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Love is not only sweet and romantic, but with the increase of time spent together and the accumulation of various trivial matters in life, when the passion for love fades, the plain life is the time to truly test the feelings of two people.

Many couples can spend the love period happily together, but it is difficult to spend the dull period of their feelings stably. When they get to know each other better and better, and find that their life together doesn't seem as good as they thought, they will easily get bored and have no intention to manage their relationship.

Does the weakening of feelings mean that the other person does not love himself? In fact, it is normal for people who love each other to lose their feelings. When you realize that the relationship between two people is not as good as before, you don't have to panic. You can try the following methods to make your feelings warm up again.

1. Express your feelings

The more familiar people are, sometimes people are not used to expressing their feelings to their partners. You love each other very much, but you are too lazy to say it. You realize that the other person has paid less attention to you recently, and you want him/her to care more about you, but you are embarrassed to say it. Hide this grievance in your heart and bear it silently.

You want the other person to understand you, but if you don't say it, how will your partner know what you want?

Communication and communication are very important ways to maintain feelings. Couples should know how to communicate. Communication can promote mutual trust and only trust can maintain a stable relationship.

When you notice that there is something wrong with your relationship model, you must communicate with your lover in time. In communication, remember to solve emotional problems, find out problems and find solutions, instead of blaming each other and complaining, and regard communication as a criticism meeting.

Understand your partner's needs

When two people's feelings fade, they often have nothing to say. Even if we get along, we don't know what to say. This kind of getting along makes both of them feel embarrassed and don't know how to break the deadlock.

At this time, you can take the initiative to do something to deal with this embarrassing situation, try to understand each other's needs, do some targeted actions, and take the initiative to care about your other half.

Many couples or lovers, in this embarrassing situation, will wonder whether they will lose face if they take the initiative first, care too much about the face problem, and will only slowly kill their feelings in the end.

A partner who respects and loves you will only be moved, feel loved and cherish you more, instead of thinking that you have lost to each other.

Relive the good old days

Think about the good memories when two people first started together. The dullness of life sometimes makes people ignore a lot of beauty. When feelings fade, give each other a chance. This signal reminds you not to be too lazy to pay attention to some beautiful things in your relationship because you have been together for a long time.

Choose a day when only two people get along, do something you like together, go to a place you have been to before, or a restaurant, or spend a quiet day at home, watch movies, cook together, do something interesting or boring together, and enjoy a good time with only two people.