How to chase this cheerful, popular and talkative girl?

Hehe, I recalled the romantic legends I heard in recent years and summarized the following points. Hee hee, the right to make a brick to attract jade, this time only for girls I don't know to discuss methods. Other situations such as fellow villagers, classmates, teammates, etc. It's all easier, and readers can play by themselves.

For a girl I don't know, whether it is love at first sight or not, it is most important to know her in a natural way. This is very important. If you are seen with a malicious face as soon as you come up, it will arouse the vigilance of girls, then you don't have to work hard. The correct way is that you should leave a shadow in the girl's heart before she knows it. Explain in detail below:

First of all, under any circumstances, don't use methods such as handing notes and writing love letters. Tsinghua, the slightly better-looking girl, can receive hundreds of such things, which will make people look down on you in vain, unless she has been waiting for you, that is another matter. Here's an example:

A friend of mine, who has been secretly in love with anonymous for a long time, found his class and reputation, but there was no chance. Suddenly one day, Yu Sijiao saw its class magazine. Jane Doe's masterpiece was impressive and there was a brief introduction. My friend was suddenly inspired and immediately wrote a book, reading famous books in the cloud, feeling sorry for himself, and so on. At the end of the letter, I said I wanted to meet my bosom friend and hoped to meet him. After that, everything went smoothly and made rapid progress.

Hee hee, but please note that the writing of this letter is very particular, it is not easy to write it correctly, and this method must not be copied. Keep your brain active, seize opportunities and stay calm. Sometimes there are many opportunities to have sex with beautiful women, but when you are nervous, you miss it. Here are a few simple examples: for example, if you see your sweetheart in a chat room, copy down the ip address and pretend to be an unknown person to chat with her. For example, when you were searching for books in the library, you happened to meet your dream girl. (There was no computer search before) You borrowed a pen to chat for a while (that's how a friend of mine got his wife) and so on. I won't talk about it. Too many. Please draw inferences from others.

A good beginning is half the battle. Once you talk nonsense with her, you will get to know her. After that, it is the second step.

The first trick: know yourself and know yourself.

Know yourself first: What is my personality? What are my interests? What is my outlook on life? What about values?

Then recognize the object: what personality is the object of pursuit? What are her interests? What is her outlook on life? What about values?

Re-recognize the enemy: what pursuers does she have? Which one stands out? What are his characteristics?

On the whole, after several thoughts, find out your own strengths, carry forward them, find out his weaknesses, be careful not to make mistakes, know yourself and know yourself, and win every battle.

The second trick: nothing ventured, nothing gained.

Bold but cautious, go forward bravely: after recognizing the enemy and ourselves, be bold and take the initiative to attack. If you love her, you should take the first step bravely.

Rose perfume, phone card: a phone call every day, a rose, don't forget to send a small gift on your birthday, such as a fragrance and a small card, which is a hundred times warmer.

The third measure: the father loves the father and respects the brother.

A girl is a combination of weakness and greatness. She sometimes looks like a little girl and needs to be taken care of. Sometimes like a little mother, she is good at taking care of others. Taking advantage of this trait, the boy constantly plays the kind father to care for her, and occasionally plays the little baby to let her play the maternal glory; Sometimes playing the role of mentor and friend, and sometimes playing the role of big brother, the road to love must be smooth and unparalleled.

The fourth measure: combine hard and soft, and be virtuous.

Obedience to girls from beginning to end is not necessarily good. The cleverest way is to combine rigidity with softness. Sometimes gentle, sometimes a little overbearing; Sometimes spoil her, and sometimes establish a small authority image, the flexible use of the two will surely win every battle.

The fifth measure: tight encirclement, sparse and not leaking.

Although the object of your pursuit is her, please remember that the decision is up to her and the influence is in her family! So be sure to go to her house often, from grandparents, parents, uncles and aunts, to brothers and sisters, and even her domestic dogs and pets, show your versatility and go through customs clearance. As the saying goes, "the population is soft and the manpower is short", I will definitely put in a good word for you in front of her and make her feel that losing you will be a lifelong regret.

Nine taboos for boys:

Taboo 1: Huang Tiao with yellow accent and all hands.

Taboo 2: pink gas, sissy.

Taboo 3: foul language, dirty exit.

Taboo 4: stingy and stubborn.

Taboo 5: arty and vulgar.

Taboo 6: timid, men show gourd.

Taboo 7: chauvinism, overbearing and unreasonable.

Taboo 8: Stalking and beating, chasing after.

Taboo 9: untidy and sloppy.

The above list is for reference only. ...

The more times you touch a woman, the easier it is for her to fall in love with you >

After touching a woman, you can enhance each other's intimacy (physical contact is the best way to get closer to a woman, but how to touch a woman without trace requires excellent skills). It would be perfect if I had a chance to touch her knees or hands. But if you meet on the first date, don't do this. In coffee shops and restaurants, you'd better choose juxtaposed positions (that's how opportunities are made).

In terms of women's body, the left side (roughly the left side, yes, but for left-handed women, it is the right side) is a non-daily area, which is easy to feel itchy, while the left side of the breast is a sensitive area for women. So, it's best to have a woman on your left. If you hold her from the left rear with your left hand, she will fall into your arms. Then look forward to further good results.

& lt the difference between a popular man and an unpopular man >

Popular men always keep a wide distance from undesirable women, but for eager women, there are ways to keep her around. Women are bound to be curious about men who attract attention (curiosity is fatal to women), and this curiosity can be used in interesting conversations and fresh intelligence information. If you are unpopular, even if the other person is curious, I can only try my best to escape as soon as I see you. Unpopular men are always lonely around me. Whenever I want to liven up the atmosphere, I want to be a popular person. I must have self-confidence (self-confidence and not arrogance are the only way to chase my girlfriend, remember! ), and good interpersonal relationships, I believe that in this way, a good girl will belong to you.

& lt from friends to lovers >

I finally got a chance to ask her out, but I didn't know what gift to bring. It's best to bring a flower on this occasion, so that you may pin it on her chest (giving gifts is knowledge, but it is unwise to insert flowers on the chest of an "unfamiliar" woman) or send it, which naturally forms an opportunity to kiss each other. As for dining, you may have to be careful the first time, but you can choose after the second time.

& lt Give yourself a chance to step into her inner world >

After the other person becomes your girlfriend, many people worry that their relationship will not go on. In fact, if these people don't care too much, they will often let the opportunity to improve their mood slip away quietly. In the female ethnic group, they attach great importance to the boys who want to help women with their coats, because at the moment of taking off their coats, if there are men present, it is easy for women to have the illusion of lovers. When riding in the car, if you can say: put the forgotten things on my side, it will bring you closer to her. But if these behaviors are not used properly, they will be self-defeating.

& lt create an accident >

Mystery is very important to women. Men who meet by chance are more attractive to women than men introduced by others or known in the workplace. If this accidental situation happens repeatedly, women will be convinced of the existence of fate. But can they create a second chance? In fact, this is something that everyone can do. If you want to meet a girl anyway, you can check her commuting route and other related matters in detail, so it will be much easier to create a second chance. It is much easier to accept that women are successful men. Women always pay attention to the essential existence of men's true colors, so when they understand that men's true colors are not their favorite types, most people will take the opportunity to escape. It's better to make some changes if it can meet her preferences. In addition, excellent memory is a characteristic of women. Some men forget a sentence, but women remember it clearly, so you must remember everything you said to her.

& lt What kind of gift does she want? & gt

In terms of gifts, if a girlfriend likes small things, she can give a ring, a watch or flowers. If she likes big items, you can send big dolls or large and numerous bouquets to win her favor. Generally speaking, people who like small items are mostly mature people, because these items can be placed within their control. So most women who like big dolls are still a little childish, so she may haunt her boyfriend when she is happy. However, it is also possible that after she is tired of hugging dolls, she doesn't want to hug you anymore. In this respect, women who like small items seem to be more likely to cultivate long-term love, although it will cost you more.

& lt Shortcut for Kissing >

There is a principle when kissing a woman, that is, to press her against the wall. Women can find the steps against the wall because I can't hide (-yes! ! If you want to kiss a girl, give her a step, even if it is similar to "strong kiss", it is very easy to succeed! What you can't escape and avoid is a very important factor psychologically. Before you want to become an expert in erotic hunting, you must be familiar with all kinds of techniques and understand the psychology of women in order to win the final victory. Finally, when choosing a bar or restaurant, you'd better choose one with steps, because it will give you more excuses to get close to her. If you can hold her hand, it will make her peel off a layer of defense, and everything left in front of you is right.

& lt If you give in to women's words or attitudes too much, you are sure to fail >

Women are cute and scary animals. The main difference between men and women is that they both have two kinds of personalities, which are quite soft on the surface, but they can be said to be vicious inside. Men who are not good at pursuing women easily succumb to this horror. Men who are not used to facing such women will succumb to women's words or smiles and become indecisive.

& lt How to pursue a more intellectual and emotional girl? & gt

Generally speaking, women can be divided into two types. One is infatuation with men who can put themselves above others, and the other is infatuation with men who always belittle themselves. Men who are not good at understanding women always beautify women, so they can't directly put forward objective opinions. On the contrary, if they are good at communicating with women, even if they say something unpleasant, they will be flushed and breathless, and there will often be some good things around them.

& lt Sometimes you might as well spoil her >

Of course, it is best for men and women to have the same personality. There are often two people in the world who are called "a match made in heaven". These people had many similarities before they met. When they live together,

There are also many similarities. In fact, if men and women can complement each other, it is also a good combination. Women who are bosses often show their strong side to others in order to prove their income. If your date is like this, you might as well find a chance to act like a spoiled brat in turn. For a woman with strong self-esteem, it is easier to catch her heart. What these girls say and do are basically the same. The most important thing is to satisfy her self-esteem, so sometimes you might as well play the slave of love. When you get along with these women, as long as you remember the principle of never disagreeing with her, it will be unexpectedly easy to pursue them and will be an ideal object.

& lt show your gentleness and thoughtfulness >

Do this gentle behavior, don't be too deliberate, you should seize the opportunity and do it with a calm mind. It is very important if you can show a kind smile to dogs and kittens, or show love to flowers and grass. At this time, she will feel that you have such feelings for these little things, and your feelings for women are beyond doubt. At the same time, she will also make sure that you are a very gentle man. In this way, you are half successful.

& lt The sea and sunset are the best combination to seduce women >

Women have longed for water since ancient times (yes, the best place for dating is the sunset by the sea! ! )。 In most romantic songs, it seems that the sun is not set at noon, and there is no one who is not immersed in sadness because he sees the sunset at the seaside. A relationship must be immersed in sadness first, and only when you feel a person's loneliness can you appreciate the taste of feelings. If a woman agrees with this scene, she will agree with this emotion.

& lt Give her dreams in communication >

Some people think that girls are easy to be cheated, but is this really the case? In fact, even if a girl is cheated, she will have a willing idea. So when a well-dressed man appears in front of them, these girls are likely to gamble their luck according to their own wishes. So the most important thing is that you should give each other some dreams. At first, you can't change your attitude or commitment to approach her. To be clear, you should give her dreams. If you keep her dream, your relationship will be deeper.

If your girlfriend yawns lightly on a date, it's not that she is tired, but that you say she is tired of you (be careful in this short period, it's important to know whether a woman is impatient with you), or that she slightly signals you to pay attention to the time on your watch, indicating that she already wants to go home. If her thoughts are strong, then she may show that she always looks around at your behavior. At this time, you probably don't exist in her heart. If a woman is with the man she loves, she often doesn't care about her surroundings. If these women are self-centered, it's not too much, but if women look to other things, you should be prepared to end this relationship at any time. If women say "men are really annoying", many women like to add the word "annoying" after a sentence. But in this usage, there are two different meanings that deserve attention. When "hate" is generally used to express it, if it is not very close, it often appears in men and women who are very close. Then the other person may give you a contemptuous look in silence, so if a woman is willing to talk to you, your intimacy will increase in comparison. In order to increase intimacy, you have to show her your masculinity as soon as possible, but if a man makes a woman feel unclean, it is likely to make her flinch.

& lt Observe women by talking & gt；;

What kind of person is she? If she is a person who can talk nonstop, it is easy to make people wonder what is going on in her mind. Humans always want others to take a look at themselves, so both men and women always arrange their appearance properly, but their appearance is not complete enough, so through dialogue, others can know themselves better. Women whose voices change quickly, they will express their inner excitement with their voices, and speaking softly is also a type that can make people enjoy it. However, you should pay special attention to women who talk like neighbors. She may be extremely jealous, on the contrary, a woman with low sound quality may be more masculine.

& lt Women who often listen to walkman are more self-centered & gt；;

Recently, you can often see some women wearing walkman on the bus. In fact, some of these women who use headphones to suppress their hearing are actually trying to escape loneliness and immerse themselves in the music world. However, some women are willing to take off their headphones for men, but this requires considerable vigilance, because this is one of the types of self-centered people.

& lt Women are usually attracted by [first impressions].

It has been reported that women should be careful about their first impression of (-), and many people died at this point! ! ) Men with beards have a higher opinion than men without beards. Appearance, posture and clothes are all important factors that determine the first impression. If these first impressions are not brought into play, it will be bad. Usually, the first impression given by appearance is deeply embedded in the other person's heart, so the first impression is very important. If a man can pay attention to his attitude towards clothes at ordinary times, he will win in love.

How to pursue girls with type O blood

Type o people pay more attention to the first impression. If you leave a bad impression on type O people from the beginning, it will be quite difficult to recover in the future. On the contrary, if you leave a good impression on her at the first meeting, it will be much smoother to contact her in the future.

To this end, we must first be sincere to each other and let her feel your sincerity, so that she can rest assured of you until she has trust. Dally, circuitous way of thinking expression will not make O-type people tempted. Be sure to see her advantages and disadvantages clearly, don't flatter her, and don't be smart enough to enlighten her, which will make her angry.

Except for some marriages for political purposes, O-type people generally like to decide their own lifelong events. Therefore, don't try to use the strategy of beating about the bush, it will be counterproductive.

When dating a type O person, it is best to choose her favorite hobby or favorite job as the topic of dating, and it is best to use the tone of discussion in everything she says and does. It will be effective if we can talk about romantic love stories with her for a long time. But be careful, don't be distracted when you meet her. She likes you to send souvenirs best. Let her know in your communication that you like her mood very much; I sincerely appreciate her advantages and draw a beautiful blueprint for her future. Of course, you also need to tell each other your own conditions, situation and marriage view in advance to satisfy the practical character of O-type people.

Type O people are more tolerant to friends and relatives, so it doesn't matter to play a few jokes with her casually. But don't hurt her pride. Otherwise, she will fly into a rage. She also hates praise and gratitude.

How to pursue a girl with AB blood?

Generally speaking, unexpected discovery will not make AB girls emotional, and it is impossible to gain her trust. Falling in love with her begins with contact with friends. Make extensive friends with them, and finally be introduced by her trusted friends to help play drums. In addition, AB girls hate vulgar words and deeds. It is a good way to touch her heart with sentimental love letters. However, don't bluff. Some AB girls hate all kinds of complicated relationships at home, so it's best not to let the family put forward any demands and hopes.

Type AB people like to be asked for the best. She will be very happy if she asks her out with something. She doesn't like following the crowd, and she doesn't like gorgeous clothes. What she pursues is elegant taste and lively conversation. I hope your date with her will cultivate your sentiment. The best way to know her is to visit art galleries and watch meaningful movies. Of course, she also likes to go to restaurants together. It should be noted that she is not good at talking about emotional topics.

Tell AB directly, and Metropolis will confuse her. It's best to find a friend that both sides can trust and patiently introduce the situation to each other. As long as she thinks you are a friend who can communicate with others with confidence, you will get a happy marriage.

How to pursue girls with type A blood

For girls with type A blood, even if they have a certain emotional foundation, they must not show any anxiety; Once you are too explicit and imposing, it is the most dangerous. You shouldn't make a fuss when you haven't become close friends with them. You should let nature take its course, express your character frankly and open your heart. However, it should be noted that the principle of strict self-discipline cannot be used to demand the other party. Once the self-esteem of type A people is stabbed, it is difficult to heal it. The way of hot pursuit and quick decision may be effective for type O people, but for type A people, all they can get is for the other person to leave angrily.

For a type A person, it will be very helpful if she can win the goodwill and trust of her relatives and friends. You must take the initiative in courtship, but you can't ask the other party to make a statement on the spot.

When dating a type A person, you must avoid people's eyes and ears and not make it public too early. A type A person like you is dressed up and chatting with her on the quiet beach. When dating her, you must be rich in topics, lively and interesting, and talk about everything at your fingertips. She also likes men with a sense of humor. Giving a girl a gift is not about weight, but about making her feel practical. For the temptation of love from the other side, don't open your heart immediately, and confess it immediately; Express your love for her calmly, take care of each other carefully, and don't rush for success. Once she thinks you are the only person she can turn to and trust, you can win love.

When communicating with Type A people, it should be noted that although you get along well with her, don't ask her privacy casually, let alone always ask her what she is thinking and doing. Don't be jealous of her, and don't have the slightest spirit, or she will part ways with you at once.

How to pursue girls with type B blood

Type b people are easy to accept suggestions. If talking to them is speculative, then the chance of interacting with them is half. After that, express your love for her heartily, and you can successfully gain her trust and love.

Judging from the temperament of type B, she doesn't like being too formal, and can get the support of relatives and friends when necessary, but don't go too far. In addition, we should also pay attention to her stubborn and willful temper. Get along with type B people, regardless of who proposed. However, it should be noted that type B people sometimes make friends with several people at the same time, and they must find out what she thinks before they confess.

It's better to talk about something when dating a B-type girl, so it's easier to get close. Type B people like lively conversation atmosphere. She likes to dress up full of energy, and she also likes to watch movies or sports games with you. The gift for type B people must be something meaningful to both sides. Please note that she can't tolerate your casual attitude. Once you are found careless, you will never have a second chance to meet her.

Associating with B-type girls, talking to her in a tone of asking for help from the boss without disguise, will make sympathetic B-type people particularly happy. On this basis, you can express your feelings step by step. After communicating with her to a certain extent, don't relax easily, otherwise all your efforts will be in vain.

Don't worry when you meet a type B girl for the first time. Trust her. Keep trying, even if she is playing a prank on purpose, she should be willing to accept it.

When you can date her, no matter what topic she talks about or says, you should listen to her with relish and choose the right time to show your interest in this topic.

Title: Teach you 6 tricks to chase your girlfriend [198]

Content:

1. External image

This can't be ignored in any case, so in front of your beloved girl, you should dress up neatly from head to toe. Imagine if you stink, your hair is messy, your clothes are messy, and no girl wants to date you, even if you say a word. She may not admit it, but every girl silently looks at every man around her, so your appearance will attract her attention (maybe in the corner). When you start dating a girl, you can spray a little perfume properly, because men have a lot of exercise and have a taste more or less. Otherwise, it's called "smelly man" Girls will mind the smell before they fall in love with you, and may keep their distance from you because of this. If she doesn't mind your smell, it's that she has accepted you to some extent, because this is the real you.

Step 2 be generous with money

Don't take out your money before a girl has time to think, and don't calculate for the girl's contribution in any way, even if it's a joke (this is not to say that a girl takes money seriously, but that you have established a sense of responsibility and security in front of her, which is a mature performance). Dating is an investment. If the investment is successful, she will give birth to your children and help you make money. Think about such a big return on investment. So, be generous with your money, such as sending her home after the date, and remember to take a taxi instead of taking the bus; Also, when the relationship develops to a considerable extent, you can give her something memorable on her birthday, such as a necklace, a ring, or a watch (you can know her needs in advance and give her a surprise. If you are a delicate girl, try to buy a gift that suits her mind, otherwise she will be dissatisfied with your eyes.

3. Rhetoric

A woman is sometimes a stupid animal. Some lies often make her believe that others will find it ridiculous, but don't forget that if you tell the truth, she will be unhappy, even hate you or stay away from you, so it will be difficult for you to pursue her. Sweet talk is an inevitable weapon. What matters is how you express it. For example, I would like to spend every minute of my life with you if I can. "You are all to me, and I am willing to give everything for you." I really can't think carefully about the content of noodles. Because I can't tell her. It's not completely unrealistic for me to teach you. Say it when it's time.

4. Deep and humorous

You can usually collect some jokes as a topic of dating. Of course, yellow jokes are an exception, otherwise they will be regarded as perverts. In addition, you can practice singing a few songs, and humming on a date will often have unexpected effects, provided that you are tone-deaf. You should reveal your profound knowledge in a timely and appropriate manner, know everything from life to entertainment, improve your "score" in her mind, and make her feel good about you. Remember, it is not advisable to show off on purpose.

5. Timely subtotal

Psychologists have verified that robbing someone else's boyfriend (or girlfriend) is more attractive than chasing one yourself. Although everyone says verbally that they don't want to be a third party, they subconsciously want to try the predatory feeling of the third party. So, at the beginning, you can tell the girl you want to chase that you are "taken". On the one hand, you can be sure of your value to her, indicating that you are not redundant; On the other hand, you can relax her vigilance. After all, if a girl is wary of you, it is even harder for you to chase her. At that time, you can tell the other person that you broke up, or tell her that you can't help liking her, and you have lost your previous feelings for your girlfriend. I believe she can feel it. But it should be noted that girls will not like to be substitutes, which should be remembered.

Sometimes, when you don't know how to start after seeing the ideal object, my suggestion is that you can pretend to tell her that you want to chase a girl, but you don't know how to chase her, and let her be your strategist or staff officer. Of course, at first, you must never show off silk's interesting behavior towards her. She will think about how you should chase her according to her own experience or thoughts, because a person's thinking mode often alludes to herself, so she is equivalent to revealing a good way of "how to chase her". Later, you can slowly "unconsciously" like her, and it's up to you to take care of it yourself. As the saying goes, "the master leads the door and practices in the individual." If you don't think it's right to go out alone, you can ask someone she knows among your friends and tell you the result.

This is a way of pestering and beating, but sometimes it is good to give each other some space to breathe. Some girls don't have to put too much pressure on her, or the other person may be afraid, because when people get along with each other, if they are bored together, they won't see the importance of each other, and only after losing them will they know whether the other person is valuable to them. For example, when chasing a girl encounters a bottleneck, or after you have missed, you can stop first, and during this time, try to restrain yourself from disturbing her. Remember, I don't mean a year or two. I think she might forget you, and then you try to get close to her and observe her reaction. If she is cold to you (maybe she wants you to stay away from her because you ignore her or she is not interested in you at all), if it is the latter, you may have to ask for help yourself. If not, congratulations, the other party will not lose feelings for you. If you say you can't see how she treats you, don't worry, some clues will be found. Be careful, I believe you can find them.

In fact, in the process of chasing girls, the woman's friends are often the key to winning. Sometimes it is obvious that she is catching up, but it is only a small step. Isn't it irritating? So! The advice of the other friend is often more credible and effective than what you say. Therefore, the other's girlfriends should at least work hard. I'm not asking you to please them, but to make them feel good about you, so that they won't hold you back or even put in a good word for you in your pursuit. Don't underestimate it, it is more effective than you say!

6. Sincerity lies in you.

There are usually two reasons why a girl will refuse you. One is that you are not sincere enough. In other words, she doubts whether you have the heart to be with her after all. Second, there is no feeling. What do you mean, no feeling? If you haven't known each other for a long time and neither of you knows each other well enough, it may be that your appearance can't satisfy her. She was afraid of stabbing you, so she said she didn't feel anything. After all, when people meet for the first time, the first impression of appearance is undoubtedly the most important. If you are already close friends, the meaning of not feeling will include the factors that the other party thinks you two can't get along.

So, if you feel that your appearance can't attract the other person, you should impress her with your sincerity and show your concern and consideration for her at the right time?