Why is it that children's procrastination and procrastination in homework is directly related to parents' urging?

Supervision seems to help children form good habits, but in fact it just drags down their homework. Appropriate intervention by parents will help them to a certain extent, but if parents use the wrong specific methods, it is likely that the loss will outweigh the gain.

In most cases, the louder the parents urge, the slower the children think and write. Parents' urging makes children in a negative emotional state such as anxiety, fear and depression, and children under great emotional pressure can't really enter the learning situation. When depressed emotions are not relieved, children's brain thinking operation will begin to "fail". Parental supervision will seriously undermine students' confidence in learning, especially when the homework topic has a certain difficulty coefficient, and parental supervision can easily make children feel "I am stupid".

Think about what parents must do to get their children to do their homework. When they lose confidence in their studies, parents' urging will only lead to children's negative evaluation of individuals, and also make them more immersed in learning resistance, unable to recognize their own learning level, which invisibly increases the difficulty coefficient of learning and cultivates students' weariness of learning.

1. Correct shaping of children's study habits

Good habits can guide children to overcome inner laziness and slack, but it is not easy to form good habits. In the process of cultivating habits, parents must have a moderate supervisory role, but parents must remember to maintain good care, have reasonable expectations for the main performance of children's behavior, and gradually promote their personal goals to achieve the fundamental purpose of developing good habits.

2. Pay attention to the shaping of children's time consciousness

Children with a sense of time perform better in execution. If parents can strengthen the concept of time in their children's minds, they will be more conscious and active in grasping the progress of their work. Why don't parents set a time limit for their children to complete each part of their work in the form of setting an alarm clock, so that children can have a clearer understanding of the length of time.

3. Reduce the stimulating effect on the environment

A simple and comfortable environment can help children find a state of concentration. Therefore, parents should try their best to make the desk clean and there is no other sound in the environment when tutoring their children. Some parents have a good habit of watching their children play mobile phones while doing their homework, which is actually very easy to distract their children and endanger their studies. When parents supervise their children's homework, why don't they also take out a book to read? Under the influence of "companion concentration", children are more likely to enter the situation of concentration like their parents.

Remarks on bedside parenting education: Parents should not only help their children solve problems, but also pay attention to shaping each other's good behavior habits. To stimulate children's learning motivation and effectively solve children's bad habit of procrastination, parents need to master guidance methods and maintain enough concern.