How should I deal with my husband’s frequent text messages? Someone with a scheming mind comes to help

Personal suggestion: Don’t go looking for that woman. It’s best for the two of you to resolve matters between you and your husband. It seems that you still have high hopes for your current family. You have great hope and don't want to destroy it, so you have two ways: First, pretend not to know, be nice to your husband, of course, including all aspects, especially the mental aspect, and let him change his mind on his own. The second is to expose this matter to your husband face to face. This may require some courage. Don't get excited or quarrel. Just say that you have known about this matter for a long time and wait until you look back. Now that the matter has been explained clearly to you, call him. He made a choice, which inadvertently gave him a sense of guilt. Plus, he was a scholar, so he would change his mind. After all, starting a family is not easy. You have to think about it before making a decision. After all, you still have to make the decision yourself. I wish you success.