How to judge whether a boyfriend is good or not?

Look at his daily necessities. When I go to his house for the first time, I might as well see if his house is neat and clean. Is his room tidy? If his home is messy, or his room is unsightly, it shows that he is a sloppy person who has no interest in life. Then you should seriously consider your boyfriend's living habits. Can you make him change? If you are not sure, will you adapt? If you are not sure, you'd better leave early. Look at the friends he made. Why not take the initiative to invite him to some classmates' parties and friends' dinners to see what kind of friends he has made? As the saying goes, "Birds of a feather flock together." That's the truth. If his friend speaks well, behaves calmly and dresses neatly, it goes without saying that he is also such a person. What do you think of your boyfriend if all his friends eat and drink, say irrelevant things, often say uncivilized things and dress inappropriately? Depending on how he treats children, you can invite him to take care of the children of friends or colleagues. If he refuses your invitation because the child is in trouble, he will not be a good father in the future. If he agrees with your idea and is willing to play with children, then he is patient with children. Even playing games with children regardless of his own image, he must be a good father and husband. He can treat a child like this, and I believe he will love his family, children and you more in the future. Such a man deserves a good association with him. See if he keeps the appointment on time. When dating him, it was scheduled for 8 o'clock, but he arrived at 9 o'clock, and he also found various reasons to explain that he didn't care about you and your date. In his mind, his own time is more important than yours. This is also a sign of disrespect for you. You won't be happy with such a man. Such a man will be self-centered, will not care about other people's ideas, will not consider other people's feelings. Look at his evaluation of his ex-girlfriend. Men who speak ill of their ex-girlfriends are usually unreliable. After all, he was once in love and had many beautiful and touching moments. No matter what the reason was, we should not slander her and speak ill of her. He is a generous man and respects his ex-girlfriend. But if you often praise your ex-girlfriend in front of you, you often say that his ex-girlfriend is good in front of you, which shows that he is still obsessed with his ex-girlfriend and has not completely got out of that relationship. How can he love you? Get along with you Look at that man who has a bad attitude towards his mother. It's best not to go near him. Think about it. It's not good for his own mother. Then he will treat you well. A man's attitude towards his mother can explain his attitude towards women. A man who respects and loves his mother will also know how to love his wife, but it should be noted that if a man relies too much on his mother and listens to him, whether right or wrong, he will do as required as long as his mother gives the order, and lacks his own thinking ability and independence, such a man will not be manly. See how he treats money. When eating or shopping with men, some men will scramble to pay the bill, which is not his generous performance, but his desire for control. If he is generous, he can pay the money for other reasons before you finish eating, and when you see something, he will quietly settle the bill for you. And men who are stingy with you, even stingy with eating and shopping, and men who are profligate, often make ends meet and are heavily in debt, it is better not to associate with him. Look at his attitude towards work. In a sense, a person's attitude towards life can be seen from his attitude towards work. Anyone who is conscientious, meticulous and responsible for his work will certainly be like this in life, because it is a habit and habit becomes natural. However, some men are mediocre at work. If they are not satisfied, they will jump ship and jump ship. Therefore, it can be expected that if there is a little setback in the relationship between husband and wife one day, he will also escape or walk away. See if he is mentally healthy. Boyfriend satirizes or laughs at others in front of you. In fact, they are raising themselves by belittling others and letting you know how capable and smart he is. This kind of man is mentally unhealthy. Some men get angry for no reason. Sometimes they yell at the TV because of a TV program or an actor's line. When eating, they will find trouble with the waiter for various reasons. If he behaves like this, he may be mentally hidden, may develop into depression, and may have domestic violence. Therefore, he must stay away from this kind of man. How to judge whether a boyfriend is good or not 2. How to judge whether a boyfriend is a playboy 1? A playboy often feels guilty. When he comes home late, you will find that he is always looking at his face, observing his complexion, obviously increasing things according to your wishes, being extremely sensitive to changes in your attitude and tone of voice, and being extremely sensitive to your emotional interaction with him. After all, thieves are bound to have a guilty conscience, and it is normal for them to feel sorry for you. 2. Playboy often deletes phone records. In the column of telephone records, most outgoing calls and answering calls will be full of records. Once his phone records are often incomplete, you can wonder if he deleted both incoming and outgoing calls before going home. Usually only when he deletes it will there be an incomplete record, in order to ensure that there will be no playboy record left in the mobile phone. 3. When a playboy man comes home from the control of his mobile phone, he always puts his mobile phone beside him carefully. Moreover, no matter whether it is the ringing tone of the incoming call or the prompt tone of the short message, he will pick it up and check it alone for the first time, and reply to the short message is also carried out quietly. Sometimes when the phone rings, you don't answer it immediately in front of you, but go to an inaudible place and answer the phone in a low voice. How to know more about your boyfriend 1 and whether he has faith? Faith is extremely important to people. Men mainly rely on faith to decide their behavior. A person who has no faith at all means that he can decide whether to abide by any rules, morals and customs of human society according to his likes and dislikes. Actually, he just believes in himself. He will decide his behavior according to his own interests, and will not consider the interests of others according to socially recognized moral standards. Few people can predict his behavior. 2, the use of time, mainly how to arrange the time after work. Do you like being alone or are you willing to eat, drink and have fun with others? Do you like exercising? 3. Do you have any hobbies that you are deeply involved in? Are these hobbies at home or outdoors? Whether it is individual behavior or collective participation, whether spending money is unrewarded or whether future generations may benefit, whether they enjoy it alone or others can participate, whether it is adult behavior or Xian Yi, young and old, and so on. He attaches importance to his career, whether it is career priority or family priority, so it is impossible to give consideration to both. There must be priorities at critical moments. What's a girl without a boyfriend like? 1. You can live the life you want. When you are single, you are only responsible for yourself. This gives you more space to release your passion, pursue your dreams and live at your own pace. 2. You can control your own time. As long as you want to do something, just do it. No need to explain, no need to hand in the plan or get permission. When you are single, the allocation of time depends on your own decision, not the result of two people's consultation. 3. Indulge in romantic soap operas and admit that your greatest entertainment is romantic soap operas. Fantasize that you are the first and have a perfect love ending. It's time to adjust your preferences. When deceptive entertainment erodes all your leisure time, its influence is very dangerous. 4. Men and women who have been single for a long time will become more and more independent and become strong women. All the details of life should be blocked by yourself. Over time, you began to be as careless as a man and became a man. This is enough to make any opposite sex flinch from you. How should a boyfriend treat a girl 1 and send her text messages every day? It's not always "I love you", but it must be expressed. It is best to guess at night that she will turn off her phone and sleep before sending it, so that every morning when she turns it on, she can read your good intentions and feel like eating honey. Never think that sweet words are unnecessary. Women are the most insecure animals. Direct words are the most information that can make her feel safe. 2. Traveling together can take her to a completely strange place. In the bustling crowd, there are no familiar people, only your hand is all she relies on. You can also take her to a deserted suburb. This is a big place. Only you and her, the two hearts will become more sincere and close in nature. My girlfriend is ill, so I will take medicine by myself. In women's eyes, a happy marriage, regardless of sickness, health, poverty and wealth, is bound to leave men. Therefore, a woman's illness is the most vulnerable and helpless moment that needs to be taken care of. When a man gives a woman medicine by hand, it will make her cry, which is likely to be a sweet memory for a woman's life. 4. Cook a big meal for her to eat. Men are willing to cook for women and wait for their loved ones to come home, so women will have a sense of happiness that they are respected and cared for. This makes women feel that their love is not polluted and enjoy the real happiness brought by men's actions in the traditional male superiority. How to judge whether a boyfriend is good 3 1? After the quarrel, you will admit your mistake. Take Bian Xiao as an example! What kind of emotional intelligence does Bian Xiao belong to? Under normal circumstances, she won't get angry. She is very calm when she meets anything, but sometimes it is inevitable for her boyfriend and girlfriend to quarrel. In life, I know that most boyfriends and boyfriends quarrel. After analysis, if a man loves you, he will find a step after the quarrel, or apologize to you in disguise. Why? Men have strong self-esteem. A boy can apologize to you, which shows that he loves you in his heart, because some things will be cherished after quarreling. If a boy wants you to admit his mistake, it means that he has put down his face. His world only has you, so a boy who doesn't love you will forget about it and just follow suit. 2. In life, boyfriends and boyfriends sometimes quarrel over some things. There are many factors in quarreling, and quarreling is inevitable. Sometimes it's a condiment in life, even if you have unforgivable reasons, that's another way of saying it. If a boy usually fights with you, you can leave him, because a boy who loves you won't hit a girl. It is said that men's fists are used to fight the world, not to beat women. If you meet a man who hits a woman, Bian Xiao reminds you to be ready to break up. . . 3. ignore you. When a man doesn't catch up with you, you are the first thing he doesn't think about. He even thinks about you when he sleeps, and his mind is all on you. He thinks about how to do romantic things with you every day. When a man has you, he feels that this is a very common thing. Without the previous enthusiasm, when love passed the shelf life, you began to quarrel. After the quarrel, he will find an excuse to do what he likes, such as playing games and drinking with friends, instead of comforting after the quarrel, so after the quarrel, tell the boy who ignores you not to put you first in his heart, and then you should know your position in his heart. 4. After the quarrel, I put the blame on you. No matter what kind of quarrel, during the quarrel, he will always find a reason to explain your fault and never give in. This kind of boy will not give in at all, but will only make girls more sad and desperate and vulnerable to injustice. After the quarrel, he will not take the initiative to comfort the girl but walk away directly. These are not men who really love you, and they will only find a bunch of reasons to blame you. On the contrary, boys who love you will regret themselves after quarreling.