After the divorce, my ex-husband has been sending messages to harass me, saying that I am looking for a boyfriend, which is very ugly. What's his mentality?

I feel that his psychology is a little abnormal and he is always hurting himself. I feel that he made others dare not agree by self-harm, so as to achieve his own goal. Why do such people get back together after they leave and save money for the New Year?

Stay away is the best policy. If he is psychologically uneasy, his life may be in danger, and you divorce. Marriage is irrelevant. He has always been afraid that you will find a boyfriend. At most, it is caused by men's self-esteem and desire for control. Even if it doesn't belong to him, no one else is allowed to possess it.