Inspiring stories of broken love

Some people are still very inspiring even after falling out of love. Let’s take a look at their stories. Below are the inspirational stories of broken love that I have compiled for your reference! Inspiring Stories of Lost Love Part 1

A girl is broken in love. At night, she walked slowly alone on the city streets, scenes from the past lingering in her mind. She was so sad that she wanted to find someone to hold him and cry bitterly, but she couldn't find such a person.

She walked back and forth over and over again with her head lowered and heartbroken. She felt weak all over and her steps were heavy, but she was afraid to stop, hoping that this would make her feel more relaxed, but she was still sad.

What should I do? There is too much bitterness and tears in my heart. She hugged the lamppost and burst into tears. With tears in her eyes, she told the lamppost the story of her and him: the first acquaintance; the first happy date; the first time he broke a date; the first quarrel; and the last. Break up? The girl cried and laughed, and tears fell from her eyes again when she smiled.

The girl looked at the street lamp sadly, and the street lamp looked at her quietly.

?Help me, street lamp, do you know how painful and sad I am? What should I do? The girl cried to the street lamp.

The street lamp still stared at her quietly without speaking. It knew that it would not be of much use to say comforting words to her at this time, such as "Where are the grasses in the world?" So it just kept looking down at the poor girl quietly.

The girl left and gradually disappeared from the sight of the street lamp. Maybe she would go find a stop sign, a maple tree, or a roadside bench, and tell them her misfortune.

Little story and big truth: Many times, language has no practical meaning. In the final analysis, it is not words that can soothe sorrow, but time and oneself. Inspirational Story of Broken Love Part 2

Her independence after a broken love

Pretending to be calm: That morning, he yelled at me in the kitchen: A 27-year-old woman doesn’t even have the ingredients for noodles. Don’t you know how to do it? It’s funny to say that we actually quarreled and broke up because of it. After breaking up, I couldn’t eat instant noodles every day when I was living alone, so I learned to cook. A year later, I often posted dishes on Weibo, which attracted the attention of many "yummy dogs", including my current boyfriend. Is it a blessing in disguise?

Pretend to be depressed, never

Choin: I was heartbroken at the age of 20 and was in so much pain that I smoked and drank every day, and when I was drunk I gave it to others. Make phone calls and annoy the other person. One day I was called again with a suicide threat. He took me home and said: "I look ugly!" It was like snow pouring down on my head. I ran away from his house the next day, deleted all contact information, went back to school, took the postgraduate entrance examination, and studied for graduate school. I didn't fall in love, but I felt peaceful inside. It’s hard to look back on the past.

Being yourself is the most beautiful thing

Save yourself by getting drunk: I found out he was cheating on me, and because I couldn’t let go of it shamefully, I let him wander around. Desperately trying to please him, acting like the woman he likes, keeping her hair disheveled in style on a hot day, accompanying him to nightclubs to party? Losing herself. One morning when I looked in the mirror, I suddenly noticed that the woman in the mirror with heavy makeup and big waves was who I didn’t know, so I decided to break up with her. Cut your hair short, dress simply, and live the way you want. A few months later, this bad guy came back to bother me, and my aunt’s response was: Go!

I’m calm about breaking up

I’m about to fly: When he called us and said we broke up, let’s break up. , I was stunned for a moment and asked why. The answer was: I don’t feel it anymore. I paused and said politely: Yes. He said guiltily: I'm really sorry. I replied: It's okay, I have to thank you. Then hung up the phone. In the next two years, this man kept asking me to get back together, but my sister no longer wants to look back, hahaha.

Snobbishness wins growth

Yan Yan’s love: His friends laughed at me for not being good at English. OK, I study English by myself for 1 hour every day. He thinks I don’t have a professional title and have no future prospects. OK, I’ll take the professional title exam. His parents thought my parents didn’t have a pension. OK, I worked part-time to make money and bought social security for my parents. A year and a half later, he was still hanging out at blind dates, and I, because of my fluent spoken English and professional title, changed jobs, received a generous salary, and my parents' retirement life was also guaranteed.

When I think about it, why do I still want to date such a shallow and snobbish man?

Him

By chance, love can make you successful

Roar Haitao: I confessed my love to her in my second year of high school, but was rejected. She said that we both had a liberal arts degree and had already planned our college aspirations, so it was difficult for us to be together. At that time, I was young and energetic, so I worked hard on liberal arts and followed her in filling in my application for the college entrance examination. As a result, I went to Beijing and she failed and went to the south. What happened was that my major was good, my job was stable now, and my wife was a college classmate. She, on the other hand, is scattered somewhere.

Perseverance can sometimes work

Cai Er: It turns out that because she is too clingy, she often makes excuses to refuse business trips arranged by her boss, which gives her boss the impression of being lazy and irresponsible. Her parents thought that I was a junior clerk with no future, and they were firmly opposed to our relationship. She couldn't bear it and broke up with me. In order to avoid memories, I took the initiative to go on a business trip and applied to assist in training in other places. I was promoted six months later. Insisting on feelings may not necessarily pay off, but the opposite is true in work.

Defeat yourself by bungee jumping

Baimuren: The youngest in our dormitory, the seven-foot-tall man is as timid as a mouse and is afraid of heights, blood sickness, the dark, and ghosts. I went to the amusement park with my girlfriend and didn't dare to play the exciting sports. The girl said he was unmanly and broke up angrily. A few days after the youngest became decadent, he insisted that I go bungee jumping with him? Something magical happened. From then on, he dared to walk at night, climb high, and even donate blood. He said that the moment he jumped off the bungee jumping platform , suddenly felt that everything was in vain.

The stronger, the more tolerant

Yiyong-kun: She had an argument with a couple in the supermarket, and I didn’t hit the man. At that time, I felt that my girlfriend was a little unreasonable, and that I had been in poor health and timid since I was a child. After the breakup, I decided to improve my physical fitness and learn Taekwondo, which I practiced for five years. But the stronger the body, the more tolerant the heart, the more I feel that fists cannot solve the problem. Nowadays, I don’t cause trouble and I am not afraid of trouble. This feeling of certainty is really good.

Experiment, thanks for love

Two voices: My ex-girlfriend hates me for not working and eating my old age, and she hates my brothers even more. When they broke up, she said disdainfully, "Try not inviting your friends to dinner for three months." I really tried it, but within three months, no one wanted to play with me after only one month. Suddenly I felt that my previous life was so boring and my face was so disgusting. So I gave up drinking and nightclubs, went to bed early and got up early, and went to work. I felt refreshed and made good teachers and friends at work. Thank you so much. Inspirational Stories of Lost Love Part 3

I have heard many stories of lost love, but the story of Dumb is the most touching one among the stories of lost love that I have heard with my own ears. I have selfish intentions to adapt it into a fictional novel, but before that, I still bear the pain to share the real version of the story with you! Because I am a person with great love. The following is the lovelorn story of Dumb.

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On the day I lost my love, I was filming at a reading event, and after work, I went to have dinner with my colleagues. While we were eating, he called and asked me to bring him dinner. I was overwhelmed when I heard this.

He is having too much trouble eating. If I want to go out to eat and ask him what he wants to eat, he will say he doesn’t know. Even if I make 4 or 5 suggestions, he will say he doesn’t want to eat them. If you eat it at home, it will be even more impressive. There must be meat and vegetables. The concept of meat is pure meat. Beef with soy sauce is considered a meat dish. Beef with potatoes is not called a meat dish because it contains potatoes. He doesn't eat minced meat or diced pork. He only eats pork ribs, and only eats salted pork ribs. You must eat noodles with egg sauce... The two of us often quarreled over "eating".

I said: "I am having dinner with my colleagues. I don't know when I will go home!" He hung up the phone. Half an hour later, he called again, urging me to go home, saying he was going to starve to death. I felt chest tight and short of breath, and complained in my heart: Why can't you buy it yourself? But you can't say that, because if you say it, a war will definitely break out.

I packed the meal, left the meal early, and rushed home to deliver the meal to him. He was very dissatisfied with the takeout I brought and sat there eating without saying anything. I have really mixed feelings in my heart.

After he finished eating, I couldn't help but asked, "Do you think it's normal between us?"

He talked a lot. As soon as I heard it, I heard that I had prepared lines in advance. The main meaning is: For my own good, let's break up. He doesn't want to get married at all and doesn't want to delay me anymore.

I have been with him for nine years, and we have broken up countless times, but this time I feel like we are serious. I pretended to be a new woman in front of him. I didn't cry or make trouble, and I was very calm. But as soon as I left the house, I couldn't pretend anymore and started howling as I walked down the street. Memories about me and him came to mind one after another...

　2

He was my college classmate. We both studied photography and we often discussed shooting together. He always has great ideas for homework.

We also have a tacit understanding. Walking down the street, I can burst into laughter at the same time. After laughing, he asked me: "Why are you laughing?" I said: "I laughed at that person's socks, and you?" He said: "Me too."

He loves to make trouble, and there is a problem. Back then, I wore a hoodie and walked outside with him. I don’t know when he ate a bunch of melon seeds and stuffed the melon seed rinds into my hat. We entered the subway and when we walked to the wind, I decided to put on my hat, so in full view of everyone, I slapped myself on the head. The people next to him were all delighted. He looked calm and said innocently, "Let's go!" as if nothing happened.

When I was sleeping, he would secretly take pictures of my distorted face, and use a wide angle to change various angles. After taking the picture, he would shout: "Dumb, get up quickly, don't fall asleep!" I was in a daze. I opened my eyes and saw him sitting in front of the computer, deliberately giving up the position of the screen. I said, "What are you doing?" He smiled evilly and said, "I didn't do anything!" I took a closer look and saw that it was my ugly face, which he had painted in the sun and named me. It's called Buddha Golden Light. I suddenly became frightened and asked, "Is this me?" He laughed so hard that his whole body started to tremble, as if he was having a convulsion. After laughing enough, he said proudly, "How are you? Are you satisfied? Isn't it particularly beautiful?" "

He always does these things that make me laugh or cry, but occasionally he can be careless. Before my birthday, he would disappear for a while every day. If I asked him what he was doing, he would remain mysterious and wouldn't say anything. On my birthday, he gave me a retro bicycle with the same spray paint he got when he was missing every day. When I rode this bike out, it was so cool. The number of people turning around was so high that I didn’t dare to ride it anymore for fear of losing it.

After graduating from college, he originally had the opportunity to join a television station, but because he wanted to make movies, he gave up his stable job and joined the crew as a camera assistant. I think he is very cool and I support him very much. I believe that with his talent, he will realize his ambition sooner or later. I worked as an intern at a newspaper. I took pictures of things that photojournalists didn’t like. I only had royalties but no salary every month.

Because we had no money, we lived in a semi-basement. In fact, the conditions of both our families are not bad, but neither of us is willing to take care of the money at home. I think it’s great to live in a basement. How many superstars have come out of the basement, maybe the two of us will be next! I also showed off this basement to my friends: “It’s very dreamy, there are all kinds of little animals, and it’s great to be home on a rainy day.” And earthworms, do any of you have any?"

After living in the basement for two years, I finally found a job that paid 8,000 yuan a month, which made me extremely happy. I decided to improve my housing conditions and moved to Xuan District. At that time, I thought the Xuan District was very high-end. There was Jet Li’s bacon pancakes opposite and there was a 24-hour delivery service from the canteen.

When he moved, he was filming in other places. I moved in first, and I was woken up by the sun at six o'clock the next morning. I was so excited. The two years I lived in the basement made me forget what it felt like to be woken up by the sun. I quickly sent him a text message: Our house has the sun to provide morning wake-up service!

He spends more than half a year resting without work. He himself is very anxious, but in front of outsiders They also brag and maintain false prosperity. The overall atmosphere in his circle is not very good, they are all braggarts. Others heard that he worked in movies and thought he was glamorous, but in fact he was just a migrant worker.

Later, he paid some children whose families had money and did nothing. One of his buddies married such a girl and lived a happy life every day. He couldn't hide his envy in his words!

I asked him: "Do you think this is interesting?" He said, "It's boring." But he turned around and said, "Why can he do that? You can buy whatever you want, and eat whatever you want without blinking an eye." I feel that no matter it is the outlook on life or any other outlook, we are becoming more and more Far away.

In the two years before we broke up, our relationship was on thin ice. He always dislikes me, and I can't stand him more and more. At work, he is impatient but does not work hard. He only complains and is very decadent. In life, he still needs someone to take care of him. I was completely reduced to a thankless old mother.

One time, I got anxious: "The nanny still gets paid, but you don't give me a penny and you still pick and choose? You can do it yourself. I still have to I’m at work, and I don’t have time to serve you every day!” He became angry as soon as he heard this, and we had a huge quarrel. The whole scene was full of chaos, people falling on their backs, and dust flying...

In order to avoid After the war, I endured it as much as I could. My friends all say I am a Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle. I was also impressed by myself. I didn’t expect that I had such an amazing ability to endure! But I was quite afraid of changing my life at that time. After all, we had been together for so many years, so I persuaded myself: He might just be in a bad mood at this stage, which is so pitiful. Yes, I will let him go, but at the same time I feel that by being with him, my life will really be dedicated to charity.

Now, he has unilaterally announced: There is no need for me to dedicate my life to charity, and I am totally devastated.

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I walked and howled on the street, like a crazy woman who forgot to take her medicine. Robbers would have to take a detour when they saw me. I kept howling until three o'clock in the middle of the night. I called my mother. She thought my grandma had passed away. When she heard that I had broken up, she was so happy that her father and I drove from Xiaotangshan to pick me up. Along the way, my dad kept clapping and smiling, and repeatedly praised: "What a good news!"

My parents didn't like him very much because he had such a bad temper. I went home for dinner and told him I would be back at three o'clock. If he was an hour late, he would call and get mad: "How can we change things that were agreed upon? I have already arranged our time here." "My parents heard the voice on the phone being very loud, so they asked me why. When I told them, they thought they were being so angry over trivial matters. Wasn't this bullying me?

Another time It's because of buying a car. After he made friends who lived a happy life for nothing, he always told me that you should enjoy things while you are young, and what’s the point of being old. You see your family's conditions are not bad, why does your dad treat you like this?

At first, I was very unhappy, but after talking too much, I seemed to have been brainwashed. I felt that my dad was indeed a bit harsh on me! He really wanted to go out and have a car, so I frantically asked my dad to give him one. When I bought a car, my parents knew that this was not my style at all, and he was probably the one instigating it behind my back.

Later, my dad planned to buy me a Mercedes-Benz GLK, but the prerequisite was that I had to maintain the car myself. I told him and he said he would support it if he had money. This is so outrageous. He has no money at all. Most of the money he earns is spent on his wardrobe. He loves to look pretty and likes to buy nice clothes. I have an ominous feeling that I may have to pay for the maintenance of the car in the future, and I will really be exhausted. Later, he and I got into an argument over what color car to buy. I wanted to buy a white one, but he wanted to buy a black one. When I was angry, I didn’t buy it. After calming down, I thought carefully about why I had to buy a car. I didn’t need a car at all. I bought it just to show off or let him go out and show off!

The second reason for breaking up with him God, my mother helped me find a new house and contacted the moving company. We moved there on the same day. The speed was so fast that even he was shocked. For the next three days, I lived like a corpse, lying flat on my bed every day. Later, I pretended that I was fine and did whatever I had to do. My friends said bad things about him, but I defended him and said that he was actually doing my best, which made him feel very uncomfortable.

One day three months later, I was sitting there waiting for my subject, playing with my phone boredly. He had previously bound his email address to my phone. I saw a travel booking receipt in my mailbox. He went traveling with a woman. I also know that woman. She married a rich man and gave birth to a son. Later, the wealthy man found his mistress outside, and she caught him every day.

I was enlightened. I remember that a month before we broke up, he would chat with people on WeChat every day. I also asked: "Who are you talking to?" He said: "You don't know." On the day of moving, I found a new McQueen sweater he bought for more than 8,000. I didn't think he had the money to buy it, but he said it was His mother bought it for him.

I sent him a screenshot of the booking receipt, and also sent it to our best friend who is the same as me. Later, his friend of ten years called me and said that he admitted that he was indeed with that woman now. I exploded all of a sudden...

I told my friends about my misfortunes every day, over and over again, taking the trouble to do so. Later I felt that it was not a problem for Mrs. Xianglin to be like this. Do you want people to think of me as a victim, or as a failed idiot? I changed my route and started drinking. I don’t know how to drink. When I drink too much, I make a fool of myself. I stand on the table and dance. This kind of thing is only in movies. I actually did it... I was so delirious that I had to trouble my friends to take me home. As long as my friends complimented me on the good things in my house, they would give them to me right away. Later, I found that I had nothing left at home. ...I don’t dare to drink anymore.

My fitness coach called me: "You haven't been running for a long time after your physical examination!" "I'm heartbroken!" "Then let's vent!" She said very easily, In my eyes, a heart-shaking, earth-shattering lovelorn, in the eyes of others, is just an ordinary and trivial matter, no big deal.

I used one month’s salary to buy her private lessons. Fitness made me spend several months without realizing it. I took all my anger out on my body, and finally I lost weight from a 124-pound fat man to 100 pounds. The whole person felt refreshed and radiant. I found that seriously changing yourself is indeed worth doing. Even if it starts with anger, gambling becomes a process of self-discovery. In the words of chicken soup, it means meeting a better self.

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After I successfully lost weight, I made another determination to do something that I definitely couldn’t do with him, but I could only do something worthy of myself if I did it. I want to go to London to study and choose a prestigious school with a top photography major.

Finally I determined my goal: University of the Arts London. I called the Beijing office of the University of the Arts London and said, "My name is Dumb. I want to apply to the University of the Arts in London. Can I?" The teacher said, "Come here with your works."

Applying During the process, I discovered that I knew too little about photography. I read books desperately, analyzed artists, and spent a whole year preparing my portfolio. It was winter in Beijing when I got the offer, and it was already dark. I was jumping and crying under the Yonghe Building (Lunyi Beijing Office).

The next step is to learn English. My English is only at the level of a junior high school student, and I got a three-point score in my first IELTS writing test. I didn’t know what to write at all, so I sat in the examination room and rubbed my eraser all the time. But I can’t give up. I’ve already taken the OFFER, so I can only give up.

I found an English teacher, and the teacher said that if the English level that passed the IELTS test is a building, then my current English level does not even have a foundation! It happened that at that time, the place where I worked was a building. Work during the week and not work during the week. When I'm not at work, I study English at home every day. When I see pictures of others eating and drinking in my circle of friends, I can only swallow my saliva silently.

I set myself a devilish plan to read three reading comprehension articles in one hour. Usually, by the time I get to the second article, it takes one hour, and the third article is basically a matter of guessing. Finally, I finished writing. I had a pair of answers, but not many of them were correct. I was so angry that I tore up the book... I relieved my hatred, glued the book back together, and continued working.

The teacher also arranged a perverted training for me, listening to the recording until I wrote everything correctly. It was really difficult. I was pulling my hair out while listening. My hair was almost bald, but I still couldn’t understand. At 12 o'clock at night, I went to the small garden downstairs to recite words, which made me almost vomit. The teacher gave me the nickname "Stupid Spring Flower". Half a year later, Dai Chunhua finally passed the IELTS exam. Although she only scored 6 points on the test, it was already a miracle for a student with extremely poor English skills like Dai Chunhua.

Thinking back, the two years I spent preparing to study in London were the best two years I have lived since 2010. Although it was bitter, the sweetness I tasted was sweeter than ever. .

I am especially grateful to my parents.

There was a time when I was very anxious to get married. Seeing everyone around me getting married, I felt strange that I was not married.

But my parents never pushed me. When we broke up, I was 28 years old. I once felt that I was a piece of shit and it didn’t matter what I wanted. But my parents felt that I was still a fresh talent. I also began to believe that I could live fresher and fresher.

When I decided to study, my parents were very supportive of my choice, including my parents’ friends and my neighbors. They didn’t think I should be anxious about getting married, but Since you have the ability, you should get in touch with different things and open your horizons.

After arriving in London, I met a 40-year-old teacher in the first class. We gossiped about whether he was married, and he said no, but he had a live-in girlfriend with whom we had been together for many years. In the UK this is very common. I talked to him about China's common views on marriage and love, and he expressed shock and didn't understand why he was forced to marry when he was older. I feel more and more that people’s lifestyles are diverse, and whether to get married or not is not a matter at all!

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I hated my ex-boyfriend, he You once told me that I have no patience with you, but I promise I will never lie to you. But he still lied to me! After I got the offer, he asked me to meet. It wasn’t that he regretted it, he just felt that he owed me an explanation, but I didn’t need it. It has been three years since we broke up, and explanations are no longer important to me. Besides, some explanations are the second hurt.

Although we have never met, we all know each other’s current situation. I haven’t blocked him in my circle of friends. Hello, he was very happy. Later, I saw a movie shot by him in the mall. Happy for him too.

Before going to London, I had an encounter with him. That was the first time I saw him after we broke up, and I felt quite calm. He had dinner with the woman and her child at the restaurant. The three of them felt like they were doing their own thing, and he didn't look happy either. He didn't see me, and I later changed places to eat with my friends.

Now I don’t hate him. We had the happiest time together, but slowly, the bad things outweighed the good ones. When those good things were not enough to support us, When we were in a relationship, it seemed that breakup was inevitable! After the breakup, I didn’t become worse. On the contrary, I lived a life with more value than before.

I have been in London for three months now, and I have been working on the paper almost every day. It is still very difficult for my IELTS English score of 6 to cope with the paper. But what makes me happy is: I had rhinitis. When I was in Beijing, I could sneeze 60 times a day. When I arrived in London, I was cured without treatment.

In short, everything is going well for me on the road to discovering a better version of myself!