Why does my girlfriend never take the initiative to contact me, but when I send her a message, she basically answers it in one second?

This can only prove that your girlfriend is reserved and cares about you silently. Generally, girls don't send messages to boys on their own initiative, because the names are not standardized and the words are not fluent.

It is natural for boys to chase girls, but girls need to break through psychological and secular barriers to chase boys. So many times many girls can only wait silently. Through the state of seconds, you can already find that she cares about you.

But why didn't she take the initiative to send a message? Because to be honest, a girl's greatest sense of security is that you give her an eternal marriage. In marriage, you can see her safe and lively side. In the face of an insecure marriage, girlfriend is not a dispensable word. You are her boyfriend, so she can only say hello. Some girls don't even dare to be coquettish, because once they lose their relationship, they will think that they are not self-disciplined psychologically and socially.

Girls don't take the initiative to send messages to their boyfriends, but they reply every second, which also proves that they are not very confident. In fact, she has been silently waiting for your information for a long time.

I think such a girlfriend can feel at ease. It is best to give him the guarantee of marriage at the right time and see his happiest side. Only when girls really regard each other as their family and lovers will they take the initiative to care about all aspects of life. Before that, it was very difficult to get the love of all the girls.

So there's nothing to speculate about. If you are willing to pay for a lifetime, girls will naturally treat you as a relative. If it's just boyfriend and girlfriend playing like this, many girls may not even want to say it in person, or even reply to WeChat. This situation is really the most normal state.

Thank you for reading.