Do you hate returning work messages after work? What do you usually do?

Many people in the workplace should have experienced such a scene. I want to enjoy my time after work in the evening. As a result, it didn't take long for WeChat work group information to pop up, allowing you to handle a certain job. Personally, I hate returning work information after work. In the face of work information after work, we must be clear about our position in the workplace, use the content of the information to determine whether it is important, and decide whether we need to return according to the importance. In addition, we should also establish boundaries with others in our daily work.

1, define your career orientation.

For ordinary migrant workers, if you are new to the workplace or in the rising period of the workplace, your own strength is not strong enough to take the initiative, and your demand for work is greater than your need for work. At this time, replying to the work message may be the most correct choice.

You know, at this time, we still have many immediate difficulties, and we have no right to be willful.

Who doesn't want to be a shopkeeper after work, who doesn't return work news and doesn't care about the world? But this can only be thought about. After all, we have a mortgage, a car loan, flowers, lipstick, bags and so on. And we don't have this confidence.

Some people may say, "Quit, all roads lead to Rome."

If there is a better choice, you can naturally do this. Everyone's workplace situation is different, and choosing a company that suits you better is also a good way out.

But if you just complain and don't want to change or leave, the result may be "you have reached the highest position, which is where you are now."

Step 2 judge according to the content

Work messages are so complicated that it is impossible for every message to decide whether you will stay or not, so not every message should be answered.

Do you want to reply to a work message? Don't judge by time, judge by content. If the content is important, return it; If it's not important, go back.

Because of different industries, it is difficult for us to pick out specific work news content for targeted answers. So we can only judge from the content of * * *.

If this content is very urgent and important, and you need to make a decision immediately, or it must be completed on the same day, then reply in time. If the message is not so urgent and important, but just a trivial matter, you can choose to delay the reply.

At the same time, consider the situation of the person who sent you the message. You know, it is not necessarily your boss who sends you work news, but also your colleagues.

Therefore, whether to reply or not should also consider the other party's situation. If the other party is in a very anxious situation, it may be because you have not replied, and the other party will be adversely affected. Helping others in time is also a virtue.

Sometimes we will encounter unreasonable job requirements, for example, some jobs are not so urgent, and the other party is originally responsible. The other party is just afraid of trouble, so it will be pushed to you to solve it.

In this case, just refuse directly, and you don't have to choose forbearance to show your attitude for the sake of superficial harmony. This is actually more professional.

3. Establish boundaries with others

If you want to receive as little news about work as possible after work, you can also tell us in various ways that it is necessary and beneficial to establish a certain boundary between life and work, although it is difficult to distinguish the two.

The ability to establish boundaries includes the ability to perceive boundaries, the ability to set reasonable boundaries, and the ability to reject others.

Timely report the progress and completion of important matters to superiors, set the completion time for unfinished work, and inform leading colleagues. In this way, to a certain extent, people can avoid disturbing themselves after work.

The world of adults is not easy. When we shoulder the burden of work and rush to the front, the ultimate goal is to let us have a better life.

The premise of pursuing a better life is to deal with the immediate difficulties first. As ordinary workers, if we still have a lot of days to live, then calm down and secretly accumulate strength to make ourselves irreplaceable. The status quo can't be changed for a while, so we should find ways to improve the concept of dealing with problems and solve them.

In this way, we will gradually reduce the annoyance caused by the intrusion of work on life and avoid being entangled in negative energy. Only in this way can we take advantage of the present opportunity to climb up and master more initiative in life and work.