Please help me, thank you~~

A Your attitude and image. Sincerity and honesty are the most important. Frankness is not only a kind of shallowness, but also a kind of courage. Once she knows who you are and what you want, she will feel at ease even if your demands are excessive. If she doesn't understand what you want to do, she will think you are more dangerous.

You'd better appear as an ordinary person. Maybe you have watched too many novels and movies and are not satisfied with appearing in such an image. But let me tell you: you are not a superman. If you are too artificial, it will be unacceptable. There is no script in life, you don’t know what will happen next second, and the average person’s brain simply cannot process so much complex information. If you pay too much attention to your glorious image, it will become dysfunctional. Maybe you were standing downstairs and the cool Xing Xing said: "The night is long and I don't want to sleep..." The old lady upstairs poured a basin of foot-washing water on your head. You are not Star Master, and you don’t know what to do if you encounter such a situation, so you short-circuited.

If you always maintain your self-controlled image, even if she accepts you, you will affect the other person and she will be very reserved in front of you. That's why some girls say: "I feel so tired when I'm with you." No matter how good your conditions are, if you really want to pretend to be cool, you can do it once or twice every now and then. You can't always appear cool and cold. If you show that you are not interested in her, she will not be interested in you either. And your own image is often determined at the very beginning of contact, and you won't be able to change it later even if you want to. You, who have always been steady and mature, have you ever envied the little kid who plays with his girlfriend unscrupulously? By the way, you are just an ordinary person of flesh and blood, lower your noble head and put down your reserved self-esteem. If the roles are reversed, would it be easier for us to accept a girl who is more like a naughty child in front of us?

These must be placed before you show your kindness, motivation, execution, etc., otherwise it will be meaningless. You must first be a human being. Only then can you be qualified to fall in love and be kind and progressive. If you were a god, Earth wouldn't be a good place for you.

B rushed up to strike up a conversation. You may have seen a lot of pick-up techniques. I would say that although those techniques are novel, the results are not optimistic. And it varies from person to person, and there are certain techniques that you just can’t use—not only can’t you use them, you simply can’t use them. For example, last month I went out to play with my friends and met a beautiful woman. My friend chased after her, then turned around and blew the beauty's smoke... and it worked. Cool? If you follow his example, if you are not sure about your expression or eyes, you will get five fingerprints on your face.

That is to say, simply learning other people’s skills is not feasible. Everyone knows that there is a muscular man named Stallone who was born with dead fish eyes and practiced in front of the mirror tens of thousands of times before he could barely act in movies. Still the same saying: One minute on stage, ten years of hard work off stage. ——Eight years ago, when my friend and I were little kids, we chased girls on the street together.

Not only do you need to practice, you also need to have the correct theoretical methods. For example, judging whether a girl is a beauty from behind. Everyone often does this kind of thing, right? Does it often lead to mistakes? It won't work without correct theoretical guidance. This theory is: don't look at the body, you have to look at the bones. Isn't it amazing to guess the appearance from the skull? You won't be wrong if you look at a thousand girls. (No exaggeration, there are more than a thousand.)

If you don’t know the theory, just learning skills is like learning other people’s sword moves without sword fighting, it can be said to be useless. It is impossible to step into the same river twice without the same individual. No matter how similar you are to learning, how can you use the same skills on different people? It cannot even be used on the same person under different circumstances. Even though Chen Yaojin only knows three axes, he knows which ax to use when.

The theoretical premise of striking up a conversation is that the other party must accept it. This is a common theory and even nonsense. But ordinary people forget this most basic thing and pursue some fancy "tricks". If the most basic purpose cannot be achieved, what's the use of the trick, no matter how sophisticated it is? Making the other party accept it or making it easier for the other party to accept it is what everyone should keep in mind.

To make it easier for people to accept you, you must first be natural and reasonable. What is nature? As a nurse, it would be natural for you to go to the hospital to get an injection from her. A student MM, you say in front of her: "My name is XXX, what level and major do I major in?" It's natural... When I met my senior sister, I said boldly: "I want to chase you, I want to chase you You." When I met Junior Sister, I said: "I will protect you from now on."

And my friend is an old gangster, and the girl seems to be very relaxed. To blow her a puff of cigarette smoke is to seek change amid stability. Seek novelty on the basis of nature, rather than seek nature on the basis of novelty; we cannot make mistakes in this relationship, otherwise it will be hopeless.

Then the expression should be simple, direct and effective. Want people to know who you are and what you want to do? The best way is to introduce yourself and give a speech. Unfortunately, MM won't appreciate it. Wang Xiaobo's simple word "take off", although it is shameless and direct, is much more effective and more cute than making many detours. Of course you can't just say "take it off" at the beginning, but this example can give you a deep impression.

Finally, environmental factors should be considered. If it's a very noisy place, you can't express it too delicately. But in school, you can't use "My name is XXX...", otherwise people will think you are selling insurance. You can even indicate your intention without using your voice. For example, on the bus, if a girl is carrying a big box and wants to get on the bus, you can reach out and help her lift it up without saying anything - provided that you don't act like a robber.

These seemingly complicated methods and techniques, as long as you remember the premise and cooperate with environmental factors, you will know when to use which trick.

No matter how long the road is, it will not be long if you walk step by step. You have to set your desired goals at the beginning of your relationship with MM. For example, when you first contact someone, you have to have a goal in mind: get her to say her name or get her contact information, or even get her to smile in front of you, or even get you to chat for three minutes. If you mess around aimlessly, you will not only get twice the result with half the effort, but you will also lose motivation. (You'll also likely never find her again.)

Tips.

Your evaluation of others can usually affect them. For example, if you praise an introverted girl appropriately for being warm and generous, it is very likely that she will appear in front of you with a warm and generous image in the future. It's unknown how her personality changed since then. But be careful: such comments must be positive. If you say she is lazy...of course she may deliberately show that she is not lazy in the future, but she will not like you very much. Such evaluation must also be done at the beginning of contact. When you already know her well, if you say that she is warm and generous, it is hypocritical and you are not influencing her. You are not just patting the horse on the horse's fart, you are also patting the horse's leg.

You may not be able to remember so many clauses, because other people’s are naturally a kind of subconscious that has been learned through many battles, and it is very difficult for you to recite these before going into battle. In fact, you can regard the first contact as the second time. Even if the embarrassing first time has passed, this is the second time you have contact with her. This way you will feel more natural.

4 Siege

No matter how effective your first contact is, as long as you are not beaten, strongly rejected, or you still have motivation, you will be satisfied with attacking. premise.

Everything is difficult at the beginning. If you have done the hardest part, what does the rest mean? But just because the hardest part has been done, you can still choose to give up at this time. You've got enough training. You're not interested in that city anyway, so escaping unscathed is still the best option.

But I also have to assume that you choose to attack, because you said that little experience is not enough. I have two things to say before you decide to attack.

A If you don't want to hurt others, then you have to let her pay attention to your half-joking and non-serious attitude. Originally our premise was to make everyone happy, and this way it would be easier for you to get out in the future. If you let the girl believe that you are serious from the beginning and then run away after catching up, you might get hacked to death one day. ——Walking at night for a long time will bump into ghosts. Not only that, only with higher benevolence can one achieve higher martial arts. These contradictory things will eventually be unified, which I will talk about in the next section.

B It’s not easy to chase someone, but it’s even harder to chase someone who doesn’t feel anything. A non-serious attitude is just for her to see. It is just your attitude towards the relationship, not your attitude towards pursuing it. You still have to pursue it honestly and seriously. Make sure the attack doesn't stop until you get out, at least not in passing. Perseverance in anything will bring good results; don't be like the college classmate I mentioned above, chase it if you want to, or just wait for a few months if you don't want to chase it. In this case, you are bound to be unable to chase anyone and waste limited resources.

Do you still want to attack?

The theoretical guidance pursued is to make her happy and make her feel.

Is it easy to do? The easiest way to pursue her is to make her talk and make her laugh. (When I was in high school, I told this method to a scholar, and my cousin became his girlfriend. - The world is really amazing.) This shows that maybe life is very simple, but you see it as complicated.

Every change is inseparable from its origin, and thus two models are roughly produced.

A Everything starts with friends.

It should be noted that there is a difference between "friends" mentioned here and ordinary friends. In other words, you start from a lower position than the pursuer, but you have to let the girl understand your intentions appropriately.

I mentioned "How to Chase a Girl Written by a Girl". The author said: "Girlfriend is a fact, not a promise... I know the smartest person, who never asked "Do you want to be my girlfriend" until we went to bed? In the end, the girl got anxious: " Why don't you ask me to be your girlfriend? "So, don't rush to pierce the window paper. The more hazy the situation is, the better it is for you."

If you focus on that fact, who is stopping you from giving MM some aphrodisiacs? Of course we must pay attention to the results, but we cannot ignore the process. If you just want to get laid, wouldn't it be easier and more reliable to find a young lady?

Many years ago, I was fascinated by this method of long-lasting love. He also believes that "if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then girls will have less chance to "reject" you." A successful example is Zhang Cuishan and his wife. After practice, I found that this theory has limitations. First of all, it is difficult to ensure that we get along for a long time, unless we are classmates, colleagues, neighbors, etc. as I mentioned above. Secondly, the other party cannot be a beautiful woman and there cannot be competition. So what value does such a theory have? Our aim is to chase anyone you can, not to ask you to choose a girlfriend among classmates, colleagues, neighbors, etc.

I have seen many people go from "just friends" to "good friends" to "very, very good friends who talk about everything". One sunny afternoon, I accidentally held her hand, accidentally kissed her, accidentally went to bed... and finally broke up with her accidentally. If you are deliberately toying with your girlfriend, then forget about breaking up. What if it's serious? (It is not a sin for a man to cry.)

I said the reason for the breakup at the beginning: love is first and foremost a feeling, and feelings are generated based on feelings. There is no feeling of love in this process from ordinary friends to good friends to very, very good friends who talk about everything. If your love is going this way, then you have to pay attention to making the other person feel good in the future. Otherwise, the moment someone like me stands in front of her and stubbornly says, "I'm here to chase you," you will definitely lose. Because she has never been chased by you, she has never had a strong heartbeat, excitement and expectation when she is with you... I may be opposed when I say this. Most people's love is probably this way. road. You might as well go back and ask your girlfriend how many times have you appeared in her dreams?

This kind of love that has results first and then determines the identity will be vulnerable in my eyes if it is not consolidated. If strong sensory stimulation is given to people who have never had feelings, the shortest record of chasing a girl is only 4 hours. The love story on Titanic should not be forgotten, and although it is a movie, its acceptance by people shows that it is reasonable.

Don’t talk so much nonsense. In short, remember that if you want to start as a friend, you can only start with a special friend. I won’t pierce the layer of paper, and I won’t talk about pursuing it, but you have to have that intention. The advantage of starting with friends is that the difficulty at the beginning is very low and it is easy to get started. This kind of model is still more effective for girls who are not competitive with quasi-beautiful girls. You won't be too nervous if you use this method. Don’t underestimate this tension. If you are too nervous, you won’t be able to perform well.

Of course, nervousness is also a feeling. The reason why your heart beats is nervousness. It's not advisable to escape this feeling, so I recommend you use another mode.

B starts as a suitor.

Starting as a pursuer does not mean that you have to say: "I am here to pursue you." Or make a classic confession at the beginning. The fact is that it all goes without saying. The difference from starting with friends is that you have to pierce the layer of paper and cannot remain hazy. Take any opportunity to show your affection and even your love.

For example, as the sun sets, MM stands by the window, her eyes wandering away from her emotions. This is a good opportunity.

If you are her ordinary friend, a good friend, a friend who talks about everything, you will not be able to seize this opportunity. The most you can recite is: "The sunset is infinitely beautiful, but it's almost dusk." The most outrageous thing you can do is: "It's dark and windy, so be careful not to catch a cold." But you are a pursuer, and you have no such restrictions at all. So you can lean over and say: "Let's watch the sunset together from now on, okay?" She will be shocked by the feeling you give her first, and then she can react: "I hate it. You are so shameless, who wants to be with you?" In fact, you It's not annoying. You often make her happy and comfort her, right? Then she is lying, just ignore her words.

Another example is that you "send" her home - in fact, you are shameless and insist on following her. At this time, MM had an opinion: "Why are you always pestering me?" This was another opportunity. How could it not be an opportunity when MM asked a question? It’s time for you to wake up after being on MOP for so long, and give people a satisfactory answer as soon as possible. If you are her friend, it is difficult to seize such an opportunity. The most you can say is: "I care about you. There are a lot of BTs on the street recently." You have to use your brain to come up with such an answer. out. Now that you are the suitor, you don’t have to put in so much effort. You blurt out something you have wanted to say for a long time, and you may even feel a little aggrieved: "Because I like you."

If this happens too often, a girl will think: "Should I be with him?... "Strange, how could I have such an idea?" MM probably thought of something you did to make her happy today before going to bed, or she said with a smile: "This bastard" or she was so moved that she thought about it. Lian Lian (see "Color is Emptiness"). No matter which one it is, you are gradually replacing the Prince Charming she is looking forward to. Quantitative changes lead to qualitative changes. She gets used to having you by her side, and you slowly become an indispensable part of her life. She will call you when she is unhappy, and she will think of sharing it with you when she is happy. Once the relationship between pursuing and being pursued is established, you stand on the starting line. If there is competition, you still have to run. What if not? Without you, you will definitely be the first, and the prize will be yours.

Once a girl admits or acquiesces to the relationship she is pursuing, chasing her is like going from Xinye to Xiangyang, all the way through the plains, and it can be reached by cavalry in one day.

It is recommended to use the pursuer mode, mainly to develop your thick skin. Indeed, it is difficult to start like this. The difficulty lies in the fact that ordinary people cannot withstand such pressure. The thought of starting out as a suitor makes you feel nervous and weak, right? In fact, no matter how good a pilot is, his body will react violently when climbing vertically or diving. At this time, would it be okay if I closed my eyes and let go of the joystick and shook it into a ball in the cabin? no. Then even if you survive by chance, you are not qualified to be a pilot. I have long said that you should train your psychological quality just to wait for the day when you will be hit or even insulted.

No matter which mode you like to use to practice, when you are about to catch her hand, you have to consider retreating. Holding hands is the last fortress standing in front of you. After this, the rest is not pursuit but love. Now that the army is approaching the city, it is easy to conquer it. This is your best and last chance to escape unscathed. As it develops, feelings will develop, and once you have a strand of love, you can't get rid of it.

Slaughter the city? no need. Don't hurt anyone unnecessarily. Getting a girl you don't love is nothing more than shouldering some responsibilities and getting into some trouble. Why waste your time and energy? Don't worry about this girl now. You have another friend of the opposite sex, and your capital is stronger. It may hurt to do this, but it's also a form of exercise for her to touch you. Besides, there is much more happiness than that little disappointment. We've caught up here, let's go back and prepare to attack the next one. The girl you have admired for a long time is waiting for you. No? Remember, it’s better to have less than too much, you will always encounter it.

Four

The benevolent are invincible

In fact, I should put this section in a bag and hand it to everyone solemnly: "A few years from now, When you meet a girl that you can't catch, take it apart and take a look at it. "

This is because: without considerable experience, there will be no relevant understanding. When we were young, we memorized Tang poems and saw sentences like this: "The human face has gone nowhere, and the peach blossoms still smile in the spring breeze." Even if you think about it, you won't understand the meaning.

When we step out of the ivory tower and return to our school many years later, the grass is still fresh and the fallen flowers are colorful; the young cherry blossom trees back then have also become luxuriant and brilliant. The name you carved on the tree is still clear, but the person you first loved will never be found. Now you look at it again: "The human face is nowhere to be seen, but the peach blossoms still smile in the spring breeze." Such a sentence cannot be obtained even if you don't want to understand it.

In the same way, only after you have gone through the various tests I mentioned above can you truly understand what I am going to say below. Because if you haven’t experienced a lot of what I’m going to say this time, you’re going to think I’m inconsistent.

On the Internet, I cannot wait three to five years before updating this post. I can only assume that it is already many years after I first taught you to chase girls. Now that you have experienced hundreds of battles, you can keep pace with many lovers. You are no longer satisfied with walking in the park with these girls who have no feelings. You want to find a girl who can make you feel the love once. From then on, you will no longer pretend to be romantic.

So you find a girl who looks good in any way. Unfortunately, she is not only beautiful and temperamental, but also has a kind of majesty in her temperament; that is similar to some GGs who are not angry and self-important. Dong, people dare not face it. For example, Guan Yunchang and Zhang Yide, people like Zhou Yu didn't dare to make random decisions wherever they stood, and the timid ones were frightened to death. In addition, this MM has been in the killing field for a long time and has read countless people. So in front of her, you are just better than a helpless kid, able to say a few complete sentences. You can't muster the courage, you are either arrogant or deeply inferior, and you can't find the feeling you used to have. And all your attacks were skillfully neutralized by the other party, with no effect at all. (Compared with you? Not necessarily.)

Congratulations on your luck for finding such a girl. The idea is also very good. Once you have such a girl, you will have nothing to ask for. But to pursue such a girl, you have to have the ability to sit and take photos in a trance.

When it comes to Kung Fu, what I think of is Tai Chi, Xingyi, and Bagua. These are called the Three Gates, and they can also be said to be the most powerful martial arts. Different paths lead to the same goal, these are just different forms of emphasis. There is no good or bad in Kung Fu itself, only individual cultivation level. ...If I were to use it as a metaphor, I would say it is more like Tai Chi.

Now I have transformed into the immortal Zhang Sanfeng, and you are naturally the young hero Zhang Wuji. I am here to teach you a set of Tai Chi for chasing girls. Of course, this cannot be compared with real Tai Chi. I have also changed the order.

There is nothing in the first place, so where is the dust?

The first step is for you to forget.

Forget everything I told you many years ago, forget some of the insights you have gained yourself, forget your achievements over the years, and forget your hard-earned status as a big brother. You are still that little kid who doesn’t understand anything. In your eyes, there is neither “right” nor “wrong” in this world. You must know that love has no fixed formula. It can be expressed or understood in any way you want. For example, if I tell you to start as a pursuer, it is for training. Why do you have to start as a pursuer now? You can kneel down and propose to her, or you can say domineeringly: "Tomorrow you will be my bride."

If you forget these, you will reach the state of doing whatever you want without violating the rules. Everything you do in front of MM is unexpected by her, but also within reason.

The wind rustles and the water becomes cold.

The second step is for you to unify the contradictions and generate courage.

After you forget this, I will tell you why it is said that only higher benevolence and higher benevolence can lead to higher kung fu. Tai Chi creates two righteousnesses, and everything is contradictory and opposite. There is nothing in this world, and concepts such as "right" and "wrong" arise relatively at the same time. If you don't know what is "right" then you won't know what is "wrong". If you pursue one aspect of this contradiction alone, you will encounter obstacles and bottlenecks after going far enough. Just like you have been pursuing "truth, goodness and beauty" but you do not have a deeper understanding of "falseness, ugliness and evil", then your "truth, goodness and beauty" can only stay at a certain height. This is why a carefree GG is more dedicated than a person who is always dedicated. Why would a person who knows more about kindness develop such a lethal kung fu? The more terrifying weapons are precisely those invented by peace-loving people.

I will teach you from the beginning: if you like someone, conquer and hunt him in an open and fair manner. This is because our education of "fearlessness and great sacrifice" contradicts this naked pursuit of the true self. I said this at the time because ordinary people paid too much attention to fearlessness and self-sacrifice in love, that is, they did too much in that area and reached a bottleneck.

Yes, these are two aspects of the contradiction. When you believe me many years later, you have now gone too far on this road of pursuing interests and satisfying your own desires, so you must in turn pursue the spirit of selflessness and sacrifice. Only when you completely abandon your own interests and completely forget about successes and failures, can you have the courage to fly into the flames and regard death as home. And only this kind of courage can guarantee that you will not flinch when you stand in front of the final BOSS level MM.

There is no point in emphasizing this until you have experienced a lot; at that time you simply will not believe that self-sacrifice and the pursuit of interests will eventually be unified, or even any contradictory things can be unified. What will happen if they are unified? You will also feel inferior and miserable in front of MM. But that feeling is separated from your thinking, as if there is something behind it, and no matter what kind of blow, it can't touch the depths of your heart. Your spirit transcends your own feelings, and in your eyes there are only facts as simple as lines. Don’t you believe there is such a realm? Have you seen "Braveheart"? As a true warrior, he may be more afraid of death than many ignorant people. However, only those who combine this kind of cowardice with bravery will not say in the end: "I will be a good man again after eighteen years!"

After understanding this, you will be in the eyes of MM. When you see disdain and disgust, your body wants to retreat, but your spirit tells you objectively: "How can I change her view of me? How long can I last in front of her?" You have to do this first, Only on the premise of ensuring that you are not killed instantly can it be considered a big competition in terms of strength.

Once you do this, you will never back down at any point in your life. You have reached the same level as those legendary heroes. If necessary, it is no problem for you to block gun holes or blow up bunkers. Of course, I’m not asking you to make unnecessary sacrifices. You have to look for the feeling of being able to handle danger and excitement with ease. You have real confidence, right? You will never die if you take a hit. At this time, your courage is no longer limited by your psychological quality. You can perform completely beyond the ordinary like Li Xunhuan. The greater the pressure, the more outstanding your performance will be, and the stronger you will be when encountering force. The more MM attacks you and looks down on you, the more it brings out your unwavering quality.

It is also similar to rouge painted peonies.

The third step requires you to practice again.

What Chinese painting pays attention to is artistic conception and charm. This is a leap from physical resemblance to spiritual resemblance, and it is also the most important criterion for measuring you. To paint peonies, you need to be beautiful, to paint winter plums, you need to be cold and arrogant, to paint pine and bamboo, you need to be upright... If these conditions are met, it is a good work. If you can only achieve a similar appearance, you will never be able to create a masterpiece that will be passed down from generation to generation. Memorizing other people's theories is just a means, not an end.

There is a saying: Cultivation of both body and function. What does this sentence mean: The body needs to be cultivated in two ways? I really appreciate your idea, but the original meaning of this sentence is: "Everything in the world has a type, and there is a substance in the type that is useful. The substance is the type, and the user is the magical function of the type. There is a wonderful word. The principle used to support its body is Tao. "It is used here to mean: on the one hand, it is the cultivation of abstract theories, and on the other hand, you have to apply all these theories. Just understand this sentence, "Sincerity leads to gold and stone." It is useful only if you understand it. You have to engrave it into your brain and make it a kind of subconscious mind for you. If you think of this sentence every time you do something, you will no longer be a mediocre guy. If you really understand the method of physical and mental cultivation, your reaction will be faster than your thinking, so it doesn't matter even if you are born with poor aptitude. (What we say: "Diligence can make up for weakness" also has a bit of this meaning.)

Under this premise, in conjunction with the continuous understanding of the positive and negative aspects of a thing, we will continue to enrich ourselves in depth and breadth. , and finally reach the state where if you want to be light, you can be light and if you want to be heavy, you can be heavy. By doing this, no matter what happens, you will be able to react faster than others and do it more appropriately than others. When MM feels cold and others are still thinking about what to do, your coat has already been draped over her shoulders.

This feeling can be remembered forever.

The last step is to give up.

I understand that you are serious this time and don’t want to give up. But there are girls in this world that you can't catch. It’s not about the ones you can’t access, such as any of the TWINS. If you can't even see your shadow, how can you trace it? Or maybe you committed some crime and were raised by the government without a girl around you. Everyone has learned the theorem of the immortality of matter. No matter how awesome you are, you can't just create something out of nothing.

We are talking about those you can come into contact with. No matter how good your skills are, there are still people you can’t catch. As I said before, talent, strength, experience and skills. I also said that in the end you and MM will start a competition of strength. You have talent, experience and skills, but you don’t have the strength. This strength more likely refers to money, which is something that can't be helped. You have chased many people, and you know that you don’t need anything to chase a girl, but you need everything. For example, before that, you read so many books, had so many hobbies, and had many friends... These can be considered necessary, and they can also be said to be your strength. Three feet of ice does not freeze in one day. Now you meet a girl and you don't have enough strength. If you chase her reluctantly, you may end up being overdrawn and unable to chase her, or you won't be able to support her even if you chase her. For example, MM wants a notebook, but you can't afford a good one, so you reluctantly buy a second-hand one for her... Instead of leaving this kind of regret, it's better to give up from the beginning and work hard to accumulate your own capital so as not to miss the next one.

In addition, it is due to factors beyond human control. One possibility is that you compete as a player and the referee is not you. No matter how well you do, beating everyone may not necessarily mean you win. MM may not choose you for some unknown reason. This is what "hit eight feet, but it's hard to find one". Another possibility is that MM is going to another city, and it is unrealistic to pursue her in a different place. ——Why didn’t Alexander go to America? Once something like this happens, there is no need to dwell on it any longer. If you compare human power with nature, it is like a candle trying to change the coldness of the entire winter; the spirit is commendable, but the results are also predictable.

If you give up for any of the above reasons, I can only express my deep sympathy. Although this kind of giving up is very painful - it's not that you can't catch it, but that the conditions restrict you. But no matter what, you have to know how to let go of things you can't hold on to: you have to wait in the next life before embarking on the beginning of each other's story.

By the way. It is precisely because of these factors that some people say that they do not seek eternity but only seek what they once had. It’s not that I don’t want to, it’s just that I have to settle for the next best thing when I can’t get it. The little kid doesn't know that the relationship that lasts forever is also based on the attitude that he once had, and he randomly gave up on the person who should be cherished.

After completing the above four steps, you can be awarded the degree of Love Saint and Old Rogue. This lesson of chasing girls is over. At this time, if you look at what others say, "You must do what you need to do to chase a girl," or "What principles are needed to chase a girl," you will easily understand them.

First of all, it is absolutely necessary. It is right to pursue this way and that way. No matter what you do you can find a valid reason. Secondly, when you see mountains, you are still mountains, and when you see water, you are still water. If MM is angry, she is angry, and if she is happy, she is happy, and there is no need to ask for details. No matter how beautiful the girls are, they are just ordinary people. You won't think there is anything special about them, and they can no longer have any negative influence on you. In the end, these theories and all your experiences are deeply ingrained in your subconscious mind, and every move you make is filled with "murderous intent." No matter what you do, you can't hide your sharp edge, which is so sharp that ordinary girls can't resist it. For the same thing and the same words, if a child does or says it, it will make people feel artificial and ridiculous, but if you change it, you will show a kind of harmony. Any opportunity you seize will trigger a set of continuous attacks that will kill you in one step. Unless you stop yourself, MM will have to respond to every step you take. And her reactions all fall into your calculations, and you even react faster than she does. The old man said: If you go after MM at this time, it is no different from me going to the battle in person. What you owe may just be the heat.

But this all quickly became boring. Just like when I was a child, I saw people riding two-wheeled bicycles and thought it was amazing and good. But after I learned it with a bruised face, I rarely rode it anymore.

Five

Supplement.

I have always been reluctant to make things too specific. I just pointed out the premise and direction. Just like writing a guide, I think many details should be left to the players to explore on their own.

If you write down how to pursue a proud girl and how to pursue an introverted girl, your thinking will easily be restricted. Because of this something seems to be missing.

Love letters. You now know that love letters can be present or not. If you must write, you must address each individual. Also tell her how you really feel about her. So I never write love letters for others. The reason is that I don’t like the girl he likes, and it’s hard to impress her if I write it against my will. ——If I liked it too, I wouldn’t write it for him. We usually use love letters as a "hidden weapon". In fact, they are not as effective as face-to-face attacks. It's written in black and white, and if you still praise things that your girlfriend doesn't like in a letter, it's not as flexible as you can observe words and emotions in person and make decisions based on the situation.