to you. In the initial stage of not liking you and contacting girls, we should pay attention to the following four points:

1) Let women see self-motivation.

The greatest charm of A Man is his successful career. Generally speaking, most boys who start looking for someone to fall in love don't work long, and of course they can't talk about "successful careers". At this time, it is important to make girls feel that you are a self-motivated person. You can talk about other things at will in Kan Kan, but you can't be vague on this issue. You must tell women that you are full of confidence in the future, dissatisfied with the status quo and have a long-term plan. In short, you should show that your future is not a dream.

2) Be confident and responsible.

China's traditional culture has always paid attention to "masculinity and femininity", and most of the girls who grew up under the influence of this cultural environment are reserved, dependent and have strong family values. Of course, I hope to find a reliable and responsible "man", which requires me to show self-confidence and responsibility.

3) Express yourself moderately

The so-called moderate performance means neither too serious nor too casual. Be serious where you should be serious, and ridicule when you should be ridiculed. Most girls like boys who are a little cynical, so don't show that you care about everything.

4) Look mature

Boys are mature and steady, calm and calm, neither supercilious nor supercilious, which has a strong attraction to girls.

2. Further contact with girls' ideas

1) "Take your time, don't worry" is an important principle at this stage.

As the saying goes: you can't eat tofu if you are impatient. Only by taking every step firmly step by step can we reach the point where success is natural. The same is true of love. Don't be too explicit, so that girls can see at a glance that they are chasing her. Generally speaking, love at first sight is rare, and it mostly develops from the steps of communication → identification → goodwill → attraction, which is also realized with the deepening of understanding, so the key at this stage is to get opportunities for further development.

2) Start with the bass.

When you start dating a girl, you should first position the relationship as a "friend". As a friend, you need to communicate, get to know each other, enhance your feelings, and then naturally push the relationship forward and become a "good friend". Of course, it takes some time and emotional process. Don't imagine agreeing to marry you after three days of knowing each other. You should communicate fully and understand that feelings don't come out of thin air. Generally speaking, in the initial stage and further stage of contact with girls, they are generally self-respecting, and prefer to observe and summarize the characteristics and conduct of their contacts from their words and deeds, so it is more important to talk about topics of mutual interest at this stage, express themselves humorously and appropriately, but never say "chasing you". If you don't mention the word "chase", even if there are some words and deeds that girls don't agree with, girls won't have a chance to "refuse" you-how can she refuse you if you don't chase her? ! This will not only reduce the psychological pressure of girls, but also allow you to communicate smoothly.