When my friend gets married, I will give him 2000. I received a text message at night saying that I should not contact again in the future. Is it less than 2000?

My friend got married, and I paid 2000 yuan. I suddenly received a text message from my friend at night. Told me not to contact again. In fact, if this happens, I think there must be something wrong with the giver who attended the wedding. It must be that you two have a common holiday. It is very likely that people think that your bride price is definitely different from what others think. Maybe you owe others a favor, or you owe them a gift giver. There is no equivalence at all, which makes people feel unbalanced. So, it's sad that your friends tell you that they won't contact each other in the future. I think you should pay attention to it immediately, reflect on it and see if you are normal. You owe a lot to others. If others give you a lot and give you more gifts, then you give them too little in return, so they are very sad, which is normal.

I remember this was when my son went to college and I had a wedding reception. At that time, many people came to the ceremony, and everyone was happy for their children to go to college. When I got home, I opened the ledger. There is an old leader with whom I get along well. I always give him a generous red envelope during the Spring Festival to express his gratitude to me, so we keep in touch frequently. And after so many years, nothing has happened at home.

So when the child goes to college, I think he will naturally get a big red envelope. But as soon as I saw his name and whose room, I found that she had no money to buy this gift. During the New Year, I visited him at his home more often. That's why I said, sometimes people don't know how to reciprocate, so we just know it in our hearts, and we don't have to send text messages to slowly alienate ourselves. This kind of person will do.

I have been in this situation before. I have a fellow countryman who is also a colleague of mine. He usually has contacts. He married his daughter in the Spring Festival the year before last and put wine in his hometown. I happened to be in my hometown during the Spring Festival, so I gladly went to ... His family served wine in the countryside, and we both worked in the SAR. We should be very enthusiastic. After I went, he greeted me warmly and introduced some guests. This and that always come back from the Pearl River Delta by car. I thought I was there, too When I went to the cashier to pay the red envelope, I found that there were 5 thousand yuan, 10 thousand yuan and 20 thousand yuan on the ledger. At that time, only a red envelope of two thousand yuan was sealed. I thought we were just fellow villagers, and we didn't have any business dealings at ordinary times. Two thousand yuan is enough. However, when I came out, he just asked me to sit casually, without arranging a seat, and then greeted others ... Our countryside was full of running water seats, and I was a foreigner. No one in his family and village knew me except him, and no one called me for dinner, which made me very embarrassed and angry! So he got up and left. Later, he didn't call to thank me, let alone explain. I have never contacted such a person again. Typical villain success! With a little power and flattery, you have no idea how small you are! It is expected that this character is so high and the culture is not high, so it is impossible to go too far! It is even more impossible to make great achievements! Shit, this 2000 yuan only buys dog food …

2000 yuan is really a lot of money, which is equivalent to the salary of many people for one month or half a month.

You directly lost so much money this trip, and you also lost this friendship and relationship.

Personally, I suggest you go straight to the door and get your money back, so you can't take advantage of each other in the future.

Money is a gift and friendship. When you get married, you don't have to pay as much as you want.

It is a problem that people can't reach. It doesn't matter how much money you have.

If you are really friends, you won't care so much, even if it's only one or two hundred, it doesn't matter. This is a friend.

In the early days, everyone got married for good luck and money because the family was really poor. Everyone gave some money to help and help.

The evolution of the times to the present has become a bad social atmosphere, from which we can't help thinking about some problems.

In fact, in today's words, money is a magic mirror. When you get married, take a photo and you will know which one is your real friend.

Many people say that the friendship between colleagues in the workplace is "as light as water".

Don't look at each other all day long, "hook up" and be as close as brothers.

But colleagues also know that today's colleagues may be passers-by tomorrow, and it is normal for colleagues to jump ship for the future. Therefore, the "sweet words" between colleagues are just words that are not taken seriously.

However, after a few years in the workplace, the style of one of my colleagues changed my opinion. .....

Xiao Wang is my "master" who just joined the company. I call him "master" and "master" half jokingly and half seriously.

Xiao Wang entered school two years before me. The manager asked me to study more with him.

Xiao Wang has a generous personality. He taught me what I should master in the company, but he also gave me the experience of dealing with people that I can learn in the company.

By rights, he has no such obligation. I am very grateful to him. Invited him to dinner, and Xiao Wang didn't let me pay the bill. He said, you just went to work and didn't make any money. When you are skilled and get a raise, invite me again.

Working for one year, I am going to marry my girlfriend who has been in love for many years.

Because I haven't been in for a long time, I said hello to my boss, gave my colleagues a wedding candy, and didn't say "invitation" to avoid embarrassment when people didn't want to go.

Xiao Wang also gave me a "cope". Say, the host must drink your wedding banquet.

I also listened as a guest. Unexpectedly, on the wedding day, Xiao Wang really came. He handed me a red envelope. It was stuffed with 888 yuan.

I have a lot of money, and I can still have good meaning. I think it is my luck to know a colleague like Xiao Wang.

My mother-in-law suddenly fell ill and was hospitalized last year. I have also posted a little savings. Even if you live, you have to pick and choose. Colleagues all know that I have no money.

In May, Xiao Wang got married. I think Xiao Wang helped me a lot. No matter how poor you are, you should squeeze out a "big red envelope" for others.

I stuffed 2000 yuan in the red envelope.

On Xiao Wang's wedding day, I paid a red envelope. Xiao Wang originally refused, but when someone called him, he accepted.

The wedding was very lively. After dinner, I received his WeChat as soon as I got home:

The red envelope given by your boy is too small.

What do you mean? I look a little dizzy. Less than 2000 yuan?

Wechat sent by Xiao Wang again:

When you make a lot of money, give me a big red envelope Knowing that life is tight now, you don't have to follow the gift.

Then there is the information of Xiao Wang's WeChat transfer, and he returned 2000 yuan intact.

2000 is quite a lot. In our friends in Wenzhou, it is generally 2000-3000, but it is basically 2000. Some of them are very close and very rich. This is not necessarily the case. There are tens of thousands, depending on the hand. If your friend is very rich and you don't have much money, are you afraid that someone will give you an 8888 when you get married? When he gets married, you should at least go back to 9999. Therefore, there are too many friends in Wenzhou, and half of those who can be human will go back. I dare not accept it. Of course, if the owner has good conditions, I will accept it all. Wenzhou has a high popularity in China. So 2000 is enough to get married.

/kloc-I got married in 0/7, and all my friends were in 2000. There are several 3000. Some rich friends said to send more, but I refused all of them. I'm afraid I can't go back in the future.

2000 yuan is really not a small sum in a small place like ours.

Even more.

But I don't know what the market is like in big cities.

It should be impossible for your friends not to like you without a gift.

For example, I'm just making an analogy. When you got married, your friend gave you a gift of 5000 yuan or even 10000 yuan.

After he gets married, you get 2000, your financial conditions,

It's really good. Then your friend's behavior is actually understandable.

Because you really don't deserve to be contacted,

When I got married, one of my girlfriends just got divorced and lost her job.

So she gave me a gift from 500 yuan.

Besides, she got married early, so I gave her 2000.

Although she gave me little, I know she gave almost everything.

At that time, she was really in a very difficult period, so I understand.

Afterwards, she was specially invited to eat a meal.

It's a good thing you came to me. There's no need to be too serious,

Everyone's financial ability is different. Maybe those with good economic conditions will pay more with gifts.

And there will be fewer poor economic conditions,

There is no need to use this to locate the relationship between friends.

If your friends really don't like you to pay less for no reason,

Then don't contact if you don't contact.

It's worthwhile to see a person clearly for 2000 yuan.

Now the ceremony is getting higher and higher. My friend married her high school classmate in a ceremony, and then she married herself and invited her classmates. The classmates ignored her directly and later blacked her out.

In fact, it's only because of friendship that you follow the ceremony, but others will come back with you when they get married. Chances are that if you get married, she will come back more often than you do now, or she is the kind of person who likes to take advantage of others.

Tell a story that happened to me to accompany a gift. A few years ago, my friend's son got married, and I wanted to be close, so I followed hundreds more. Later, my son got married, and others only paid back half. Later, I learned that I had a son and a daughter, and others broke up and paid them back, so I didn't lose money. Alas, as a result, my daughter got married, so no one else can escape. It also made me see others clearly.

It is probably true that the gift money is lower than my friend's previous money. Really no more, no less than 2000. I've met it before. My gift was given from my friend's point of view, but when my friend accompanied me, he was just like an ordinary colleague. I was really cold at that time. Later, I thought about it and didn't say anything, because if I did or didn't, my friend could only give me a gift in my heart. Give me a present. To some extent, there are more and more friends, but in fact, there are fewer and fewer friends who have seats in their hearts. People can't help themselves in the Jianghu.

Specific situation, specific analysis:

My friend told me that his cousin got married before him. At the wedding, he gave a bride price of 3,000 yuan. Soon, his cousin's child was born and the wine was served. He gave him 3000 yuan as a gift. He lags behind his cousin in these two things.

When I got married, my cousin gave a gift of 1000 yuan.

His child was born with wine, and his cousin didn't get any gifts. On the day of drinking, his cousin called him and told him the reason why he couldn't be present, and didn't mention the money at all.

Now that the network is so developed, Alipay and WeChat can transfer money at any time. People can't arrive, and money can be earned at any time!

You don't need to add money to the interpersonal relationship between relatives and friends. How much I pay, how much you return. Don't be short of weight and make the parties uncomfortable.

My friend said that I don't even understand the most basic human accidents, so I will have less contact in the future.

The gift of 2000 yuan between friends is not small. As the old saying goes, gifts are lighter than friendship, which means that your friends care about the money of gifts, not the friendship between you.

I don't often see my classmates and friends getting married on the news. After receiving the money, I was blacked out and couldn't get in touch.

Compared with them, your friend at least told you.

Two thousand dollars to see a person clearly, the price is a bit high, just pay the tuition.

I gave my friend a gift of 2000 yuan when he got married. I received a text message at night saying not to contact again. I will give you an answer to this question.

First of all, the friendship between friends has a gift of 2000 yuan. For the current social economy and consumption level, 2000 yuan is already a lot. For ordinary workers, even in first-tier cities, it takes half a month to get 2000 yuan.

I'll give you some ideas for your reference. Why did your friend send you a message telling you not to contact you in the future after you wrapped this 2000 yuan gift?

First of all, do you give this gift to him yourself or entrust another friend to him? If you entrust another friend to give it to him, it may be that you entrust that friend to intercept the gift money, which leads to your gift money red envelope not being in place.

Second, you should consider whether your friends will pay more than 2,000 yuan in cash when you get married. For example, if you get married, your friend will give you 5000 yuan, and if he gets married, you will only pay back 2000 yuan. If so, you are a little thoughtless.

Third, did you just get the money from the bank counter or did you type it in business? Have you checked whether there is counterfeit money in it? If you are involved in counterfeit money, I will be angry, and I will fight for others to get married, which will be more festive. What's with you giving some counterfeit money?

The above is my personal opinion. You can refer to them. If none of the above conditions exist, if your friend thinks that the gift of 2000 yuan is too small, I think your friend is not worth socializing with, because friendship cannot be measured by money.