Why did Li and Faye Wong divorce?

It has been some time since Li divorced Faye Wong, but the aftermath still lingers, and there are different opinions on the reasons. The general view is that the two sides will always belong to two worlds, and it is easy to fall in love and too difficult to get along. In fact, the incompatibility between two people in work and life can be seen before. The performance of this couple in the Angel Fund is completely different: Li is full of positive energy, and his words must be called enterprise spirit and life construction; Faye Wong almost only appeared on the dinner platform of the thank-you fund. He usually plays mahjong, has fun and burns incense to worship Buddha.

Faye Wong once sent a text message to Li complaining: "What do you want? It's useless! " As the husband of Tianhou, Li's unfamiliarity with Faye Wong's works is also surprising.

Premarital

Coke throwing theory,

Xiuen' ai has no good result.

Li and Faye Wong began to fall in love in 2003, and for ten years, their feelings never stopped. The lack of confidence in this relationship mainly comes from Li's past love affair. He has always given people the impression of "breaking his heart and eating soft rice".

In 2003, Li's biography Love Dust recorded in detail his five relationships before Faye Wong. I met my first girlfriend in my hometown in Xinjiang, and Li accompanied her to take the Chinese opera exam, and her life changed from then on. After graduating from Chinese opera, Li didn't want to be an actor. He wrote a script to attract investment and lost money. His girlfriend was a senior white-collar worker in a foreign company. He lives in his girlfriend's house, and depends on her for food and shelter. He sleeps during the day and writes plays at night. This is considered by many people as "eating soft rice".

1998, Li got to know Qu Ying, and in 2000, he openly fell in love with Qu Ying for traveling. At that time, Qu Ying was the first model in China to play Zhang Yimou film, and Li was a young actor who just started, but they showed their love in front of the media. Li said that she "changed from mineral water to coke" and "Qu Ying has always been Sprite", and he liked her simplicity.

It still rings in my ears. 200 1 Li took the legend of the condor hero and fell in love with Zhou Xun. Qu Ying went to visit the class to confirm, left the crew in tears and took a taxi to Hangzhou to cry to his friend Hu Bing. "When she left the cast that day, I didn't dare to look at her. I looked at Zhou Xun with such bitterness. It's terrible. I dare not look at it at once. I thought later, is this person really the person I am familiar with? " Li recalled this incident with the reporter who interviewed him in Dust Settled, saying that it was only the bitterness of his ex-girlfriend, not his own fault, which naturally aroused women's resentment. It is precisely because of the vivid description of the dog blood incident that Li's agent was very dissatisfied after the book went on the market. Biographies quickly disappeared from the market.

At the beginning of Lee, Zhou Xun was also keen on showing love. She told the media: "Fei Li is always open-minded and tolerant. It is rare to see such an open-minded boy. This is simply all my fantasies about men when I was a child. " Li's enthusiasm is no less than the "Coke Theory", but this relationship ended soon.

after marriage

When business is frustrated,

Being labeled as "spending Faye Wong's money"

Personality differences,

Men enter the WTO, women keep a low profile.

In 2003, Li pursued Faye Wong and participated in the filming "Big City and Little Love". It is said that she can send hundreds of text messages a day and become a legend in the gossip world. Some people have concluded that "Lee depends on women every step of the way".

In an interview in June 2004, Li also firmly denied "being in love", saying that he and Faye Wong were good friends, and expressed anger at "relying on women": "Do those people who say that I rely on women every step of the way know me? I debuted at 1999. At that time, I already had the title of idol. "

Six months later, 65438+February 2004, Li appeared as Faye Wong's boyfriend at his birthday party, and his forceful clarification speech suddenly turned into a slap in the face. After becoming a "king's man", the saying that "Lee eats Faye Wong's capital" has been heard all the time. Li gradually transformed from an actor to a businessman and was accused of "spending Faye Wong's money"; The film "Love" starring him was sung by Faye Wong as the theme song and interpreted as "stained with the light of Faye Wong"; Yan Ran Angel Fund for charity is also considered as the spokesperson of Faye Wong.

Both husband and wife say that they are "financially independent", but it is a fact that Li's VIPROOM closed down after two years of opening due to losses, and the film and television company has not made any achievements in the industry. No matter how hard Li tries to develop his career, the label "Faye Wong Husband" always accompanies him.

Personality differences,

Men enter the WTO, women keep a low profile.

Although he hurt his ex-girlfriend, Li always showed his love to Faye Wong. After the news of Li Yan's cleft lip and palate was exposed, Li wrote a blog "Thank you" to respond positively, and its calm and gentle presentation won the favor of fans and the media. Before going to Tibet, he wrote something disgusting on his blog: "Before he left, he gave his wife and Yan a good bite on the ass to say goodbye."

However, from the interview with Yang Lan recorded by Li and Faye Wong on 20 1 1, we can see the subtle differences in their personalities and ideas. Regarding the Yan Ran Angel Fund, Faye Wong said it was Li's idea, and her own idea was to be alone and take care of herself. However, under Li's persuasion, she agreed to the project, and she will be moved when she goes to see the children. But her emotional gratitude was restrained: "I can't stand being so emotional in front of everyone." This also partly explains the different performances of the couple in the Angel Fund: Li is full of positive energy to run for his career, and his words must be called enterprise spirit and life construction; Faye Wong almost only appeared on the podium of the fund appreciation dinner, usually playing mahjong, walking around, burning incense and worshiping Buddha.

Faye Wong once said in a radio program in Tao Jingying: "I don't like lying, and I don't like listening to others lie. It's embarrassing to say polite words. If I can't, then I won't say it. " But Li has always been interested in careers other than performing arts. When the performing arts career improved slightly, he tossed about all kinds of businesses and was keen to establish the image of an entrepreneur. The difference between them is obvious.

Whether Faye Wong has any antipathy to Li's entry into WTO is unknown to outsiders. But in Yang Lan's only joint visit, she showed some impatience with empty talk. Faye Wong said that what Li did was charity, while Li said that his wife was modest. Later, he started some routine official speeches about charity, and Faye Wong interrupted: "You are empty."

In that interview, the two also had a little dispute. When talking about knowing about Faye Wong's daughter's cleft lip and palate during pregnancy, Li said that Faye Wong asked him for the first time if he wanted this child. But Faye Wong immediately protested: "I didn't ask you, I don't think this is a problem." Li was a little embarrassed and continued to narrate: "When I came home from the hospital, I avoided this topic for hours." Faye Wong retorted again: "I didn't shy away." Li had to say, "I didn't talk about it, I just wanted to." Faye Wong's expression has been a little worried: "No, I tell you, I never thought about it." Li also said that Faye Wong asked him, "What do you mean, no?" Then he made a decision. But Faye Wong said seriously, "My faith doesn't allow me to do this."

Too busy at work,

Faye Wong complained, "What do you want?"

Li Yue has been getting busier and busier since the Angel Fund was established. In an interview in 2007, he said that he wanted to be with his wife and children every day. In the issue of Esquire in June 65438+February last year, he described his busyness as follows: "I'm really busy, and I probably only accompany them at breakfast every day. If I am in Beijing on weekends, I can still accompany them, but I also travel frequently, with an average of one month 10 days. "

Li's busyness even attracted Faye Wong's complaints, and it was useless to ask you why. He once recalled that there was a cupboard at home and he had to move to another place. It can only be moved when the driver and assistant are at home. It didn't work for half a month. Finally, Faye Wong found some friends to move it here and sent him a text message saying, "What do you want? It's useless! " At this time, Li felt that there was no harm in complaining: "In fact, she didn't really care so much. Every family will complain sometimes. "

Intriguing,

I can't tell you my wife's masterpiece

In the days when Faye Wong stopped work indefinitely, Li Jing often described the situation at home as "the man is outside the house and the woman is inside": "Faye Wong is taking care of the children at home now, and she is fine." On the other hand, Li also admitted that Wang Fei has a unique personality: "In fact, she is a person who doesn't need to be coaxed. Relatively speaking, she is a very independent woman ... It seems that many people think she is a person with low emotional intelligence, and I think people who think so are just entering the water. How can she be a love idiot? Can such a person sing like this? "

Another core difference comes from the understanding of music. When Faye Wong and Dou Wei were together, the music industry was full of whimsy; Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse were together, and Nicholas Tse composed songs "Ecstasy" and "MV". Although Li is not a musician, he claims to be a fan of Tang Dynasty and Panther. 10 years ago, his profile also said "Faye Wong is his favorite singer". It seems that he should have something in common with Wang Fei, but his performance is not satisfactory.

Li showed unfamiliarity with Faye Wong's works in several interviews. In an interview with CCTV's Chief Night Talk, Li said that during his two years of love with Faye Wong, there happened to be a CD of Faye Wong in the car. After listening for two years, he can't remember the title of the song: "There is a song called Asura or something." What is even more intriguing is that when interviewing Yang Lan, Yang Lan asked Li which song she liked best in Faye Wong concert. Faye Wong said, "He's not sure." Li didn't give an answer quickly, so he began to elaborate on the scene at that time: "My identity ... is difficult to be objective." Faye Wong turned to look at him: "I didn't ask you to be objective." Li was forced to say, "Pass the customs?" Faye Wong asked, "Legend?" Nodding, Li began to contact "Glancing at you" and his feelings. Aside Faye Wong with a sigh.

(Excerpted from Vista to see the world, this article is slightly abridged)