The husband sends a text message to his lover and doesn't return it.

First of all, cheating in marriage is a very serious violation of morality. I think you should reflect on your behavior and the debt you owe your husband. Don't contact your lover any more. His failure to contact you shows his attitude. He chose his own family and abandoned you. You should also recognize the reality and save your family, and don't make similar mistakes in the future. When you have family and lover, are you looking for excitement? Timid people dare to do anything when they find themselves afraid to do anything. It seems that your lover is timid. You are a man with physical needs, but you are also the patron of your wife and the backbone of your family. You will really disappoint your wife and even believe it. This is probably the last thing she wants to talk about in her life. You may think this is nothing, but it is really a big blow. It will also have a great impact on children. You should think about what kind of results a choice you make will bring to your family and yourself. If your lover can't be contacted, don't contact him. Take good care of his family. If not, divorce and remarry. I think it's nothing to find a lover, because it's a man's instinct, just like a change of heart is an instinct and loyalty is a choice. But with my personality, I may divorce directly.