The girlfriend of the blind date turned off her cell phone and didn't return the message.

Let me analyze your personality first.

1. You are introverted and not good at expressing yourself. Many times you have a lot of ideas in your heart, but you always feel that you don't know how to say it, or you don't want to say it at all.

2. You have strong self-awareness, self-esteem and inferiority, like personal heroism, such as Superman, and are not good at teamwork.

3. Although you are not good at communication and expression, you will observe and judge others by yourself, and often default your judgment through observation to the fact or the most likely fact, that is, doubt and self-imagination.

Through the analysis of the above personality, we can clearly know why she says it is difficult to communicate with you, because you keep all your thoughts in your heart, and even if you want to say it, you won't say it at all because you don't know how to express it or are afraid of making mistakes. As a result, when she is with you, she often feels that she can't see through you and has a sense of distance from you, and she doesn't know what you are thinking. Occasionally, when you are in a hurry, it is just right to say something unreasonable like how others can communicate with me.

Here are some suggestions for you.

1. Your style of dealing with people is still like a child's paper. It's no problem to deal with people like you did in high school. Now that we have entered the society, we should learn to communicate and express. It's time to try to get in touch with people and communicate with them, otherwise it's really difficult for others to get along with you.

She is very angry now, and she is still young, so it is normal to have some overreactions. Take a break and give her some time to calm down.

You are not good at oral expression at present, so try to express it in words. You can write some words in qq space, not about your feelings, but about your cognition and attitude towards feelings, such as what love is.

According to her actual situation, do something that cares about her silently. It's best that you do something that cares about her, and she doesn't know it yet.

5. Look at her reaction. If you calm down and communicate with her rationally, don't talk about feelings. This topic will not make her happy.

6. Retreat and make progress, be friends first, and then find opportunities to impress her.

Say so much first, I hope it will help you. What you need now is to adjust yourself. Your emotional intelligence is really not high, you need a good exercise.