Girls don't return your messages, they only answer the phone.

Answering messages or not answering the phone?

Black lover

Baijiahao 04-1015:15

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My brothers often ask me that girls often don't return messages and answer the phone, which makes many brothers confused in the process of interacting with girls. This is also a common problem. Usually, the common solution for most boys to this problem is to keep asking girls questions, or keep calling girls until she answers. Some boys feel that this situation can only be admitted by themselves, and they will feel that girls are slow and casual in returning messages.

We often don't think that you and she may have a good development, but because you didn't correct it in time, the final outcome is completely hopeless. Even some brothers directly questioned girls, because they couldn't bear this difficult waiting and finally became very bad.

We can say that many times, the fundamental reason why girls don't return your messages is because you are not attractive enough, you are not attracted to yourself, and girls are not attracted to some of your actions. In other words, a girl may find you particularly boring when chatting with you, which makes her uninterested.

For example, why do you always expect her to give you back information? That's because she attracts you, you see the value in her, everything you expect, and your value is unilateral. You just look for the value you want, but you don't show the value they want to girls, so you are a passer-by in their eyes.

So usually, if a girl doesn't answer your phone or return your messages, you must keep these two points in mind here.

1. For girls, everyone wants to get more attention, so she has no reason not to give boys more contact information, but for girls who are more beautiful, there may be more.

2. Girls themselves are expecting boys to contact them, but what is puzzling here is that even if men don't get through to her, they still want to keep hearing calls.

When you know these two points, you can basically judge why girls don't answer your phone or why they are slow to reply to you. To put it bluntly, for a girl, they never lack boys, but often in their eyes, you may be just one of many boys.

So what should we do with girls who don't answer the phone or return messages?

First of all, if it's a girl you just met and you just got her contact information, then we can call her the next day. If she doesn't answer your phone, then my suggestion is that you can keep calling her until she answers, but you must pay attention to one key point. You must not call more than four times, because usually, if a girl calls more than four times in a row, she is a little out of line.