A letter to a divorced wife

Marriage has finally come to an end. The divorce agreement is the end of marriage. In retrospect, how much love and hate have become memories. Pain and tears go with the autumn wind, but what I can't take away is the warm memories of the past. Below I sorted out a letter to my divorced wife. Welcome to reading.

A letter to divorced wife XXX:

I've been trying to calm down and write something, but I can't calm down. It's a mess. I can't remember the last time I wrote to you. Counting, it may have been ten years ago. Communication is so convenient now. Phone calls, text messages, emails and QQ are all so fast. This slightly ancient way of communication has been forgotten. But at this moment, I want to write this letter to you, which is a different farewell.

It has been more than 10 days since the conflict broke out in July 10. My common life ended in July 15, which is a long and painful 10 days for me. It all happened so suddenly. Although I was not feeling well for a while before this, and two people quarreled more than before, I didn't expect this day to come so soon. I have been thinking about our business these days. When I get off work, I think I'm afraid to go home from work and feel too cold. I dreamed of similar plots several times when I slept at night. I woke up to find that it was a dream, but it was also a fact, and then I couldn't sleep for a long time. Although I sleep next to you, I feel that the distance between two people is so far, and that is the distance between my heart. I tried to anesthetize myself with alcohol, but the pain didn't decrease.

I have been blaming myself these days. For so many years, I didn't do well enough to give you a happy life, otherwise I wouldn't be here today. I'm used to ordinary days in my life, but I don't consider your feelings. I am an introverted person, and I am not good at communication. Most of the communication with you is led by you. When we walk together, usually you talk a lot and I listen a lot. But I still like being with you and walking with you. Although sometimes I feel tired after work and feel that walking for an hour is too far, basically, I still insist on accompanying you. Maybe there is less emotional communication. Think of yourself as an old couple. You don't have to say anything. Although your position in my heart has never wavered, maybe you didn't feel it, because my actions and words didn't give you this feeling. I feel guilty that when you were pregnant with your daughter, you didn't enjoy the national treasure treatment that pregnant women should have.

There has been no great improvement in work, so that although the economic conditions at home are still passable, they are barely enough, and there has been little spare money. Stocks lose money, it costs money to build a house at home, and the house has a mortgage. I feel that the money is similar every year. At the end of last year, I finally got a chance to work by myself. I think it should be better. Earning more and earning less is better than working. But going out will be very busy, and I hesitated not to live such a tired life. But your support finally made me make up my mind to work hard for me. If it can improve the living conditions at home, I think it is worthwhile. My daughter often asks when we can move to a bigger house. Although it is a naive idea of children, it is also a kind of emotion for adults. Besides, I don't want to be an ordinary migrant worker all my life. Work is basically very busy and sometimes annoying, but I don't feel tired with my family as my strong backing. I will be very happy after work every day. After a hard day, I can go home to see you and our daughter. There are few cars on the road at night. Basically, I was speeding all the way I want to go home early before you go to bed. I'll try to arrange a day off on weekends. To tell the truth, I really don't want to work overtime. I have worked in other companies before. But now, I can't help it. The company is still in its infancy and its scale is very small. It basically develops near the survival line. I have to work for several people by myself, so overtime is inevitable. When chatting, former colleagues said that you are working for yourself now, and overtime is also for yourself. However, I don't want to live this company-oriented life all the time, thinking that everything will be fine and the company will be on the right track. With the income, you can also find someone to manage it specially, so you don't have to deal with so many things yourself. But I didn't wait until this day. I thought my strong backing was gone. Life seems to have lost its center at once, and I don't know where the meaning is.

From seeing Shaolin Temple and Huo Yuanjia at your house to accidentally hitting me with a stone, we went to Hangzhou to study on the same day. Although I've known each other for a long time, I haven't talked much and I didn't expect to be together. Until the winter vacation before graduation, we listened to that touching song together. The dreamy past is full of laughter. It's the song we listened to the most when we first started dating 15 years ago. Every time I hear this song, I will think of that wonderful winter vacation that year. Although several people are often together, I know I am together because of you. After returning to school, in our dormitory, I told you that I liked you and kissed you. We started running to each other's schools. It was still very troublesome to make a phone call at that time. Sometimes I couldn't get through, but I really wanted to see you, so I ran directly, but I couldn't find you, so I had to go back to school by bus. I am very happy to find it, holding your hand and walking around. If it's a weekend and I can't go back, I'll stay in your school's guest house so that we can be together the next day. It's summer vacation, and we agreed not to tell our family about us. But basically I still come to your house every day, sneaking around and talking about various topics. Reluctantly, I can't wait to be together for 24 hours. You often wait for me at home, and if you wait too long, you will be angry with me, but you don't know that I am looking for an opportunity to sneak into your house. In fact, you know it, but you still have to be angry with me because I have kept you waiting for too long.

After graduation, we all stayed in Hangzhou and started a life of two people. At that time, you worked shifts and had more rest time. You often come to my place and you have to change trains many times on the way. There is no bus in the last section, so you can only take a tricycle. Sometimes I will pick you up at the bus stop and shake you back to the dormitory together. After eating a good meal, I went out for a walk, went to town for a walk on weekends, and watched TV in the dormitory at night. What impressed me the most was "Cherry Maruko" by Phoenix TV and "Jingwumen" by Donnie Yen. Later our unit moved to the city. We rented a house outside and bought some simple daily necessities. There is no TV. We listen to music, Xu Ruyun's songs and saxophone. Life is simple, but it's real. In this way, two years passed until I went to work in other places.

At that time, we were far away from Wan Li, but our hearts were together. We began to write letters to express our love for you. I'll call you later, but choose the time when you go to work, because there is a phone at work. The telephone bill is very expensive, but I still don't want to hang up if I often call for a few hundred dollars. You bought a BP machine. If I miss you when I'm not at work, I'll send a pager with the code number 2222. Go for two and a half years, and only come back for the New Year once in the second year. Pick me up in Shanghai when you come back and help me take my winter clothes to the airport. It's been a year and a half. Although I often keep in touch, I still feel a little strange after meeting. That winter, I accompanied you for half a month, but after half a month's holiday, I couldn't bear to leave you and never wanted to go back to that parting life. But I have no choice but to leave. For the sake of high wages in other places, I must persist for a period of time. But the working and living environment outside is not good, which makes people feel bored and depressed, so I didn't want you to come with me. I began to plan the time to go home, and decided to start counting down.

Finally, I have returned to Hangzhou, where I have been away for too long, and I have also returned to your side. You still came to Shanghai to pick me up as you did a year ago. Because there were a lot of luggage, we chartered directly back to Hangzhou. Unexpectedly, the taxi driver in Shanghai had no professional ethics and sold us to another car on the way. The original agreement was to take the expressway, but it turned into a path. The road was bumpy and took a long time. I feel terrible.

We started our lives again, but we have been apart for a long time. In fact, everyone has changed a little. Although we thought our feelings could stand the test of time, our feelings may have faded after a long separation. On the day of separation, their working and living environment was different and their ideas changed. We have been in love for five years. Although we have been together for less than two years, our relationship has stood the test and there have been incidents in the middle, but we all feel that the other party is the person we love. We got married in April 2000, and everyone felt natural. A year later, we bought a house and began to decorate it. But it was also this year that you began to question our married life, felt that love had faded, and there was no * * between us, and proposed separation. Persuaded by both families, we finally chose to compromise.

We lived in a new house before the Chinese New Year and had a daughter in 2003. Our daughter grows up day by day under our care. She is beautiful and intelligent, and likes singing and dancing. Every two or three months, we will measure her height on the wall and write down the time on the side. This is the growth history of our daughter. You bought a set of parent-child clothes for our family and went out to play on weekends. Botanical Garden, Quyuan Fenghe, Bai Causeway, Baoshishan, Children's Palace, Jiuxi, Pagoda of Six Harmonies, Beifeng, University Campus? There are too many places in Hangzhou that have left the footprints of our family of three.

Life is dull and feelings are dull. I think it's true that the husband and wife have been together for a long time. It's impossible to stay in love all the time. We have each other in our hearts. This is love. However, after so many years, we still haven't got out of the emotional crisis of that year. I'm disappointed.

I've been thinking these days, how can people who once loved each other say they are separated? Is that love really gone? I want to replace love with hate, but I can't hate. Looking at the pain of family members, I feel even more painful. What have we gained and lost now, which is more important?

Writing so much is a memory and summary of our love.

Dear, thank you for giving me the best time of my life.

We once loved each other and went hand in hand. Although we are separated now, we will still be friends in the future.

Finally, I wish you happiness!

Take good care of our daughter.

XXX

XXXX。 X. X

Letter to Divorced Wife 2 Dear Ex-wife:

Your divorce letter, like a bolt from the blue, split my life in two. The first half was bad and the second half was good. We have been together for 10 years, and I have reservations about whether you can be a wife.

I go to watch TV because I don't want to hear you say in the circle of friends who bought the screen and who is showing love. If you are unhappy, you will block it. Of course I noticed that you changed your hairstyle. At first glance, I thought it was my mother. Do you want me to tell you the truth and break your heart?

You know, I'm not good at lying. That meal you cooked was really more thoughtful than before. After all, there is no cooked food that is easy to heat. However, have you forgotten that I haven't eaten chicken for several years, or do you take me as your new favorite Mike? Also, the invoice for your bag is on the dresser, which says 9680. Mike borrowed ten thousand dollars from me two days ago. I see. It's just a coincidence.

Anyway, in my heart, I still love you. After all, we have 10 years of love experience. So, when I sold those cross-stitch thangkas that you didn't expect, I did find a way to make money. I just paid the down payment for the villa and bought two air tickets to Europe. I want to go on holiday with you. When I got home, I found that you had left. I feel extremely sad inside.

By the way, I don't know if I told you, but Mike seems to have hit a bottleneck. I wonder if he can survive this. However, his Ferrari and villa with sea view have been pawned.

Take care! Don't read!

Your ex-husband

XXX

XXXX。 X. X

Letter to Divorced Wife: Third Wife:

I don't know how many days I can call you that. At least when you read this letter, we are still husband and wife, because even if we use express delivery, the household registration book will not be sent home until after eleven o'clock. Thank God, we still have a long and short 11th holiday to reflect on this marriage objectively and fairly, and decide our future and the future of our children.

Actually, I should have written something to you a long time ago. At least, when lines of words flow from the pen tip, my heart is calm, and I can express and explain my thoughts more completely, instead of just relying on a short meeting and a few short messages, except for quarreling, which is pain.

Speaking of which, I'd rather be an audience and listen to what you're thinking than use this? I said, will you listen? A way to increase your disgust, but I only heard your shortest words after listening for more than three months? Tired? 、? Don't want to live together? Afraid? Wait, are these sad memories all you have left after seven years of marriage? Forget that we walked hand in hand from the suburbs to your home on a snowy night; Forgot to secretly leave the children at home for the elderly and ride a tandem bike on the banks of the Pearl River? I forgot that you were on duty in the hospital, so I went to see you quietly. What a surprise.

Maybe I'm not a good husband. Although I cherish you, this family and our lovely children, I don't know how to love and how to express this love. Even now, your casual look back and your smile make my heart ache. This feeling is unique, exclusive and unforgettable. Maybe I really should.

Open QQ chat records if you have nothing to do at night. This time last year, I went to Jiuzhaigou and took a bus for more than ten hours. I missed you, but I couldn't sleep. I found an internet cafe to chat with you and said that I don't have much money on me. You told me not to wronged myself and let my colleagues borrow some first. I said, no, save some money and buy you a sexy underwear. Looking at these, I shed tears, thinking about you in my heart, but I didn't say I love you. When I finally said it, the situation became so bad. Is it providence or the silence of life?

When I was young, I really didn't understand love and life, did I, wife?

For the pride and self-esteem of my youth, when arguing about divorce, it seems that it is not enough to express my strength and win my voice, but I lost my life. When divorce is getting closer and closer to me like a witch, so close that I can clearly see her hideous face, I can clearly know how big the gap between negative language and reality is.

Just as you are a traditional woman, so am I a traditional man. Although I sometimes tell jokes about three wives and four concubines, that's just some talk in my life. What I yearn for more is to watch the sunset with my lifelong lover, watch my children grow up, get married and have children, and when we are old and retired, we can walk around with you and worship all the gods in the world with gratitude.

You said, you can't feel my love for you, maybe, but the happy love in the world may have various forms, but it is essentially the same. I am glad for you and cry for you. The feeling of love, some rich and short, some meaningful, only in this way, there are all kinds of affection in the world.