Words written to parents during the epidemic

Hello parents! I know very well that I haven't bothered you so much these days, but I really can't help it. The children are at home and the teacher is not with them. They can only urge you to urge the children over and over again. I am deeply sorry for the interruption, and thank you for your silent and generous support. I still have a few words I want to share with my brothers and sisters.

1, most students are more conscious, and parents only need to pay attention and remind them. This month is not easy for children. There are endless homework at home every day. Let's put ourselves in the children's shoes and think about their feelings. Therefore, we should always be able to see the children's efforts and give them affirmation, encouragement and praise in time. A person can only do better if he is in a good mood.

Parents must attach great importance to those students who are not good at their homework. Don't care! After school starts, the gap will be huge between heaven and earth. Moreover, the gap caused by this month and a half is difficult to make up in less than 100 days before the start of school, and the children will work harder.

Therefore, parents must pay more attention to the unconscious child, remind him more, check his homework more, and let him keep up with the rhythm of the class and not fall behind. After three years of hard work, I really don't want to waste it in the second half of the ninth grade, which will make us all deeply sorry. So please parents have worked hard!

3. Pay attention to the way of communication with adolescent children, control their emotions and talk well. Parents and children should not communicate simply and rudely. The teacher gives you feedback only to let you know about the child's situation. Don't beat and scold when you see your child's homework unfinished. There is really a lot of homework now, and the rest of the time is different. If you really don't care for the time being, you can make up your homework and pay more attention next time.

Children and parents * * * do a good job in learning this thing, instead of picking up children with learning this thing. Don't turn educating children into your venting. Adolescent children are not very able to control their emotions, and may have conflicts because of one sentence. So parents must pay attention to their emotions. When you are angry, you can't solve the problem. When you are calm, discuss with your child how to solve this problem.

Parents should talk less and listen more. A child's study should make him obey the arrangement of the school. Parents should be responsible for supervising the implementation. Don't interfere too much and don't care too much, so that he has to do whatever he wants. When you don't understand, ask your child what it is. Don't nag, complain or even blame when you go up. Many times, contradictions are formed because of poor communication and misunderstanding between parents and children.

5, parents should not have too much pressure, can not ask too much, can not rush to seek success. Peace of mind, work together to find a way for children's learning. Always remember that our purpose is to study well for children. Don't turn educating children into venting emotions, endure your temper and communicate with your children with a good attitude.

6. Don't just pay attention to children's learning, talk more about others. This is actually a rare time for parents and children to accompany each other, so we should pay more attention to emotional communication. Relationship is greater than education. As long as you have a good relationship with your child, he will listen to anything you say. If your relationship is very stiff, then what you say is just a bunch of correct nonsense to him, and he won't listen at all.

7. In the family, the relationship between husband and wife is greater than that between parents and children. We should focus on the relationship between husband and wife, which is the anchor of the family. Only when parents are emotionally stable can children feel at ease. To create a stable and harmonious environment for the family, it is best for parents to study at the same time and create a learning environment for the whole family. The highest level of our love for children is that dad loves mom, mom loves dad, and mom and dad love children together. Parents' love for each other is a gift for children's life happiness, and parents should always be consistent in the concept of educating their children.

8. In terms of parent-child relationship and family education, if you are confused or have difficulty communicating with your child, you can communicate with me in time. Although my level is not high, I have been studying family education for several years, which may help you a little. As long as it is about children, as long as you are willing to talk, I am willing to listen. You can call me or leave a message on WeChat. I will try my best to help my classmates and parents. My mobile phone is on 24 hours, so you can call or WeChat at any time. Let's join hands and form a joint force to really help children grow up.

That's all I said. Let me say again why I said this today. In fact, it was because a boy cried and talked to me for ten minutes at work early today, which caused misunderstandings and contradictions between mothers and grievances and pains in my heart. I communicated with children and parents respectively. I deeply understand children and parents. The biggest source of mistakes is the emotional handling of problems, which is simple and arbitrary. I don't want this problem to break out again. A study turned the family into a series of parent-child wars. I really don't want to see it, so I'll try my best to tell you something. If you have any good suggestions, please feel free to communicate with us.