The boy you love for the first time sends you ambiguous messages, should you forgive him?

I also had my first love, and we dated for two months. At that time, in the 1980s, people first met each other by taking a photo of each other and looking at it. If it looked good, they would meet. If you look at the photos, you won't like it and won't continue.

After two months of dating, I felt that the other person was not suitable for me. It did not mean that he was not good. It was just that there were many differences in our lifestyles and concepts. I felt that he was not suitable for me. There would be no good results from being together like this, so I broke up decisively. After the breakup, I asked the intermediary to return the photos to him. I feel that this way of handling it is quite appropriate.

At that time, some of us just threw away or burned each other’s photos. They felt that this method was very undesirable and disrespectful to people. Although the two of us could not Together, but you can't take such extreme measures to process each other's photos.

But this man still keeps the video of him and his first love. I really can’t accept this method. Since you already have a family, get married and have children, you should work wholeheartedly for the happiness of this family and should not think about the past.