Bad people equal high emotional intelligence?

You can understand it this way, but it doesn't completely mean, tell me something you read in a love book before! A boy wants to send a date invitation to a girl, what will you do? What a good man does is send a message: Do you have time to have dinner tomorrow? Girls usually answer: I have something to do tomorrow! Attention! This is the first test for girls, and usually girls will answer this question. If you answer "Oh, some other time!" Then you basically have to change people. If you answer "What about the day after tomorrow?" Girls will answer "Let's talk about it the day after tomorrow", which is a girl's reply skill. On the one hand, she said she was busy, not the kind of girl who didn't want to do anything (to show her charm); On the other hand, I want to test whether this man really invited.

Such formal invitations basically do not exist in bad men. They will set up a game to let girls "make their own invitations". First of all, their circle of friends must be carefully installed, and the photos are all in and out of various high-end places. There is always a feeling of "Gao Fushuai". Of course, whether it is really Gao Fushuai or not, this attitude is at least better than sending "Shaxian snack ribs soup"! The bad guys won from the first step! Then start the second step of seduction, so seduction? Bait, of course! Nowadays, many girls flaunt themselves as foodies. As long as they publish food photos, they will definitely attract girls! Don't you see, there are comments on food! At this time, bad men can chat according to their likes and comments, and evaluate the restaurant. In short, they can show their wide knowledge.

At this time, girls have two reactions: one is to say "if you have the opportunity to take me with you", and the bad man will invite you immediately. "It is better to choose a day to bask in the sun, just tomorrow! It's just that there will be activities there tomorrow. " Girls have two reactions at this time. One is to accept it directly, and the other is to continue to test "not tomorrow, I will go shopping with my girlfriend tomorrow". Bad men are also smart and will immediately say, "What a pity! His food is really great. You must try it when you have the opportunity. " It's not that you are disappointed, but that you feel sorry for each other and continue to improve your goodwill. If girls are not firm, they will generally say "better than the day after tomorrow!" The invitation is complete!

Another reaction is "I want to go but don't say". "Oh, this hotel is good." They will reply like this, waiting for the invitation. "yes! I'll take you to try it when I'm free! " Bad guys smell their voices. "all right! But I'm very busy recently. " Girls continue to shirk. "Nothing, I am also very busy recently. Let's get together when everyone is busy! You can't escape from my palm anyway! " The bad man began to tease. "Gee, I'm blind!" Girls are usually happy at this time but don't want to show it. Then it went from eating to flirting. ...

Emotional intelligence is often high because of thinking too much, thinking completely and thinking deeply, and bad men just have these conditions. Let's talk about the skills of this invitation, even if it is used on customers, it will have a good effect! I dare not say that all the people with high EQ are bad men, but the EQ of bad men is not low.