What should I do if San Xiao sends a message to provoke me (San Xiao provokes me so crazily)?

In marriage, it is difficult to meet a husband cheating. However, there are often many school girls who like to use their husbands' social software to deliberately provoke and frequently send messages to the original match. The content is nothing more than these ugly words:

"Your husband says he loves me."

"He said that he has no feelings for you, so let him go quickly."

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Anyone will be angry at such a provocation and want to speak at once. Do you really want to slap her like a showdown with Lin?

But you need to calm down first. Teacher Lin said: Actually, it's not a bad thing for San Xiao to annoy you. On the contrary, this is the best time to repel San Xiao and let her husband go home.

Why do you say that?

However, most people who actively attack and provoke their former mistresses are people with strong emotions. They only have two purposes: to show off the men around them and humiliate their former partners to get satisfaction. In this way, I hope my ex-spouse can file for divorce. This means that San Xiao can't get what she wants from men, so she will try to gain some advantages by challenging the original match, hoping that the original match can't stand the pressure and give in.

Usually the typical trilogy of married men picking up girls is:

She is in poor health. I have no feelings for her.

I love you. Let's have sex.

Sorry, for various reasons (children, property, outside opinions, etc. ).), can't divorce.

When San Xiao takes the initiative to provoke the original match, it often shows that their development has reached the third step. San Xiao knew that men would not divorce their wives voluntarily, so she hoped to provoke her to leave voluntarily. Because she also knows the shame of being a mistress, men have long given her some false promises. Therefore, she has been very anxious and must take the initiative to intensify the contradiction between husband and wife. Only when you are divorced, she is no longer a blind mistress, but a single choice of "true love".

The longer she stays in a deformed relationship, the more she loses herself. As her investment increases, the cost of her leaving will also increase.

How can we effectively convince junior three students?

In fact, when San Xiao took the initiative to provoke you, it also reflected a reality: men nowadays are reluctant to divorce. What this man wants most is a wife and a mistress. One doesn't know, the other won't cause trouble, and can enjoy people's happiness with peace of mind. But when San Xiao took the initiative, it meant that San Xiao had begun to do something to force and threaten men to make choices. No one likes being forced and threatened.

Therefore, in order to effectively convince the younger generation, the younger generation is not the key, but the husband is.

Teacher Lin has made corresponding measures for different types of junior high school students. In the face of a strong and playful mistress, women must become virtuous; Facing the career-oriented young generation, women should improve their abilities; In the face of a beautiful mistress, a woman should change her appearance; In the face of a gentle mistress, a woman should learn to create temptation. "

Besides taking care of yourself, you should also work hard on men. But this is not to ask you to use her words against your mistress. Because if you do this, you are actually threatening to force him to make a choice. What you can get at this time is more lies:

"She and I are just playing games."

"Why can't you trust me?"

"This is her initiative."

These are completely meaningless to dissuade mistresses, but men hope to return to that happy time by stabilizing you. Making a fuss is not good for you, but proper crying and weakness will cause men to feel guilty. For example, you can exaggerate San Xiao's insulting words, express why living a good life and running a good family will wronged you, and take this opportunity to make your own demands. For example, I hope he can spend more time with his children, arouse his sense of responsibility as the head of the family, and guide him to do some family activities that can feel the warmth of the family. The more he invests in his family, the greater the cost of giving it up.

The wife chooses to put it down temporarily, and if he wants to be free, give him freedom. But letting go does not mean giving up, but turning passivity into initiative. A woman who is not entangled, dependent, persistent and entangled is very attractive to men and will make men take the initiative to repair your marriage.

After a man cheats, he will not be easily forgiven or wronged. But trying to get a man to turn around and take the initiative to keep you, so that he wants to be with you again.