What should I do when I meet a man and say "I'm busy"

Recently, I can hear my friend complain. Every time I call my boyfriend, the other person always says that he is busy, which makes him look ignorant. So I told my friends that men are under great pressure now, so naturally they should work harder, so don't always bother each other unless there is something special. Outside various meetings, restaurants and entertainment places, men can often be heard talking on their mobile phones and saying, "No, no, I can't leave now. I can't spare time these days. I am very busy. " Think carefully, do these men really love their jobs so much, or are they just excuses? What should I do if I meet a man who often says "I'm busy"? Love mantra Some psychologists have pointed out that if a man usually ends with a high frequency of "I'm busy", it may just be one of their most commonly used lies, especially in love. Even if the career is average, men in love are willing to use "I am busy" to improve their social status. It seems that only in this way can he show that he is working hard and embodying his own value, and it seems that only in this way can women feel that their work is decent and more dependent on themselves. Female friends should pay attention. To capture the crisis hint behind men's "I'm busy", don't be fooled by men. Solve the problem of "asking the truth in a casserole" Women often make a mistake, that is, when men are not around, they often call men. It seems that they care about this matter in order to better understand the whereabouts of men and monitor them. What men dislike most is not the surprisingly high frequency of telephone calls, but the woman's long speech on the other end of the phone, and every little thing should be "asked to the end." Therefore, how to deal with a woman's "asking in the end" has become a compulsory course for men. The best solution is to just say "I'm busy". Therefore, whether it is a man with low intelligence and connotation or a man with high quality, when talking to a woman on the phone, he is often used to an abrupt end. "I am busy" is their best excuse. Having said that, he can openly escape, because he doesn't want the other party to "get to the bottom of it." If your man often tells you that he is busy, then you should review it to see if you are chasing too hard and a little wordy. If a man habitually uses busyness as an excuse to perfunctory you, it is inevitable that he will perfunctory you on other issues. If bad habits accumulate for a long time, you can't expect to hear a truth from a man. Have a skeleton in my closet. In recent years, Xiao San has become a new term. Many men are proud of having a lover, secretly smug that they can completely handle the relationship between lovers, which makes many female friends feel disheartened when they hear mistress in a short time. A man and his lover meet or date, and it happens that his wife calls to inspect the post. In desperation, I can only use "I am busy" as an excuse to let my wife not doubt herself. For these unspeakable reasons, men are not honest enough and lack the courage to refuse, so "I am busy" has become the best way to prevaricate each other vaguely. So, if your man always calls after work or other holidays and says "I'm busy", be careful. Be careful that your man is having a private meeting with a mistress or another woman. Nowadays, people pay more attention to property than ever before. No house, no car, no wife. This has put a lot of pressure on many men and made many men fall into great inferiority. When he was in love, he actually didn't have a car or a house, but in order to get close to you, he had to lie to you, hoping to provide you with better living conditions through future efforts, and I hope you can better discover your own good in the process of communication, so that you can make up your mind to follow yourself, even if it is very bitter. So many men like to say that they are busy on the phone to let you know that he is trying. Some men with low self-esteem want women to cherish him more. They often say "I'm busy" to make women cherish every opportunity to meet him and improve the "gold content" of dating. So "I'm busy" can also remind men of their inferiority. If you don't know your man, you might as well secretly explore the frequency of his saying "I'm busy". Resisting you from entering your heart, it is said that men chase women in the mountains and women chase men in the yarn. It has become a fashion for women to chase men now. There is a man who doesn't understand that the basis of interpersonal communication is honesty, which leads to the lack of real friends. In front of active women, they are more shy, unwilling to express their inner feelings and resist women entering their inner world. Sometimes, men want to refuse you, but because of face, they are afraid that they will be embarrassed to refuse you face to face, and they don't know where to start, so such men will delay again and again. "I'm busy" is a good embodiment. So, if you are pursuing a man at the moment, and he often prevaricates you with "I am busy", refuses to date you and refuses to get to know him better. At this time, you should be vigilant and need to think about whether such a man is still worth cherishing. "I am busy" can't stand the test of time. If men always say "I'm busy" to women, it will increase women's insecurity. In the long run, women will change from worry to disgust, because women who are no longer smart will always listen to "I am busy" and understand men's minds.