In life, I will not hesitate to borrow money from others. What are the ways to borrow money?

1. It is not difficult to borrow again if you have borrowed and paid back-as long as your character is good enough, you will not worry about not borrowing money.

If you are sincere, the stone will open-as long as your heart is sincere enough, you won't worry about borrowing money.

Help others sincerely, help others-what you usually do to others, others will do to you when you are in trouble.

Therefore, to borrow money is not to borrow when needed, but to help others more at ordinary times, to be sincere to others, and to ask for money with sincerity and affection.

People can't walk and survive in society without asking for help, and the most difficult thing to ask for help is to find someone to borrow money, especially many people who don't pay back the money. Therefore, it is even more difficult to find someone to borrow money successfully, but in many cases, it is difficult to avoid finding someone to borrow money, otherwise some hurdles will not pass. So, is there any skill in this? Here are five high EQ borrowing skills! Once you master it, you can not only borrow money, but also win good popularity and go to society!

1. Borrow money from others. Speak softly, lower your posture, and don't take your face seriously, because you are asking others to lend you money. If you don't respect others enough, or don't let others feel your sincerity, why should they lend you money? To say the least, even if it is difficult for others to refuse you because of your relationship or because of your high status, others will be very uncomfortable and complain about you.

2. Borrow money from others. When you speak, you must make it clear when you will pay back the money. You can't vaguely say "I'll pay you back later" or "I'll pay you back when I have more money" Such words lack sincerity in paying back the money. Others feel that there is no guarantee to lend you money, so naturally they will not rest assured to lend you money. Don't underestimate this. Most people are very sensitive to anything involving money. After all, no one's money was blown by the wind.

3, find someone to borrow money, never lie to others, be honest. Some people will try their best to find excuses in order to borrow money. All kinds of bad sales are actually cheating others to borrow money. This may make people feel sympathy and succeed for a while, but once someone finds out that you are lying, they will regard you as a dishonest person, not to mention that it is impossible to borrow money next time, and the relationship will break down directly.

4, find someone to borrow money, when others refuse you, you must not say angry words, do not say words that hurt your feelings. For example, people refuse you and say, I'm really sorry, I'm short of money recently and I can't help you. If you say: Why do I borrow money from you, you will be short of money. What a coincidence. This suspicion of others is very hurtful. Even if you know that others are looking for an excuse to refuse you, you can't tear your face like this, otherwise your emotional intelligence will be too low.

5, find someone to borrow money, don't have too many explanations, it is best to come straight to the point. If the other party is willing to borrow it, you don't have to waste your breath, but you will lend it to you. If the other party doesn't want to borrow it, you are wasting your breath. Cut to the chase and say that you want to borrow money, but the other party refuses. Just say, "it's okay, I'll figure something out." If you find a lot of reasons and explain a lot, and the other party rejects you, then the other party is even more embarrassed.

Finding someone to borrow money is an important aspect of doing things in society. Most people sometimes ask for money. The key is to master the art and speaking skills of high emotional intelligence. The above sharing is centered around these two points. In this regard, if you want to know more, the following two books are recommended to you: The Art of Doing Things and High Emotional Intelligence is Comfortable.

The art of doing things, knowing a little about the world every day, playing tricks and hidden rules are a set of books, which I carefully selected and shared with you. Click on the link above to choose the art of doing things alone, or choose a set to read.

Specifically, The Art of Doing Things can be said to be a "book of doing things" for walking the society, which not only invites people to do things, including borrowing money, but also has practical wisdom to help people do things. After reading and using the book "The Art of Doing Things", you can also become a master of doing things, which is well worth reading.

The above book "High Emotional Intelligence Speaking Comfortable" shares a lot of high emotional intelligence speaking skills through a large number of wonderful cases full of grounding gas, and comprehensively improves your emotional intelligence and speaking level. Intensive reading of the book "High EQ means comfortable speaking", combined with your own practice, can make you win good popularity in interpersonal communication and make everything easier to succeed! If you want to improve your EQ and speaking ability, then don't miss the book "High EQ means speaking comfortably"!

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